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Posted by WarAngel
Posted by sweethearts
Posted by WarAngel
Thread title explains it all. š
š thanks for that, love the analogy of the dog... makes perfect sense!
Since the other thread is kind of slow, I'm here to answer your questions either by text or vocaroo depending on what kind of answer is required.
If I can't answer you, I'll be honest about it. ā¤ļø
Do guys go through things over and over in their minds as we woman do? Sometimes Iāve gone through reading texts again, just to make sure I was on the right page.. and then Iāve realised I read things wrong.
https://voca.ro/fBVYANme5PDclick to expandPosted by WarAngel
Thread title explains it all. š
Since the other thread is kind of slow, I'm here to answer your questions either by text or vocaroo depending on what kind of answer is required.
If I can't answer you, I'll be honest about it. ā¤ļø
Do guys go through things over and over in their minds as we woman do? Sometimes Iāve gone through reading texts again, just to make sure I was on the right page.. and then Iāve realised I read things wrong.- If you say so, youād know but Iāve had a FWB and havenāt had this much emotion or concern with any of them. In fact the only time we met up was to meet have a few drinks/dinner and then sex and then leaving straight after. No texting or keeping in contact afterwards.
- This isnāt a dig at you, itās an observation but you stated he was a FWB which you mutually decided. I think for you, itās a lot more than that and I think you need to admit that to yourself first and before meeting with him so you know what it is you are asking him for.
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Posted by Vlora93
Pisces who were unemployed, drank too much and blamed everyone else for their problems. ( all 3 said they were not where they wanted to be in life at the time, lived at home and were dating instead of looking for jobs ) asked me out and wanted me to pay for dates and one of them wanted to marry me and move in too.
just curious... did all 3 pisces asked you to solely pay for the dates?
and the other one who wants to move in just don't wanna pay rent?
i've known 2 pisces guys like this... very cheap, used me for money like i'm kinda surprised actually that they have that nature but i guess it makes sense when they're unemployed but idk like the guys i'm talking about aren't even really unemployed but they keep a really tight fist on their money.click to expand
Are they really?? Hate tight arse guys!The user who posted this message has hidden it.
- Isnāt it you that needs to continue making the stand and not sit around worrying about whether he is coming back?
Heās an addict, youāve left so he can sort himself out. If he doesnāt you keep walking??
Also, how does your daughter have no involvement if you were living together? Curious Posted by GemiAwesomeAss
Posted by sweethearts
Why is it for a limited time, are you going somewhere?
Why? Youāll miss him because he is...______________click to expand
No questions, no one on my radar. Donāt know who he is. š¤·āāļø- Why is it for a limited time, are you going somewhere?
Posted by MyStarsShine
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Posted by Queenofthepheasantfairies
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Posted by Queenofthepheasantfairies
Can I just remind people that there are many couples with huge age gaps. 20 is a lot yes, remember Demi Moore and Ashton Kutcher had 16 years between them. And yes I know this differs from person to person, not everyone dates outside of their age with such huge gaps.
BUT....
Why is it acceptable for a 50 year old man to have a young wife of 28 (and no I don't want gold digging comments) but its not OK for a 50 year old woman to have a 28 year old husband?
It just is, itās the way society is and families and friends have a lot to say about it.
Well we all know how stuffed society is. As long as both are legal consenting adults, who cares about age.
Say that when youāve been in that position. Itās not as easy.
Recently a friend was texting a guy in his 20ās, she is 46. People got involved, got the family involved. Long story short, sheās in tears, friendships are fractured... all for what? They were entertaining the idea.
But the guy is an adult so why was his family getting involved?
One was jealous because she wanted the guy so she spoke to his mum. Then my mates friends, spoke with her and suggested, if it is only for fun just drop the whole thing. They pretty much were insistent.
What do you do? You talk to your other friends and then you weigh up... is it worth the drama? Itās a vicious circle āļø, anyway, they arenāt messaging anymore. Seen this happen before. Itās messy!
Sometimes fun between two consenting adults is good š. The most fun ive had is with younger men.
Spoke to his mum? Heās a man not a child and its nothing to do with anyone else who he chooses to be with
Some people hey? š„“click to expand
Yes but when youāre around the same age as their parents. Not sure how old they were but itād be Close.
Plus, itās still like high school. People are always up in everyone elseās business, no matter what age you are. Some people canāt help themselves and want to gossip and stir shit!- lol, I can be a pain in the arse at times but if any guy ever told me to āleave him aloneā and āthereās no pointā Iād believe him!
Next person you meet control your emotional tantrums. The user who posted this message has hidden it.
