Posted by _Dazed
FYI..
There are asexual individuals that DO have sex.
Posted by nanobotPosted by SassyKiwiPosted by nanobotPosted by SassyKiwiPosted by nanobot
Getting too used to one's own cobwebbed dick/vagina or being a virgin or very sexually inexperienced is hardly asexual and I feel like a lot of people would confuse those two things on this site
Yeah I totally agree which is why I want to know about the nature of their relationship experiences if they’ve had any.
I spent a few years voluntarily celibate and I felt as close as I could I think to being "asexual" because the idea of having sex with anyone disgusted me in general and I couldn't even picture it in my head, let alone felt the desire to ever go through with it. I was not asexual. Then I eventually met someone I was actually attracted to and I was turned into a nympho after the celibacy. I think so many of these people just get used to the status quo, forget what it feels like to be touched or kissed after so long. Or maybe they never even did in the first place.
Meanwhile I had a roommate briefly who was a 25 year old virgin, who claimed he was "asexual" but had no problem telling me multiple times he would have sex with me if I wanted to. Riiiiight 🙄🙄🙄 Asexual = involuntarily celibate I guess lol
You were/maybe still are demisexual. You don’t experience sexual attraction until an emotional connection is formed. And yeah your old roommate just needed to get laid.
This guy I didn't have an emotional attachment to though lol, and I had even been attracted to other men I dated but I didn't find them treetrunkable. I think this was based on CHEMISTRY which doesn't necessarily always have to do with physical attraction, imoclick to expand
Posted by blvckphvse
Just curious after reading all of this.. What qualifies as asexual then? :/
If someone is a virgin, can it not be by choice because they are asexual?
Can someone who once was sexually active not become asexual?
Are there rules to this? Lol, I really do not know.. I always thought an asexual person was someone who had no desire for sex or that they lacked sexual feelings.. Is it only considered asexual if they always felt this way or could someone develop such a thing later in life and still identify as asexual? Because if not every asexual person would be a virgin..
Posted by AntiphatesPosted by SassyKiwiPosted by AntiphatesPosted by SassyKiwiPosted by Antiphates
Makes sense, you’re an Aquarius 😂 So what are the closest things to a relationship you’ve experienced?
Seven year long situationship with a Gemini that officially never was a relationship but had a lot of traits of a relationships in it's interactions.
Seven years and nothing sexual at all? Not even a kiss? 😱 Was it a guy or a girl?
Women, but she is bisexual which can made things harder I guess.
She kissed me once and it probably shocked and suprised her as much as me because we only ran into each other by accident when I wanted to return a book I lent from her to her parents house.click to expand
Posted by AntiphatesPosted by nanobotPosted by SassyKiwiPosted by nanobot
Getting too used to one's own cobwebbed dick/vagina or being a virgin or very sexually inexperienced is hardly asexual and I feel like a lot of people would confuse those two things on this site
Yeah I totally agree which is why I want to know about the nature of their relationship experiences if they’ve had any.
I spent a few years voluntarily celibate and I felt as close as I could I think to being "asexual" because the idea of having sex with anyone disgusted me in general and I couldn't even picture it in my head, let alone felt the desire to ever go through with it. I was not asexual. Then I eventually met someone I was actually attracted to and I was turned into a nympho after the celibacy. I think so many of these people just get used to the status quo, forget what it feels like to be touched or kissed after so long. Or maybe they never even did in the first place.
Meanwhile I had a roommate briefly who was a 25 year old virgin, who claimed he was "asexual" but had no problem telling me multiple times he would have sex with me if I wanted to. Riiiiight 🙄🙄🙄 Asexual = involuntarily celibate I guess lol
Good points.
On the other hand it does and doesn't help at the same time the we have an increasingly number of terms and defintions.
I forgot the name of it but one I learned in this place described a sexual orientation that is "asexual" until a real romantic/emotional relationship is formed.
Given what you said I can't exclude the possibility of being that instead of truly asexual but at this point in time it's hard to tell what of the two it is.click to expand
Posted by nanobotPosted by SassyKiwiPosted by nanobot
Getting too used to one's own cobwebbed dick/vagina or being a virgin or very sexually inexperienced is hardly asexual and I feel like a lot of people would confuse those two things on this site
Yeah I totally agree which is why I want to know about the nature of their relationship experiences if they’ve had any.
