lmao I like that @gemitati

needed that chuckle just now.

my ex-scorp, who has had a year long boyfriend just texted me asking how I've been as we haven't talked for a few weeks.

I simply responded.
"Look...I'm sorry I've been distant, its just. I'd rather have none of you than just 15% of you"

to which she responded:
"Well goodbye. thank you for everything. Good luck with your life."

I think I probably hurt her with that line. she replied back quickly with her response. I doubt she really feels that way after knowing each other 5 years and building the bond we had. She's been trying to be friends(while denying our connection) for the last few months I've been back(i was away and split due to Long distance), but I'm really done with the fake friendship.

you think that's enough to get her to really think on it, or is this her "sting" goodbye. I personally haven't done anything wrong by her.

my ex-scorp, who has had a year long boyfriend just texted me asking how I've been as we haven't talked for a few weeks.

I simply responded.
"Look...I'm sorry I've been distant, its just. I'd rather have none of you than just 15% of you"

to which she responded:
"Well goodbye. thank you for everything. Good luck with your life."

I think I probably hurt her with that line. she replied back quickly with her response. I doubt she really feels that way after knowing each other 5 years and building the bond we had. She's been trying to be friends(while denying our connection) for the last few months I've been back, but I'm really done with the fake friendship.

you think that's enough to get her to really think on it, or is this her "sting" goodbye. I personally haven't done anything wrong by her.

Um. I judge women by physical appearance but in collection with everything else. . I'm 5'9 and a half lol....would I date a hot woman taller than me ala Tom Cruise...no. I'd definitely have sex, but not date... because There is a correlation between protecting your mate and the apperance you present together as a couple. I have a nice frame but I'm a little on the short side. I don't need my girl resting her elbows on the top of my head.

I'm spiritual.... I did love my religious history classes in college, mainly because its interesting to see the tie that binds all religion....

It's basically doing the right thing by people.

I've always found religion to be a coping mechanism. so, its a benefit to those that need to believe in something intangible to give them strength through tough times. I'll respect and give them there wish.

hahaha.... I have Libra mars too (12th house makes it even worse)..... we hate being hated. and when we do it nicely.....and still get hated we are like wtf. it's like people want to run over us and we say ok every time.

Maybe. I was avoiding it like the plague during my 20s. I like the ability to not have responsibilities

I focused on education and being financially capable. Now that I’m ready to settle down a lot of women my age have kids already. I love kids but I’m not into the whole step dad thing.

Lol I’m up and down the age spectrum. I’ve dated 10 years older. My previous serious scorp ex was 3 years younger... Ive just started talking to a cap that is 8 years younger. I was talking to a sag but she lied about her age said she was 24 and is actually 20. She was afraid I wouldn’t talk to her. She’s very cute and I don’t look my age but I am apprehensive in dating someone so young from a maturity standpoint.

I attract all ages because I have so many different facets to me

Men get more handsome???🤔 I must be like 1000 then lol

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Posted by hellosaggy
@dewiklaessen25

I have absolutely NO problem with you. Everybody expresses themselves differently. Granted they aren’t all productive. Which is always fair to constructively criticize. Even if the other individual chooses not to or to take it.

I don’t like people attacking someone for saying how they feel.

thank you!

I'm maybe explosive and expressive but I don't like to keep things for myself.
sorry if I talk so much I'm 26 btw how old are you if I may ask?

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I’m 33...34 in a few weeks

@dewiklaessen25

I have absolutely NO problem with you. Everybody expresses themselves differently. Granted they aren’t all productive. Which is always fair to constructively criticize. Even if the other individual chooses not to or to take it.

I don’t like people attacking someone for saying how they feel.

Why beat up on a 25 year old that hasn’t had the opportunity to be in a healthy relationship?

We learn as we get older. I did, as will she.

It’s easier to learn from someone else’s mistakes, but we have to make our own too. Staying in a repetitive cycle is the issue. I haven’t seen anything she’s posted that has shown this.

Manipulation and compromise is natural in all relationships. If you are too emotionally unintelligent to recognize it then hey. It’s your fault. 🤷🏾‍♂️

@dewiklaessen25

No point in arguing. Ton of closed minded people around here... and hypocrites. They will complain about you cheating and then be emotionally abusive and down right have a dry as a board personality that they get cheated on themselves and come here and be self righteous.


I understand what you are saying. Sometimes it’s just so not worth it you want to go out there and just be with someone else. But you Stick it out. You shouldn’t have to feel like that though

no... I am being serious.

Back in the day. I did a lot of stupid stuff. How many women can I do at a time, in a day, just dumb. my early goal was to sleep with a woman from every continent on earth (except Antarctica lol)... then after accomplishing it... I was like. I'm going for the soviet bloc next... just stupid, fun as a young guy, but stupid. I learned then that after so many partners sex is all the same except if feelings are involved. its just exciting with new partners, you get addicted to the question marks of how its going to be like. its a high, I wasn't a sex addict just liked the adrenaline. I refocused my energy as I grew up because it was really whorish.

I don't equate sex to love.... so when I love someone it changes. I enjoy and compare sex to cardio.

I was having this conversation the other day... if you really like oral sex and your girl isn't great at it or even good. do you trade her in or enjoy the other 75% (yes I like oral that much) of her.

I won't commit unless the sex is above average. mind blowing sex still isn't enough though because you aren't humping 24x7.

@Senorita_LL

My definition of love is someone that will forgive all my external mistakes (I don't mind working hard for forgiviness as long as you don't keep bringing it up) - as long as i treat her amazingly. Someone that will make me claim her, but not make me feel jealous. and is down for some of the funnest filthiest sex ever on a REGULAR Basis.... and she has to be my bestest friend and like to travel... that's it. not asking too much.

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Posted by Senorita_LL
Do they even regret? I have never actually met one that do.

If the only thing they regret is because, they got caught and realizing the game is over.

That is all.

Yeah like they feel they lost an image.

You mean their Superman image? Lol

But what I'm really amazed, is their way of juggling with different women at the same time.

Those times they gave to the few relationships they were in, and telling both (or more), that they loved them.

It's wow, just wow!

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I do feel like superman. I hate having sex with multiple people I love around the same time period though. it makes me feel dirty. if I have no feelings... ehhh its whatever.

I tell all my friends... hey once I take a shower... its like I hit the reset button

my dominant signs are sag 20 percent and scorpio 19 percent. and elemental fire is 39 and water is 35. so I can handle the emotional piece... it just causes me internal struggle because a big part of me doesn't want to deal with emotions and the baggage it causes and the other wants deep emotional connection.... ehhhh

I'm a walking paradox.

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Posted by hellosaggy
cheating in a monogamous relationship is a tough one. I really regret cheating every time I do/did it. But its more for being deceitful to someone who loves you, more than feeling guilty about the sex.



Unless there were extreme circumstances around the cheating like being in LDR. I would just call it quits. If the conditions can't be mitigated permanently its going to happen again.

you whorebag. sometimes you're like a walking sag stereotype. lmao

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Lmao @edgelord . I can't help it I'm honest. lol