Oysters for my entree
An almighty Threesome sandwich for the mains
Crème brûlée dessert to finish

Thank you, going out with a BANG

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Any argument between me, a Leo sun Scorpio moon, vs my Libra sun Cancer moon best friend. Nothing is more annoying then our arguments. I love them at the same time though, because we can argue intensly, then get over it and move on to something else. I swear we are like brothers, because any other person would likely get punched lol. Likely from my Libra friend more then me. He is way more emotionally crazy and willing to literally fight people then me. Which is kind of annoying imo. I just realized people are fucked, and me putting in extra effort truly means nothing. He literally wants to fight people in traffic, when I'm the fucking driver lmao!

lol I'm the same way

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Haha, I’m the same.. never the passenger but the angry driver when people go slow… or pull out in front of you. Sometimes I fantasise about getting out of my vehicle and verbally beating the f*** out of them!

I associate with a lot of people, the ones I gel mostly with are female. There’s not much conversation with my make friends. They are all geared up to talk about imo boring stuff. I think it’s just a male female thing. One of my closest male friends was gay, we could hang all day and night and had lots to talk about.

The interest I have in the opposite sex clearly starts with physical attraction and then wanting to get to know that person better.

One day someone will come along that peeks that interest for you.

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I see alot of times where a partner crosses a line and the other forgives them.and sets boundaries. I cant imagine myself doing that. I feel like a person will always be themselves. Rather in front of you or behind your back, their true self will always emerge. For this reason, when lines get crossed for me I tend to just let the relationship go. Because some things are simply understood and if you going thru all that just to hide it, then naw lol be free my girl. I would much rather accept that this is who you are and that we aint a match. Whats yall views on boundaries that are set after certain ones should never be crossed?


Also GemiMay....... I know you coming in to talk some shit. Just give a daddy a chance tho😉😎

Yeah all of those are just words. I was like that too... until you meet someone who tears that wall of principles down. I'm not talking about being in an abusive relationship, but rather a karmic one: dealing with someone whose fucked up matches yet oposses yours.

One has something the other one doesn't and vice versa, you clash but in a way that makes you grow and leave your comfort zone, tearing you down - even destructively so- in order to regenerate and you come out the other side a better person, knowing well what u just went through was fucked up, but bc it's this person, thinking back on it you can only remember it with a smile on your face like, those were good times.

Bc you know that person can't hurt you, they are not evil spirits, there is a sort of karmic trust there.

You know whats crazy??? Thats the exact relationship that made me this way. A karmic one. You spoke my thought out loud buy thats wild to me to see someone say this. Because even today, it gets past walls it shouldnt but I wouldnt be this person without going thru what I went thru with her. Its changed me alot but pushed me spiritually in the right direction. It definitely changed us both and sadly its a bond I can never detach myself from. Never entertain it ever but its a part of me that will never disappear and always changes me.

I can't speak for anyone else really, you have to determine for yourself if it was a good or bad "destructive/regenerating " relationship.

A pinpoint is if you can remember the bad times with a smile on your face cuz it was with this person, those bad times probably served a constructive purpose and it was a positively charged karmic bond despite all.

Its ongoing so maybe Ill know in the end. Its been both I can say that. You a wise dude!!!

Yeah I didn't know it while it was ongoing either so it's a personal process. But dont listen to me cuz maybe you looking for reasons to remain in a destructive relationship and wind up chewed up on the other side. Most destructive relationship are probably just that

Lol naw man I gotta co parent with her. We been over for 4 years. We just always clash and Im always forced to change to deal with her. I just didnt wanna come out and say all that but yea I gotta deal with her til he graduates at least.

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If it’s about co parenting then you do what is best for your kids only. Forget the conflict or at least try not to let it affect your judgement. Hold those values no matter how erratic the other party is and can be. It might not feel like your getting anywhere at the time but the children will figure it out in time.

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No offense but they all look underage

Pretty boys, they all look this way. Asians also look way younger than they are, it’s hard to pinpoint their ages until they get to around 60!

I'm no where near Asian and nobody don't believe I'm turning 50 shortly. Unless of course I let my facial hair grow out which I don't want to do. And I'm all American. At least I think I am. People still card me when I purchase alcohol and tobacco which kinda frustrates me in a way.

Prove it

I met a really hot American when I was in Greece, on a chartered yacht… he was with his beautiful wife and daughters. He was probably close to 50.

