Posted by S2Phoenix

Posted by Gem03
1) He isn't even your boyfriend
2) God forbid his world and life don't revolve around you *rolls eyes*

you overreacted

Don't know where you read that is said he was? or that it needed to. Seems like you're overreacting too *rolls eyes*

🙄🙄

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-____- Thats my point, he ISN'T.
Also even if he was your bf and he wants to do something else and you want to hang (once in blue moon). Thats not the end of the world. Unless you're in high school lol

Posted by S2Phoenix

Posted by Gem03
1) He isn't even your boyfriend
2) God forbid his world and life don't revolve around you *rolls eyes*

you overreacted

Don't know where you read that is said he was? or that it needed to. Seems like you're overreacting too *rolls eyes*

🙄🙄

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-____- Thats my point, he ISN'T.
Also even if he was your bf and he wants to do something else and you want to hang (once in blue moon). Thats not the end of the world. Unless you're in high school lol

1) He isn't even your boyfriend
2) God forbid his world and life don't revolve around you *rolls eyes*

you overreacted

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Posted by Gem03
It sucks bc he was super consistent and now he doesn't respond at all....

Ah well shoot. Libra men a bit different I guess from the women. Not sure what’s up with this one. Sorry I couldn’t be of more help...

No worries, so I have decided to reach out tomorrow night asking how he is doing if I still do not get a respond. I will cut my losses lmao

I love this type of energy from Gemini's. You guys communicate so well. Ignoring all the hurdles and doing what you want. The consistency is great. It's great that you are unaffected by his reactions and have actually tried your best to keep in contact.
At least you know you tried your best.

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Awh shucks you're making blush.
I usually hear "fuck geminis" Its nice to be appreciated once in a while

Update: I reached out to him this morning and said "haven't heard from you in a while i was wondering how you are doing, also please return my hoodie when you are free and have time" (I lent him mine -an oversized one).

He responded 2 hrs later: "My interview went well, also my bad....I'm gonna be out with my friends on the weekend but are you free next friday?"

I replied and told him im free on sunday night and evenings on the upcoming weekdays.

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Posted by Gem03
It sucks bc he was super consistent and now he doesn't respond at all....

Ah well shoot. Libra men a bit different I guess from the women. Not sure what’s up with this one. Sorry I couldn’t be of more help...

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No worries, so I have decided to reach out tomorrow night asking how he is doing if I still do not get a respond. I will cut my losses lmao

It sucks bc he was super consistent and now he doesn't respond at all....

That ended up the last time I heard from him. The next day i asked how his interview went and I still haven't heard anything from him.

Sighhhhh

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Wellll its been 3 days and no response from him so I guess its over lol

How often do you two talk? Three days in the beginning is a drop in the bucket as far as time goes. Send him a text saying something like, “So you not talking to me anymore?” with a goofy emoji...he’s probably been busy...

Ever since he got my number (when we started talking, so a month). Him and I text every single day at least 2 times. He would always ask me about my day and i would ask him about his, sent him tiktoks. Sometimes it was flirty. Other times about family. I sent a text on Friday night and he has not responded since then.

Ok well hard to know what the problem is then if you two hadn’t argued or anything. If it were me I’d have called after the first day given the communication pattern you guys have created. Why not call him?

I was busy over the weekend and I figured he was too? Didn’t wanna bug him and stuff. I’ll reach out tomorrow if he doesn’t reach out today.

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So I caved in and sent him a light text and asked about his weekend. He responded a couple hrs later. He has an important interview he is studying for then he asked how my weekend was. I was like "oh good luck omg, my weekend was.....take your time, you got this!! lmk how it goes"

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Wellll its been 3 days and no response from him so I guess its over lol

How often do you two talk? Three days in the beginning is a drop in the bucket as far as time goes. Send him a text saying something like, “So you not talking to me anymore?” with a goofy emoji...he’s probably been busy...

Ever since he got my number (when we started talking, so a month). Him and I text every single day at least 2 times. He would always ask me about my day and i would ask him about his, sent him tiktoks. Sometimes it was flirty. Other times about family. I sent a text on Friday night and he has not responded since then.

Ok well hard to know what the problem is then if you two hadn’t argued or anything. If it were me I’d have called after the first day given the communication pattern you guys have created. Why not call him?

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I was busy over the weekend and I figured he was too? Didn’t wanna bug him and stuff. I’ll reach out tomorrow if he doesn’t reach out today.

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Wellll its been 3 days and no response from him so I guess its over lol

How often do you two talk? Three days in the beginning is a drop in the bucket as far as time goes. Send him a text saying something like, “So you not talking to me anymore?” with a goofy emoji...he’s probably been busy...

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Ever since he got my number (when we started talking, so a month). Him and I text every single day at least 2 times. He would always ask me about my day and i would ask him about his, sent him tiktoks. Sometimes it was flirty. Other times about family. I sent a text on Friday night and he has not responded since then.

Wellll its been 3 days and no response from him so I guess its over lol

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Posted by Gem03
Idk which one of yall it was, BUT YEAH
He came back, texted me "Are you okay?". He said he was thinking about me. I talked to him as if i would to a friend. Gave him life updates, he gave me his.

He went onto say that "yeah you were ready and I was warming up. I know women tend to jump to conclusions and I think you did" (He was referring to that photo of him with the girl on his trip to Miami).