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Posted by Queenofthepheasantfairies
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Posted by Queenofthepheasantfairies
Can I just remind people that there are many couples with huge age gaps. 20 is a lot yes, remember Demi Moore and Ashton Kutcher had 16 years between them. And yes I know this differs from person to person, not everyone dates outside of their age with such huge gaps.
BUT....
Why is it acceptable for a 50 year old man to have a young wife of 28 (and no I don't want gold digging comments) but its not OK for a 50 year old woman to have a 28 year old husband?
It just is, itās the way society is and families and friends have a lot to say about it.
Well we all know how stuffed society is. As long as both are legal consenting adults, who cares about age.
Say that when youāve been in that position. Itās not as easy.
Recently a friend was texting a guy in his 20ās, she is 46. People got involved, got the family involved. Long story short, sheās in tears, friendships are fractured... all for what? They were entertaining the idea.
But the guy is an adult so why was his family getting involved?click to expand
One was jealous because she wanted the guy so she spoke to his mum. Then my mates friends, spoke with her and suggested, if it is only for fun just drop the whole thing. They pretty much were insistent.
What do you do? You talk to your other friends and then you weigh up... is it worth the drama? Itās a vicious circle āļø, anyway, they arenāt messaging anymore. Seen this happen before. Itās messy!Posted by Queenofthepheasantfairies
Posted by sweethearts
Posted by Queenofthepheasantfairies
Can I just remind people that there are many couples with huge age gaps. 20 is a lot yes, remember Demi Moore and Ashton Kutcher had 16 years between them. And yes I know this differs from person to person, not everyone dates outside of their age with such huge gaps.
BUT....
Why is it acceptable for a 50 year old man to have a young wife of 28 (and no I don't want gold digging comments) but its not OK for a 50 year old woman to have a 28 year old husband?
It just is, itās the way society is and families and friends have a lot to say about it.
Well we all know how stuffed society is. As long as both are legal consenting adults, who cares about age.click to expand
Say that when youāve been in that position. Itās not as easy.
Recently a friend was texting a guy in his 20ās, she is 46. People got involved, got the family involved. Long story short, sheās in tears, friendships are fractured... all for what? They were entertaining the idea.Posted by Queenofthepheasantfairies
Can I just remind people that there are many couples with huge age gaps. 20 is a lot yes, remember Demi Moore and Ashton Kutcher had 16 years between them. And yes I know this differs from person to person, not everyone dates outside of their age with such huge gaps.
BUT....
Why is it acceptable for a 50 year old man to have a young wife of 28 (and no I don't want gold digging comments) but its not OK for a 50 year old woman to have a 28 year old husband?
It just is, itās the way society is and families and friends have a lot to say about it.Posted by AriesNYBrooklyn
Posted by sweethearts
Definitely donāt do anything youāve suggested! Wait till you bump into her again and see if she Is into you. Youāll know if she is, and if you donāt see it. It probably isnāt there. If sheās in her 40ās the gap is doable but if sheās in her 50ās probably not even a consideration. Sheāll have kids your age!
A general conversation of weather and day to day small talk would be a better way to start before full on hitting her up on a date. Donāt be in such a rush.
She doesnāt gave any kids so she doesnāt have that mental package āoh no heās like my sonāclick to expand
And she hasnāt got any friends that have kids your age?? Trust me, I am off that age and I have friends that also feel and think that when the situation arises. Woman are frowned upon if they date younger unlike men. 10 years... ok but 20 or more??? You really stop and think!- Why are you allowing these guys to pick you? You should be the one choosing who you date. If you donāt feel anything from the get go, listen to yourself and donāt go. Dating out of boredom clearly doesnāt get you anywhere.
Now, If there is someone that interests you, then thatās the person you go on a date with. Chances of it being more successful is because there is some type of chemistry to begin with. - Definitely donāt do anything youāve suggested! Wait till you bump into her again and see if she Is into you. Youāll know if she is, and if you donāt see it. It probably isnāt there. If sheās in her 40ās the gap is doable but if sheās in her 50ās probably not even a consideration. Sheāll have kids your age!
A general conversation of weather and day to day small talk would be a better way to start before full on hitting her up on a date. Donāt be in such a rush. Posted by pinkbird03
I dated a similar Pisces. He wouldnāt let me in or get close to him. Yet we talked multiple times a week and saw each other only a little bit. He eventually pulled away and I moved on too. Itās been 3 months now. However! Not long ago he reached out to say sorry and he wanted another chance if I was single and he blamed himself for everything. I actually felt bad! Poor guy. I think itās their nature to swim back and forth.
And did you give him that second chance? Sadly, They all seem to be like this from what others have experienced and shared here.- How old is your child?
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