I spent a few years voluntarily celibate and I felt as close as I could I think to being "asexual" because the idea of having sex with anyone disgusted me in general and I couldn't even picture it in my head, let alone felt the desire to ever go through with it. I was not asexual. Then I eventually met someone I was actually attracted to and I was turned into a nympho after the celibacy. I think so many of these people just get used to the status quo, forget what it feels like to be touched or kissed after so long. Or maybe they never even did in the first place.
Meanwhile I had a roommate briefly who was a 25 year old virgin, who claimed he was "asexual" but had no problem telling me multiple times he would have sex with me if I wanted to. Riiiiight 🙄🙄🙄 Asexual = involuntarily celibate I guess lolclick to expand
Posted by nanobot
Getting too used to one's own cobwebbed dick/vagina or being a virgin or very sexually inexperienced is hardly asexual and I feel like a lot of people would confuse those two things on this site
Posted by Black-Mamba
i haven't had sex in a long time, how does one know
Posted by Phantom_LimboPosted by SassyKiwiPosted by Phantom_LimboPosted by SassyKiwiPosted by SilveradoPosted by Alameda
Speaking of, where did Dreamboy go? I hope he finally got to go to booty hole heaven.
When he decided to leave, I was only hanging on by a thread to leave as well.
Now I'm only hanging on by 3, where one is already frayed.
I didn’t know you were a Scorpio before today. But I find it funny how it’s usually always water signs that have to declare in some way that they’re leaving or have wanted to leave. Like instead of just being all talk, how about log off and disappear for some time lol. It’s just a funny observation to me.
People get mad if you leave with no warning. People get mad if you warn before leaving. I've seen both.
You’re joking right? Like how about treetrunk internet people, don’t hate cause I left you to go live real life?
You're here. I mean, if you're not here to interact with people, what are you here for?click to expand
Posted by AntiphatesPosted by SassyKiwiPosted by Antiphates
Makes sense, you’re an Aquarius 😂 So what are the closest things to a relationship you’ve experienced?
Seven year long situationship with a Gemini that officially never was a relationship but had a lot of traits of a relationships in it's interactions.click to expand
Posted by Phantom_LimboPosted by SassyKiwiPosted by SilveradoPosted by Alameda
Speaking of, where did Dreamboy go? I hope he finally got to go to booty hole heaven.
When he decided to leave, I was only hanging on by a thread to leave as well.
Now I'm only hanging on by 3, where one is already frayed.
I didn’t know you were a Scorpio before today. But I find it funny how it’s usually always water signs that have to declare in some way that they’re leaving or have wanted to leave. Like instead of just being all talk, how about log off and disappear for some time lol. It’s just a funny observation to me.
People get mad if you leave with no warning. People get mad if you warn before leaving. I've seen both.click to expand
Posted by Undine
I woke up one day disgusted by the thought of genitalia (and of men trying to get into mine's).
I hope it stay like this forever, because I like it.
Posted by SilveradoPosted by Alameda
Speaking of, where did Dreamboy go? I hope he finally got to go to booty hole heaven.
When he decided to leave, I was only hanging on by a thread to leave as well.
Now I'm only hanging on by 3, where one is already frayed.click to expand
Posted by Antiphates
Posted by SkeletonPosted by SassyKiwi
I used to have lots of anxiety and was super introverted but now I do much better at meeting people. It all began with me not giving a treetrunk about if it would go well or not, I was just gonna be myself. Not that it mattered but they ended up liking me and as I kept doing it a few more times my confidence just grew. So I encourage others to be themselves and not worry about treetrunking up especially if it’s with someone you don’t see yourself perfectly with just so you’ll be ready for when the right one does come along.
I do wish for that, but in reality.. people doesn't accept me for who I really am.. and I don't talk about small amount of group at all..click to expand
Posted by Phantom_Limbo
For some time now I've been thinking that @virgoOPPP was @FknMeow's new user name, so if either of you is wondering why I've been saying confusing butter to you, that could be it!