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It's really hard for me to find a real connection with someone. And I mean reeeeeaaaalllyyy hard lol. I instantly know if I want to see someone again after the first date and well I've already been on several dates and not once did I feel a connection. I doubt I would be able to find that connection with multiple people at once.

I could talk to several men online at the same time but online is one thing. The reality is a whole lot different. Even though you think you might have a connection online but you can never read body language and feel chemistry online the same way as in reality. The last five men I've been to date with I knew the first minute it's a no lol. Some even the first second. 🤣 And these are people I've already talked to and seen photos of so I knew there was some connection online before meeting them in real life.

Falling in love is too hard. I give up. 😩

Interesting.... yet to meet the guy I have connected with online. Everything tells me, I will...

I've never completely opened up to someone I've talked to online because I'm very selective with who I let in. They've never known the real me. All my emotions. They've only seen a part of me. I need to meet someone and connect with them in real life in order to get completely emotionally involved.

I think it’s more that I want this and he ticks a lot of boxes, haven’t had that in a while so I’m hopeful. Physically I’m attracted and mentally even more so. Intelligence is sexy!! But he’s a gawd damn Pisces! that’s the killer, having to learn the art of patience 🙄 what you said made me think, is it intuition or the power of wanting something, my scales are tipping!

My tip is try to meet him as soon as possible. Everything could be good on paper but then once you meet them you feel no attraction to them.

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I’m waiting for him to ask... he’s a shift worker and has his kids 50/50 and we live half an hour away from each other so I can see it’s difficult but I’m also thinking he’s not that interested. Ideally, I want to meet soon. So I know I’m not wasting my time waiting lol

Couldn’t see it anywhere here, or I’m lazy and only half looked 🙃

So how do I post a picture from my albums on a post or a picture from online please.

Thanks in advance

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Posted by zandomenica passing by to share i just had a really nice date with a girl that i found out to be a pisces lol

Ruuuuuuunnnn! 😂

hahah i'm going to let things unfold naturally, being friends first!
how's it going with your pisces guy?

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Painfully slow... 🙄

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Posted by Timon
It's really hard for me to find a real connection with someone. And I mean reeeeeaaaalllyyy hard lol. I instantly know if I want to see someone again after the first date and well I've already been on several dates and not once did I feel a connection. I doubt I would be able to find that connection with multiple people at once.

I could talk to several men online at the same time but online is one thing. The reality is a whole lot different. Even though you think you might have a connection online but you can never read body language and feel chemistry online the same way as in reality. The last five men I've been to date with I knew the first minute it's a no lol. Some even the first second. 🤣 And these are people I've already talked to and seen photos of so I knew there was some connection online before meeting them in real life.

Falling in love is too hard. I give up. 😩

Interesting.... yet to meet the guy I have connected with online. Everything tells me, I will...

I've never completely opened up to someone I've talked to online because I'm very selective with who I let in. They've never known the real me. All my emotions. They've only seen a part of me. I need to meet someone and connect with them in real life in order to get completely emotionally involved.

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I think it’s more that I want this and he ticks a lot of boxes, haven’t had that in a while so I’m hopeful. Physically I’m attracted and mentally even more so. Intelligence is sexy!! But he’s a gawd damn Pisces! that’s the killer, having to learn the art of patience 🙄 what you said made me think, is it intuition or the power of wanting something, my scales are tipping!

Posted by Timon
It's really hard for me to find a real connection with someone. And I mean reeeeeaaaalllyyy hard lol. I instantly know if I want to see someone again after the first date and well I've already been on several dates and not once did I feel a connection. I doubt I would be able to find that connection with multiple people at once.

I could talk to several men online at the same time but online is one thing. The reality is a whole lot different. Even though you think you might have a connection online but you can never read body language and feel chemistry online the same way as in reality. The last five men I've been to date with I knew the first minute it's a no lol. Some even the first second. 🤣 And these are people I've already talked to and seen photos of so I knew there was some connection online before meeting them in real life.

Falling in love is too hard. I give up. 😩

Interesting.... yet to meet the guy I have connected with online. Everything tells me, I will...

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It makes sense, I guess. But, marriage scares the bejesus out of me. I dont think ill ever get married again tbh.

I use to feel like that about marriage too after mine, fast forward 15 years and I want to do it one more time. And I’m ready, just need to find my one.

I don,t know, my whole outlook on marriage has changed, like what is the point of it. Divorce stats are too high, I think the whole notion of it has changed, people are no longer in it for the long haul, if you know what I mean.

There’s no need for it. People married for financial security years ago, for survival.
The concept of promising to be with and faithful to one person for life seems so improbable if you think about it? We change and evolve over the years and move on from what was? Being with one forever...how can that work for most people?
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That’s why a second marriage looks better. I did 20 years with the first, had 15 years to myself. Be lucky if I got another 20 in me lol.