Come on sweethearts. Just judging by the way I write on these message boards should be proof enough. Everybody should get a general idea of whenever someone like me post has to be someone youthful looking in appearance. I even talk the way and how I write on these boards too, in real life. Nothing I puts here are imitations. And if you or anybody expects me to post my real self on here knowing full well we got bullies here is completely off their rockers.

Yes I’m sure you would get shot down because I’ve seen you big note your looks. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder and not pretty when you self confess. Humble is more beautiful… well in my opinion anyway!

Well midnight riser self confesses about his attractive looks every chance he gets and I believe him. I'm not one of those types to tell someone to prove their looks to me because I feel that would be wrong of me to say especially when they refuse to post their pics for specific and understandable reasons. Of course I'm just saying. It's like why do I get jumped on more than anybody about posting my self image. And speaking of being humble, I confess I'm not the most attractive man in the world. I do have some flaws on my face that can stand cosmetic surgery like my big bubbly lips being just one of those facial features. I don't like my lips and quite humbly I think it's unattractive. Now that's about as humble as I can get.

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I barely see midnights posts but for some reason I see yours. Each to their own, I’m sure you’re as good as you say you are… the story about the American guy I met is that I’m sure he knew how hot he was but he didn’t have to say anything… and his wife, she loved him and knew him interacting with me and other women didn’t mean a thing to him.

I hope one day you find yours but don’t be fooled by false representation of how good we are or what we think we are and miss the genuine ones that we can be truely happy with.

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No offense but they all look underage

Pretty boys, they all look this way. Asians also look way younger than they are, it’s hard to pinpoint their ages until they get to around 60!

I'm no where near Asian and nobody don't believe I'm turning 50 shortly. Unless of course I let my facial hair grow out which I don't want to do. And I'm all American. At least I think I am. People still card me when I purchase alcohol and tobacco which kinda frustrates me in a way.

Prove it

I met a really hot American when I was in Greece, on a chartered yacht… he was with his beautiful wife and daughters. He was probably close to 50.

Come on sweethearts. Just judging by the way I write on these message boards should be proof enough. Everybody should get a general idea of whenever someone like me post has to be someone youthful looking in appearance. I even talk the way and how I write on these boards too, in real life. Nothing I puts here are imitations. And if you or anybody expects me to post my real self on here knowing full well we got bullies here is completely off their rockers.

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Yes I’m sure you would get shot down because I’ve seen you big note your looks. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder and not pretty when you self confess. Humble is more beautiful… well in my opinion anyway!

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No offense but they all look underage

Pretty boys, they all look this way. Asians also look way younger than they are, it’s hard to pinpoint their ages until they get to around 60!

I'm no where near Asian and nobody don't believe I'm turning 50 shortly. Unless of course I let my facial hair grow out which I don't want to do. And I'm all American. At least I think I am. People still card me when I purchase alcohol and tobacco which kinda frustrates me in a way.

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Prove it

I met a really hot American when I was in Greece, on a chartered yacht… he was with his beautiful wife and daughters. He was probably close to 50.

Crossing the line as in cheating? To me crossing the line like you is extreme. I’d have a talk about it and set boundaries and if they aren’t adhered too then yeah, deal breaker.

Showing up to someone’s unannounced? A partner or someone you’ve been on a date with? Don’t sweat the small stuff.

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No offense but they all look underage

Pretty boys, they all look this way. Asians also look way younger than they are, it’s hard to pinpoint their ages until they get to around 60!

You’re now sitting on the other side of the fence with the cancer guy. You’ve just experienced it from Libra so you know all too well how it feels.

Don’t drag it out if you already know you have no interest.

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I have had some days at work lately where I've been behind, and I've not felt like Id be behind, things will be going smoothly and I feel lm doing a thing at normal pace. Then ill look at the clock and an hours gone by where it felt like 20 minutes. Hmmmmm I thought, is it just the way the sun is in the sky? Whole days going by faster but that happens everyyear. Ive been thinking hell its like I must be in slowmotion and time is faster than me.

Then I caught it happening, a couple was walking past and out of the corner of my eye I saw them and they are sped up like a fast forward video. wtf. Once I registered this in my mind it slows down, and the they are walking at normal pace. (girl had a nice ass btw)

Fucken weird man, anyone experience this before?