I had blocked him on all socials, I deleted his number I genuinely NEVER thought he would reach out. I told him and he said "I know". I then went on to say "Just letting you know I am not ready to unblock you or follow you back". I let him know that I am talking to someone (Leeb man with Cancer Moon) for a while. I may have vented a little bit but I am happy that I won't let him back in. I am emotional and it takes a lot for me to make logical decisions like this. Also, I felt okay, letting go again.

At the end he was like "well, imma leave you to it, you are talking to a new man now, bye".

Why limit yourself to one man when you can date two?

LMFAO
I don't know, I am drained. I feel like if I let him come back again after all the bullshit he pulled....I'd be erasing my boundaries. This man really told me i was his then 2 days later took it back and flew out with 3 other girls to MIAMI.

I don't want the rollercoaster. I crave stability, affection and loyalty

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LMFAO....I have sworn off of virgo men (Esp virgo moon men)

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Posted by Gem03
Idk which one of yall it was, BUT YEAH
He came back, texted me "Are you okay?". He said he was thinking about me. I talked to him as if i would to a friend. Gave him life updates, he gave me his.

He went onto say that "yeah you were ready and I was warming up. I know women tend to jump to conclusions and I think you did" (He was referring to that photo of him with the girl on his trip to Miami).

I had blocked him on all socials, I deleted his number I genuinely NEVER thought he would reach out. I told him and he said "I know". I then went on to say "Just letting you know I am not ready to unblock you or follow you back". I let him know that I am talking to someone (Leeb man with Cancer Moon) for a while. I may have vented a little bit but I am happy that I won't let him back in. I am emotional and it takes a lot for me to make logical decisions like this. Also, I felt okay, letting go again.

At the end he was like "well, imma leave you to it, you are talking to a new man now, bye".

Why limit yourself to one man when you can date two?

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LMFAO
I don't know, I am drained. I feel like if I let him come back again after all the bullshit he pulled....I'd be erasing my boundaries. This man really told me i was his then 2 days later took it back and flew out with 3 other girls to MIAMI.

I don't want the rollercoaster. I crave stability, affection and loyalty

This works with someone who has no self-respect and are not secure within themselves.
Shit is whackkkk

A month??? nah, this is the honeymoon stage you can't be needy and show all your demons. Take things slowwww.
People only put up with your baggage if they are emotionally invested in you that shit takes TIME, a long ass time

Idk which one of yall it was, BUT YEAH
He came back, texted me "Are you okay?". He said he was thinking about me. I talked to him as if i would to a friend. Gave him life updates, he gave me his.

He went onto say that "yeah you were ready and I was warming up. I know women tend to jump to conclusions and I think you did" (He was referring to that photo of him with the girl on his trip to Miami).

I had blocked him on all socials, I deleted his number I genuinely NEVER thought he would reach out. I told him and he said "I know". I then went on to say "Just letting you know I am not ready to unblock you or follow you back". I let him know that I am talking to someone (Leeb man with Cancer Moon) for a while. I may have vented a little bit but I am happy that I won't let him back in. I am emotional and it takes a lot for me to make logical decisions like this. Also, I felt okay, letting go again.

At the end he was like "well, imma leave you to it, you are talking to a new man now, bye".

We started talking a month ago, we've been on 4 dates now.... Alsooo
Him: "did you love any of your ex? Been in love?"
Me: "Nope"
Him: *smiles* "Good"

I didn't say anything....But like what? He's had his first love btw (she is out of his life). but like whaaaa

@ImperfectStorm

We started talking a month ago, we've been on 4 dates now.... Alsooo
Him: "did you love any of your ex? Been in love?"
Me: "Nope"
Him: *smiles* "Good"

I didn't say anything....But like what? He's had his first love btw (she is out of his life). but like whaaaa

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@ImperfectStorm Lol, so we went on our third date. He was a lot more transparent which I liked. The following is what he said:
Him: "I'm 6' but if I was 240lbs would you be attracted to me?" Me: "Yes I would, if I like you then I like you"
(I found this kinda weird? idk...I still reassured him)

Him: "I can be a spiteful, idk if you know. I shouldn't tell you this but" Me: "No its okay, tell me, I wanna know. Just be honest" Him: "Well my ex broke up with me for 2nd time and I thought it was done for, but she came back after a week and was like she misses me, I told her that I don't trust her yet and kept her as a friend for 3 months before getting back with her. I slept around with other girls during the 3 months, I didn't tell my ex. But it was out of spite. Its not cheating tho" I replied with "No it isn't". They weren't a couple so likeeee

Me: *telling him about a time when a guy with only-fans asked me to be in his video as our third date and laughing*..
Him: "Thats hilarious, you gotta be one handsome guy to be on only-fans though"
Me: "WELLLL I blocked him and I'm on a date with you, and you are handsome"

Yeah he has a lot of insecurities, which doesn’t surprise me lol so do I.

It’s good that you reassured him but hopefully that reassurance seeking behavior tapers down on his part, the more that the two of you open up to each other. But yeah he is opening up and telling you about himself.. the good, the bad and the ugly. That’s a good sign that he likes you and is starting to feel comfortable.

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He likes me? I thought he was testing me the entire time. I think I did good while also being honest. I sent him a text today morning "Good Morning have a good day at work. Also thanks for being open and honest on our date. Its appreciated "

I feel like with air signs verbal affirmations always good (in doses tho or else its fake) but I guess its true for cancer people as well?