SassyKiwi

Yeah I think it's less social suicide and even a lil trendy to be a dog lady than a cat lady by that age you know?

Dogs are better tho

I came across a story where this teenage girl saw Demi Lovato and told her she inspired her to stop cutting or something and Demi responded with rolling her eyes. I figured she was better than Selena Gomez, I guess they're all equally trash

Them becoming slaves to health insurance companies is karma!!

Not too long ago during my earlier years of college I started getting really bad cystic acne breakouts. They were ridiculous and nonstop. There was this top rated dermatologist in my area that I went to who literally checked me for less than 5 minutes (visit cost $ 100) and prescribed me like $ 300 worth of topical creams, lotion and antibiotic.... they did work for like a year and a half only to later come back. I was told it's most likely hormonal and that I'd either have to take antibiotics on and off all my life (which no one should do, especially at a young age) or just deal with it. Like thanks doc. Love how you gave me false hope by slapping me a temp fix.

I then went to an allergist since butter like gluten sensitivity and lactose sensitivity and all that stuff was becoming trendy. I wanted blood work done for food allergies or sensitivities. They said MDs don't do the lab work that claims that could find those sensitivities for you, private companies do... so they did some general histamine testing on my skin for any reactions to a bunch of stuff like pollen, shellfish, etc. Everything came back negative. Another waste of $ 100.

I then went to the internet and sought out any sites or threads of people with similar issues as me. I of course tried diets ommiting things like dairy and gluten. I still kept getting the damn cystic acne. Then one post forever changed my life... someone somewhere mentioned shellfish caused them cystic acne... at that time I LOVED shrimp and fish and would have it multiple times a week. Seafood was generally known to be good for you, all that Omega 3 and butter you know. But of course I came this far I had to test it...lo' and behol' my cystic acne was cured. Any and all seafood and fish was the root cause of my cystic acne.... the insecurities that I struggled from those mothertreetrunkers I will never forget as well as the useless doctors that I went to for help who just wanted to make their $ 100 per 5 mins...

I sadly have more butterty doctor (specialists particularly - so mothertreetrunkers who get paid way more) stories even though I try to go to the best ones in my area.

My mom thinks Meghan Markle (with the help of her mom) did black magic on Harry. It's literally the only thing that makes sense about them.

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Posted by SassyKiwi
When I was love bombed, I was messaged very shortly after our first date ended. He told me he had such a great time and how he wants to have dinner with me every night for the rest of the week.... he also wanted to meet my parents. He sent me goodnight and good morning texts. He told me he was thinking of me, etc. Wanted to establish exclusivity after a few dates. Said he background checked me and my family.. Remembered when we first started talking, wanted to do monthiversary, get me gifts. Just go full on crazy as if you about to propose to him soon mode.

When he said all this, did he actually do it as well? See you every night of the week?

I didn’t realize love bombing was commitment style (right now and forever) type of wording. I guess I was thinking it was more over the top fantasy style stuff.

Monthversary? I wouldn’t remember to keep up with it. I’d be super inconsistent 😩😩 I guess I’m not up for doing it now. I seriously didn’t know this much effort was involved.

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My Leo placements loved the attention but my Cap and Aqua placements were screaming "oh helllll naw, back it up." I told him to chill out and how he's coming on way too strong. I didn't let him go through with any of it so I don't know if he'd actually done it. It did have some fantasy style stuff but it was mostly fluff. Right from the first date he’d be like I want to take you skydiving with me for my birthday and then he’d say butter like “I’m gonna set the bar so high for you, you’ll see.” He was a narcissist and a Sag. Majority of the time love bombers are full of sweet nothing butter they've repeated with other people and overall superficial. So put your mindset in a Disney prince character and go try to sweep all those tinder men off their feets. If you want, I can log on as you and do it for you. I'm married so I can't be conducting these experiments on my own anymore but I like mentally experimenting on humans too 😁

When I was love bombed, I was messaged very shortly after our first date ended. He told me he had such a great time and how he wants to have dinner with me every night for the rest of the week.... he also wanted to meet my parents. He sent me goodnight and good morning texts. He told me he was thinking of me, etc. Wanted to establish exclusivity after a few dates. Said he background checked me and my family.. Remembered when we first started talking, wanted to do monthiversary, get me gifts. Just go full on crazy as if you about to propose to him soon mode.