First marriage is with kids and growing up experiencing things for the first time, it’s hard and you out grow that young love.

If I married again, I know more, I’ve experienced more. More confidence and happy within myself and providing I get the right person he will too. The dynamics change and the children have grown so it’s more a life for the 2 of you with the addition of the family. And if travel ever gets back in the cards then you’re free to explore the world and enjoy your hard earned work.

Apparently the divorce stats are higher for 2nd marriages than 1st. Maybe people go back for a 2nd shot to remind them how bad it is 😂🥴

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It’d be Interesting to know whether those that got married again, married a short period after their first marriage or whether they took the time to grow inbetween? Some people are serial wedders and can’t be alone.

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It makes sense, I guess. But, marriage scares the bejesus out of me. I dont think ill ever get married again tbh.

I use to feel like that about marriage too after mine, fast forward 15 years and I want to do it one more time. And I’m ready, just need to find my one.

I don,t know, my whole outlook on marriage has changed, like what is the point of it. Divorce stats are too high, I think the whole notion of it has changed, people are no longer in it for the long haul, if you know what I mean.

There’s no need for it. People married for financial security years ago, for survival.
The concept of promising to be with and faithful to one person for life seems so improbable if you think about it? We change and evolve over the years and move on from what was? Being with one forever...how can that work for most people?
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Exactly generation's ago people stuck it out, some very unhappily. Now, its easier to split up and move on. So i reckon rather just move on than go through the misery of divorce and all that comes with it. If you have the commitment in your heart do you need to justify it with a marriage certificate? Times are changing, people dont judge you as a sinner if you not the stay at home wife

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Depends who you are, some woman do and some woman don’t.

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It makes sense, I guess. But, marriage scares the bejesus out of me. I dont think ill ever get married again tbh.

I use to feel like that about marriage too after mine, fast forward 15 years and I want to do it one more time. And I’m ready, just need to find my one.

I don,t know, my whole outlook on marriage has changed, like what is the point of it. Divorce stats are too high, I think the whole notion of it has changed, people are no longer in it for the long haul, if you know what I mean.

There’s no need for it. People married for financial security years ago, for survival.
The concept of promising to be with and faithful to one person for life seems so improbable if you think about it? We change and evolve over the years and move on from what was? Being with one forever...how can that work for most people?
🥴

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That’s why a second marriage looks better. I did 20 years with the first, had 15 years to myself. Be lucky if I got another 20 in me lol.

First marriage is with kids and growing up experiencing things for the first time, it’s hard and you out grow that young love.

If I married again, I know more, I’ve experienced more. More confidence and happy within myself and providing I get the right person he will too. The dynamics change and the children have grown so it’s more a life for the 2 of you with the addition of the family. And if travel ever gets back in the cards then you’re free to explore the world and enjoy your hard earned work.

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Posted by Queenofthepheasantfairies
It makes sense, I guess. But, marriage scares the bejesus out of me. I dont think ill ever get married again tbh.

I use to feel like that about marriage too after mine, fast forward 15 years and I want to do it one more time. And I’m ready, just need to find my one.

I don,t know, my whole outlook on marriage has changed, like what is the point of it. Divorce stats are too high, I think the whole notion of it has changed, people are no longer in it for the long haul, if you know what I mean.

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Yeah I use to think like that but time heals and you heal yourself and learn to love yourself first. You start to see your part in the break down.. and it get lonely sometimes. I have loads of friends so I’m never alone but I do get lonely.

Just give yourself time and work on you.

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It makes sense, I guess. But, marriage scares the bejesus out of me. I dont think ill ever get married again tbh.

I use to feel like that about marriage too after mine, fast forward 15 years and I want to do it one more time. And I’m ready, just need to find my one.

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In theory sounds like a plan however I find it hard finding 1 guy I’m actually interested in let alone multiple. So what do you do, go out with a heap of guys that you aren’t really interested in and hope to connect? I’d be uncomfortable and it’d show.

That’s kinda how I feel. I admire the women who can do it but it doesn’t come natural to me. I’m too damn sensitive and would be worried about hurting the other guys feelings once I chose one to be with. Just seems... messy.

But at the same time, she seems to make some valid points.

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Yes her points are valid, then what? You connect with 2 or 3 and sleep with them all?? Maybe, that works for some but not something I’d be comfortable with morally. And if there is a connect, hell yes I want to fuck them! 😂

In theory sounds like a plan however I find it hard finding 1 guy I’m actually interested in let alone multiple. So what do you do, go out with a heap of guys that you aren’t really interested in and hope to connect? I’d be uncomfortable and it’d show.

Posted by zandomenica passing by to share i just had a really nice date with a girl that i found out to be a pisces lol

Ruuuuuuunnnn! 😂

It happened, I left and never looked back!

