After chatting to another Pisces from here I messaged him last night asking how he was. He replies immediately, I like that but then says he’s been busy and asks how I am. Next text saying, he’s just heading off to bed as he’s exhausted 😩<<< that’s my face.

Thought about it, then said. “I’ve been busy too but not as busy as you. If you prefer I didn’t message, let me know. Have a good night.”

He sends back “more than happy for you to message me” “my kids week on, so it’s always a bit crazy”

Told him I understood and to message when he has time. And said our goodnights. He ended with “X”

I know I’m going to need strength for this one! My Leo Moon and Mars are going to flip me out but there’s a bit of calm at least knowing at least today.. lol

My gut is telling me, this guy could be “my one” The difference I see, is that 5 days in my world was painful, 2 weeks is like death but for you guys its like a moment??

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Posted by sweethearts
Has it come to this? Women having to make the first move? Recently because of this corona bs, I’ve had to go on dating sites and the guys don’t ever IMO make the first move ( maybe it’s just me...) never had any problems in RL then talking to a mate the other day, I asked how he and his now ex got together and he said, they went out on a date and she didn’t leave him alone after that. She chased him down and then got pregnant...! Wtf? 😂 he’s been single for a few years again so maybe the ladies aren’t as aggressive.

Is this the way it is these days? It takes away from my womanhood having to make the first move all the time!

That’s SO funny! Woman had a mission and had accomplished it! I am wondering if child is his...

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Way to make an entrance Gemitati ❤️

Yes, they had 2 kids. He’s a great father.

Call him, be assertive

Posted by elizbethian

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Why would you interpret that as revenge? Tf?

Well, because I'm assuming he didn't like being stared at and tried to find a way to make me uncomfortable and squirm.

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lol 😂 how old are you?

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Posted by sweethearts
Yes seeing the travel is out of the equation, even a visit home back to NZ atm. I’ll be looking towards a relationship, something substantial and long term. I’ve tried this before with little results. Care to share your methods?

How are you actively working towards obtaining that substantial, long-term relationship?

For me I’ve gotten into this whole thing since a few years ago. At first I was at what felt like my lowest and trying desperately for things to change around me. It didn’t work then. My issue was I kind of just wished and hoped and felt like I had little control over taking much meaningful actions towards what I wanted. Then I just completely stopped trying and focused on internally healing and stopping the negative thoughts. And then I slowly gave things that I initially was against a chance in life and things that I initially wanted just started unfolding in unexpected ways. Some of it didn’t manifest until going through some rough patches but that’s what helped me learn that just because you wish for it doesn’t mean it can’t show up months/years from now. You just have to believe in it and not dread about it because dreading about it is what is going to delay/hurt it from manifesting.

Basically I had to go through changing my mindset in just having strong, blind faith even though sometimes it felt like things weren’t happening fast enough. It eventually gets easier to push through the negative, impatient thoughts. Also, you need to take real world action towards it, it can happen from things that you never thought would relate with it. You just have to continue to get yourself in a positive thinking and feeling state of mind regardless of what’s currently happening around you. I’m not sure if this was insightful but that has been my experience with it.

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I think I’ve always naturally manifested my way in life without realising that I was doing it. When my business was struggling a few years ago, I used YouTube and hypnotherapy to keep me from negativity. Positive affirmations which helped daily and particularly nightly stresses of running a business. Once I sold the business, I still enjoyed the hypnotherapy sessions for different things including giving me the best nights sleep and I stumbled across manifestation videos.

I am ready now to settle down again. I definitely wasn’t before, there was too much of myself to work on and I ran from any love interest. And yes, changing the mindset is needed, being more open to exploring and less closed minded.

Yes seeing the travel is out of the equation, even a visit home back to NZ atm. I’ll be looking towards a relationship, something substantial and long term. I’ve tried this before with little results. Care to share your methods?

I enjoy watching it sometimes, it helps with dry spells. What’s have seen on the www when I’ve looked has been imo trashy acting and doesn’t turn me on at all. I’ve had vids sent to me from guy mates so it’s more on what they like and gets them off and more just the act without the storyline which I prefer.

Libra sun/ Leo moon

Posted by Gobby

Posted by sweethearts
You don’t owe any explanation, if he hurt your wrist while he was holding it, it sounds like he was frustrated that you freaked out and pulled away. He’s the one that needs to understand what you’ve been through and take things a lot slower and if he doesn’t, I wouldn’t go anywhere near him! You need someone that is gentle and patient with your situation, not someone that is forceful and only takes his needs into consideration.

I understand that you have established an attraction for him but you need to step back and make sure that this is the type of person that you really want to be moving forward with. Assess it now with open eyes before you get in too deep.

She doesn't need anyone because all she's doing is hurting others, instead of fixing herself.