Girl you are still young and with time you can fall in love again with a MUCH better man but here's the catch, you just have to make yourself believe you can and you definitely will. It all goes back to how you mentally coach yourself. That's all it is to anything.

Also don't feel too bad. Majority of the men are trash and don't know wtf they're doing in life. The goal is to find a least treetrunked up one.

I have the opposite issue...my husband's family is anti-Trump but I found out after we got married that my husband loves Trump and apparently voted for him (his mom didn't even know about this). To date I have no idea if he's strongly trolling about this or if he really loves Trump because he always says he's not joking ??

I think cap venuses are the ones most likely to push back love later into their life cause they're the most sensible enough to know there's so many other things in the world to go after

Wape my husband

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Posted by nikkistar
He hit it and quit it.

Eh you’re probably right. Just never met someone who says they want one thing, then another and then another.

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He's divorced and has a kid. Clearly his mind and priorities are all over the place and maybe he just wanted some release before he has to go back to cleaning up his life. Try a dude with less strings attached for a little more consistency

My idea of trying to look sexy is putting on full body reindeer pajamas with antlers and red nose.....oh yes and the wittle tail

As a short little person, 8 pounds can be the difference to my face looking too boney to slightly chubby

Posted by ClairDeLune
What are you hoping to see or experience?

Disneyland with very little crowds, Lake Tahoe not snowed up, Cali weather in the 70s. Basically the impossible during the time we're able to go there ;[ Last time I went to Cali was when I was 7 and it was during the summer. Still have fond memories of it. I even remember the bad traffic.

Thank you guys for all the suggestions so far. I really want to go to Lake Tahoe but have to accept it's not an ideal time to go. Spring looks to be the best. We decided we'll just do San Franciso for a few days and then Orange County for the remainder of the trip. I think my husband wants to fly in-between, he doesn't want to do any long drives. He has relatives in Orange County so not sure how the accommodations will be but I wanna do Disneyland for a few days not just one day. I like Disney World better but Didny is Didny eek!

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Posted by emeraldgem
If you only have a few days, skip Tahoe unless you wanna ski. Lotta snow and tricky driving. Yosemite is beautiful in the winter but roads going to it sometimes get closed but you can check on accommodations near the park and drive in.

Plenty to see and do in San Francisco! I would just stay there given the time of year. And Napa and Sonoma only about an hour and a half north.

We're from Texas so driving in the snow is out of the question :/ Napa and Sonoma sounds nice. Do you have any suggestions for New Years?

I live in Sonoma county and parents live in Napa unless you just want to go wine tasting and nice dinner then there’s nothing to do here

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Is there a place at all that you appreciate in Cali?

Posted by Beerthirty
Tahoe is a disaster for New Years so is San Francisco stay away

Why is San Franciso a disaster for New Years?

Posted by emeraldgem
If you only have a few days, skip Tahoe unless you wanna ski. Lotta snow and tricky driving. Yosemite is beautiful in the winter but roads going to it sometimes get closed but you can check on accommodations near the park and drive in.

Plenty to see and do in San Francisco! I would just stay there given the time of year. And Napa and Sonoma only about an hour and a half north.

We're from Texas so driving in the snow is out of the question :/ Napa and Sonoma sounds nice. Do you have any suggestions for New Years?

Posted by Black-Mamba
I’m so jealous I love killa Cali


I really would love to go to LA I didn’t get enough of that city

Honestly I'd rather go to Mexico or Costa Rica but he's so eager to take me to Cali. Pls hype me for Cali. What's there worthy besides Didnywerl!!!

Posted by Black-Mamba
Beaches and sun

Disneyland? You best get a hotel there don’t drive from LA...Very far

I like the idea of Lake Tahoe early on

Beaches and sun where during winter? And ugh that's what I dread, getting to places in California is so ridiculous, everything's so far apart and then there's the traffic in LA.