Nah… my 8-9 hours at work drag… my 4 hours at home relaxing before bed go in like 10 minutes and nek minit …. I getting up for work again :/

Pink gin drinker here

Love: la plancheliere
It’s suttle not sweet, French crafted with juniper berries. Devine ❤️

Can’t go past Gordon’s pink gin

Or for plain Roku (Japanese) gin

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Asking him if he liked your song will be seen as you wanting to keep the convo going and he may not want that. He will tell you if he likes it without you asking. Why not wait until he reaches out to you first so you will know he's interested instead of feeling obligated to respond to you? That pisses Libra's off or it does me. We can see straight through that action.

Good point. Just trying my best

You’re trying too hard… let him take the lead!

Hey. Him and I got into a disagreement on a political issue. I'm more conservative than him.

He said "I'm not sure how you can like me when we have we have completely opposite views on matters of great importance."
Me- I mentioned why I liked him and said "opposites attract, no?"

H- "They don't."

M- I sent him a message about how politics does nothing but divide and create unnecessary conflict. I also said "We have one commonality, we hate Politician. Ha"

He didn't reply back and I saw he unfriended me on Facebook. I guess it is not going to work out or I will have to roll out the red carpet for him.

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Clearly he does take his political views seriously ( a lot of Americans do) unlike here.

But honestly, he was just looking for an excuse to end it so he didn’t feel like a turd!
You got to understand that Libras do not like their scales rocked, him being a prick and sleeping with you but not wanting to go further when you clearly show you want him is rocking that scale. Meaning, he’s got to find a way of letting you down (in his mind) gently or with little explanation. His come back will be, we don’t see eye to eye.

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Why?

Just want to try something different than fire sign men. I don’t feel chemistry with air sign men.

Gemini and Capricorn are quincunx....they don’t get each other
Gemini ~ light and breezy
Capricorn ~ serious and stoic

Edit: Do you have much Cap in your chart or strong Saturn?

I don’t get Capricorn either…

You a Gemini?

Nope… Libra

You and Caps are squared😬
Did you ever have one?

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So I’m learning what squared signs mean…

I’m old now and I really don’t have the patience to try and decifer people…. I want easy and flowing with a little and I mean little challenge. Too much challenge, I think I’ll give up!

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Why?

Just want to try something different than fire sign men. I don’t feel chemistry with air sign men.

Gemini and Capricorn are quincunx....they don’t get each other
Gemini ~ light and breezy
Capricorn ~ serious and stoic

Edit: Do you have much Cap in your chart or strong Saturn?

I don’t get Capricorn either…

You a Gemini?

Nope… Libra

You and Caps are squared😬
Did you ever have one?

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Yes a FWB and he was too needy for me. I’m still friends with him and he’s still needy, jumping for relationship to relationship… falls head over heels and then it ends bitterly quickly.

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Why?

Just want to try something different than fire sign men. I don’t feel chemistry with air sign men.

Gemini and Capricorn are quincunx....they don’t get each other
Gemini ~ light and breezy
Capricorn ~ serious and stoic

Edit: Do you have much Cap in your chart or strong Saturn?

I don’t get Capricorn either…

You a Gemini?

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Nope… Libra

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Why?

Just want to try something different than fire sign men. I don’t feel chemistry with air sign men.

Gemini and Capricorn are quincunx....they don’t get each other
Gemini ~ light and breezy
Capricorn ~ serious and stoic

Edit: Do you have much Cap in your chart or strong Saturn?

I don’t get Capricorn either…

For me or generally speaking?

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For me… Libra / Capricorn

You’re a Gem and we are similar… I’m not convinced you’d get them either… as in match

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Why?

Just want to try something different than fire sign men. I don’t feel chemistry with air sign men.

Gemini and Capricorn are quincunx....they don’t get each other
Gemini ~ light and breezy
Capricorn ~ serious and stoic

Edit: Do you have much Cap in your chart or strong Saturn?

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I don’t get Capricorn either…

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In my experience, Libras are among the worst for ghosting, regardless of the context of the relationship.

#flakycity

You’re back… thought you ghosted us!!!

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Asking him if he liked your song will be seen as you wanting to keep the convo going and he may not want that. He will tell you if he likes it without you asking. Why not wait until he reaches out to you first so you will know he's interested instead of feeling obligated to respond to you? That pisses Libra's off or it does me. We can see straight through that action.

Good point. Just trying my best

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You’re trying too hard… let him take the lead!