You and her are making the same mistake, believing in the bullshit Hollywood theory that the right person will make everything right. Wrong!

As for the wrist incident, we don't know the full details of why that came about (let alone if it happened at all or if the events have been exaggerated). Such a distraction from the heart of the matter could simply be a ploy to make the OP be perceived in a more sympathetic light...

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People come on here with their story the way they see it. It’s their story and yes people can see other things going on that the OP doesn’t clearly see and try to advise.

You make some valid points Gobby but you’re so hell bent on bagging people out and belittling them that your points are lost. Still trying to work out whether you thrive off it or you can’t yourself see the way you’re coming across and invalidating your own advice!

You don’t owe any explanation, if he hurt your wrist while he was holding it, it sounds like he was frustrated that you freaked out and pulled away. He’s the one that needs to understand what you’ve been through and take things a lot slower and if he doesn’t, I wouldn’t go anywhere near him! You need someone that is gentle and patient with your situation, not someone that is forceful and only takes his needs into consideration.

I understand that you have established an attraction for him but you need to step back and make sure that this is the type of person that you really want to be moving forward with. Assess it now with open eyes before you get in too deep.

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2 years and he sleeps with someone else within 2 1/2 weeks? Kick him to the kerb permanently, he’sa list, cheater and alchy so nothing gods going to come from this. Yes it’s going to sting for a while and you’ll run through millions of questions in your head that you’ll want answers for and make all the excuses to get in touch but brave it out and move on. Even if he did change and you forgive, it’ll be short lived!

He won’t leave me alone and uses that we weren’t together as an excuse but we have been breaking up over his lies about other stuff but to sleep with someone that quickly is mind boggling. I have blocked him everywhere he showed up at my work and house this week but I just ignored him. I’m just extremely hurt even tho I probably should’ve seen it coming

You say he won't leave you alone but yet you met up with him. Did he hold a gun to your head?

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She met up with him and tried a final time to make it work, then hit the texts from the other girl and dumped him again. Now he’s stalking her to try and get her back.

You may need to get a DVO on him if he insists on coming to your work place and home. He sounds like he has control issues and that type of person can flip easily when they aren’t or can’t gain back control. If he has ever laid a finger on you in previous fights/arguments don’t hesitate.

You also have to be really firm and unwaived that it is over between you. Don’t give any reasons or excuses, that just allows him to think he can fix this. Just refuse to talk or engage with him especially when he confronts you. Get yourself mentally prepared.

Even I’d say yes to that!

Can you clarify what you mean by 3 times... a week? Or 3 time you need space so that means you’re out?

Posted by besarlalluvia
sis he's tired

I get that, just don’t want it to be the excuses I’m giving myself because I’m overthinking it.

It’s his weekend without the kids until Sunday night and I was hoping that he would extend the invitation to meet. If not this weekend then it won’t be for another fortnight at least.

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And not in the way I was hoping for 😜

So I’ve been chatting to a Pisces guy for a few weeks and things seemed to be going well. He responds almost instantly whenever I text but mostly I have to text first. He works long hours and currently on night shift 11.00 - 11.00pm.

We didn’t message yesterday, I dropped one which said, Hey u, I know you’re busy, just thought I’d say hi and hope you’ve had a good day so far Then this morning sent a good morning text. He responded immediately and said he was starting early today and tomorrow and was really tired. All good, couple messaged back and forth and I said have a great day/night. He responds back, Thank you have a wonderful weekend yourself.

It’s Thursday 🙄🤔 did I just get blown off? I definitely don’t feel like I should text again.

Opinions please, thanks

Contrary to popular belief, we pisces like our space. Let us breath.

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Take all the time in the world, we libra like to know we are on your mind. What it comes down to is a little respect. I wouldn’t do that to someone I was exploring a “relationship” with and I don’t expect that in return. That person needs to understand that from the get go or we’d bump heads along the journey. Not a deal breaker but something that needs to be acknowledged.

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Does his work week end on thursday?

No he’s working tomorrow as well (Friday)

I sent back “weekend?” No answer

Balls in his court, I won’t reach out again and tbh, I feel what was said then says alot. Butthurt and feel dismissed.

**Pendulants **

Definitely not Libras the pendants keep swinging

Nobodies rocked my boat for 16 months... slowly dying inside. Wouldn’t recommend it!

2 years and he sleeps with someone else within 2 1/2 weeks? Kick him to the kerb permanently, he’sa list, cheater and alchy so nothing gods going to come from this. Yes it’s going to sting for a while and you’ll run through millions of questions in your head that you’ll want answers for and make all the excuses to get in touch but brave it out and move on. Even if he did change and you forgive, it’ll be short lived!

Curious, how did the girls best mate get your phone number? How long were you together before you split? 2 1/2 weeks and he’s sleeping with someone else. Sounds like you had only just started seeing each other and he hasn’t committed at all.