Ask yourself, why does she need you to walk away from her marriage. If you weren’t there would anyone do?

Then who will she need to walk away from you later on down the track when things get tough... or have you been there already .. and it was him?

This woman already has a cycle. If she is serious then she should take things into her own hands without you there to save her.

You being right there at her beck and call is only enabling her and tying you into the next relationship before you can make your own mind up. Step back and open your eyes. You sound lonely and desperate for the fairy tale but you split for a reason. Take out the heart and use your head (big head)

A glimpse back in time from yesteryear... some excitement... admiration.. taboo territory... anything but the boredom of her life at percent.

Don’t get your hope up, she’s married.

You left it this long and it’s still bothering you, so yes, bring it up because you obviously need to get it off your chest. She’s obviously, selfish and disrespectful and if you don’t address it now. This won’t be the last time she acts like this. Btw, Your mother left hers so that you would have some. That’s the type of person you really want to be with.

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I wasn't privy to your texts and video chats.

I suppose you can equate video conferencing to dates these days.

It's easy to lose touch online these days with so many options/distractions.

I think ghosting after dates and where people share quite a bit of personal information, show vulnerability, bond, etc... is really poor behaviour.

Some will say that if you've never met, then you can't ghost, as in it's not possible. I disagree, I think that it's not too much for people to expect to be treated like human beings. I've heard of a practice called "cloaking" where someone plans for a date, then doesn't show up and blocks the other person on social media. Something close to this has happened to me. I've been "cloaked" and I've been "ghosted".

Something might be going on in his life so give him a chance to come back and explain. Make sure you are careful. It is also possible that he's showing you who he is, and he may be a bullet to be dodged.

I think that two texts isn't absolutely terrible. Sometimes people get busy and miss a reply and then forget. A second text can be a friendly reminder. Do not send any more.

What you need to learn is to how to protect yourself. It is not healthy to get overly invested in someone, especially when you don't know them that well and haven't met them in real life. You need to keep one foot on land instead of diving in the water. Take it from a Pisces who likes to dive in dreamy, magical waters.

Don't let this turn you off from finding the right person. If someone isn't interested in you, why would you want them. You deserve so much better, and then some. Sometimes we're authentic with someone and they don't appreciate it. It truly is their loss. Be cautious yes, but be yourself always.

Get active online and talk to some more men. The right guy is waiting for you. It could be Mr. Leo (remember, he needs to be real with you if he returns) or it could be someone else. Don't waste time with regret, learn from this. He could be with his ex (Venus retrograde remember?) or simply with another woman. He might not even be thinking about you at all and you are spending a lot of time and energy thinking about him. I don't expect you to eliminate him or your feelings from your mind. Try to get busy and focus on yourself, like you're doing here asking for advice.

People on here giving you advice value you as another human being. If someone else is not valuing you then find a man who will. He's out there. Don't lose faith.

Love the way you think and take the time to help.

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Pisces guys seem to always want you in times you don't want them, and don't want you when you want them.

With all pisces it's best to view them as a companion, appreciating them without having any expectations. That's how they feel the most comfortable with you and are less likely to swim away.
If they sense that you are unfulfilled or any negative energy, they tend to leave.
They don't want you to 'need' them. -> Unless you have to do with an even more unfulfilled guy.

So makes sense that you received a nice reply when you asked him about his well-being, seemingly without any expectations of him.

It can be unsatisfying sometimes (for me at least), but that's the way they work. You have to decide for yourself if you want to be on the side of such a stubborn-free-spirit, who can often times be too busy with his values to care for your feelings.

Good luck

Funnily enough, when I got to the point of oh well... next... he came swimming back and has been blowing up my phone all weekend. I’m more relaxed now and intend staying that way.

As people here said, he was busy and needs to get his ducks in a row before he does anything. He still hasn’t asked to meet up yet, we live 30 minutes apart and I don’t expect he’ll ask that for another 3 weeks at least. I’m happy to keep talking in the meantime

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are you high?

Excuse me?

I think they mean your English sucks and it's hard to understand what you're actually trying to say.

I’ve said it before but you were absent or just absentminded...
If one out of 100 people don’t understand me - it’s THAT person problem. So...

How is it, that when you smash someone on their thread your English is perfect but when you make your own thread it makes no sense? Btw, it’s more like 90 to 100 people can’t understand you.

I agree this was the post I had a problem to compose and I was falling asleep...
But for so many years so many people had been communicating with me so claiming that 90% don’t understand me is plain stupid and Ill driven.
But that’s YOUR problem. Not mine...
You know you don’t have to answer if you don’t have an answer...surprise?

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Ohhhh but I want to give you as much shit as you dish out, so please take your time and spill your guts for our entertainment 😂 and before you get banned again