Posted by aquatar1Posted by WeedsPosted by aquatar1Posted by WeedsPosted by aquatar1Posted by WeedsPosted by aquatar1Posted by WeedsPosted by aquatar1Posted by Weeds
I guess thread broke from quoting cant see your reply.
Ok nevermind, sorry im a gemini venus and flip flop ahah, I took your advice and messaged him about avoiding me. He assumed I was avoiding him apparently. We had a chat about it. I'm still a little confused but at least I wasnt ghosted? lol Thank you for all your help!!
No biggie hope you dont have anymore problems LOL
Ummm so I got ghosted again....idk why. but this time hes not watching my snapchat anymore.... is that really bad?? IDK what I did we were talking fine then boom ghosted....
Sometimes it's just "Me Time" your dealing with a virgo who are natural loners. This happens every now and again.
He went ghost for a week...longest hes gone MIA. And last time he ghosted he was still watching my story/snap....yet now he chose not to despite bang online. Does that mean he no longer cares??
Should I say something or text again?
No don't do anything. Just do you for the meantime. preoccupy yourself.
We can go months without contact.. it doesn't mean we ghosted anybody or its over. We just need time to ourselves.
He's never been like this in the time that I've known him though.... and it came completely out of nowhere. He initiated contact with me then the day after ghosted.... I kinda wanna reach out to him but I dont know.... do I avoid him in person too?? This is odd
There are stages believe me you'll learn a lot of new things over time. No you don't need to avoid him if you see him in person that's just going to make things awkward and confusing.
BE NORMAL just don't be crazy girlfriend "why haven't you answered my 57 messages"
Hi! So sorry to bug you again.. but this situation is so confusing. He initiated contact with me again after that whole no communication thing...then after a few back and forths, he drops off again and stops responding.... wtf? I know virgos are complex but this is odd....click to expand
Posted by blvckphvse
I expect 50 / 50, never expected a man to provide for me, only to hold up his own end and meet me halfway on the necessities we both use. But of course being one of few women who don't expect a man to provide for her, I end up getting stuck with the ones who won't even meet halfway. -_-
Posted by _VirgoGent_
I believe financial alignment is a must once the relationship is reaching the stage of marriage. Failure to have alignment in this area is one of the biggest reasons relationships/marriages fail. I need too know how the other person views personal finance and what their financial goals are. I'm a firm believer in living by a budget and knowing where every penny is spent.
I too believe in having a joint account where all of our money is initially pooled. We will then pay our bills out of it. We'll also have a joint savings account for emergency funds and investment purposes. A certain percentage of our monthly income will go into that. I do not want our monthly expenses to ever exceed 50% of our income. I'd be most comfortable around no more than 30% .
Once our necessities are taken care of along with our savings and investments, we'll split the left over as our walking around money, spend as you wish.
Posted by twinkletoesPosted by SassyKiwi
Dxp is usually a dump yard to discuss relationship woes. What about those who don’t need any sexual partners in life? Do y’all exist on here?
Hey look, Sassy. Just because you are a cold-ass cookiemonster, doesn't mean you need to spread your anti-sex movement across the internet.
Who says having a sexual partner means having relationship woes?
Could it be possible to have sex without any drama?click to expand
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Posted by CancerAquaSaggPosted by CancerAquaSagg
Gemini 8th house. I'm super into intellectual men yeah. Teachers nerdy guys etc.
7th*click to expand
Posted by Raakac
That's what most people do tho.. They search similar person 2 themselves as much as possible, some of them even try to mold their partner to someone they want them to be, that's how selfish and self centered they are, they can only love someone that resembles them in someone else...
Posted by _Dazed
There are asexual individuals that DO have sex.
Posted by nanobotPosted by SassyKiwiPosted by nanobotPosted by SassyKiwiPosted by nanobot
Getting too used to one's own cobwebbed dick/vagina or being a virgin or very sexually inexperienced is hardly asexual and I feel like a lot of people would confuse those two things on this site
Yeah I totally agree which is why I want to know about the nature of their relationship experiences if they’ve had any.
I spent a few years voluntarily celibate and I felt as close as I could I think to being "asexual" because the idea of having sex with anyone disgusted me in general and I couldn't even picture it in my head, let alone felt the desire to ever go through with it. I was not asexual. Then I eventually met someone I was actually attracted to and I was turned into a nympho after the celibacy. I think so many of these people just get used to the status quo, forget what it feels like to be touched or kissed after so long. Or maybe they never even did in the first place.
Meanwhile I had a roommate briefly who was a 25 year old virgin, who claimed he was "asexual" but had no problem telling me multiple times he would have sex with me if I wanted to. Riiiiight 🙄🙄🙄 Asexual = involuntarily celibate I guess lol
You were/maybe still are demisexual. You don’t experience sexual attraction until an emotional connection is formed. And yeah your old roommate just needed to get laid.
This guy I didn't have an emotional attachment to though lol, and I had even been attracted to other men I dated but I didn't find them treetrunkable. I think this was based on CHEMISTRY which doesn't necessarily always have to do with physical attraction, imoclick to expand