SassyKiwi

Most mother-in-laws are big pieces of butters to their daughter-in-laws. I cannot tell you how many mother-in-law situations I've had close people in my life encounter that are borderline nasty and obsessive over their sons. Sometimes you wish you could scream at them to shove their sons back up their vaginas because clearly that would make them the happiest. Women like these are so attached to their sons either because they've had a butterty husband or just plainly don't have anything else meaningful going on in their lives. I see them as the most pathetic level a female can stoop. Seriously treetrunk trying to ever impress her because you won't. You just do you and ignore her existence if you realllllly want to be with her son. You can play neutral if her son is around, other than that let her talk all the butter she wants about you. At least your guy will know it's all coming from one side instead of both. Try to get her to fear you by showing with your actions how *he's* the lucky one to deserve you if you can. Put the cookiemonster in her place with your actions, not words.

He's a kept to himself kinda guy. Has a lot of deep emotions but can come off as being witty and positive spirited. Deep down he's a softie but won't show it as he comes off emotionally poised and measured. Cancer mars folks look after their people, I've seen this consistently in women, not sure about cancer mars men. You'd probably know more given how he treats his family and close friends. I feel like overall he comes off as put together in life doesn't he?

You say you "MUST ALWAYS gain more than the other person and instead of getting punished for it, (you) keep getting rewarded."

Can you give examples of the gains and rewards that you've gotten from this supposed dark nature of yours?

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Mars square Pluto, natally is a pretty 'evil' aspect. More-so just flagrantly inconsiderate tho.

Nope. I have mars square pluto on top of other pluto squares with my personal planets. I can be selfish at times but far from being considered evil. I don't believe in wishing or doing ill on others. I'd rather completely ignore a person's existence than waste my time trying to get back at them.

It might just be a virgo thing, aren't they sometimes coined robots or something, maybe that makes them easily apathetic to others.

Where's the chart?

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It sounds ridiculous but I actually scheduled my time to cry and let my mind run when my grandpa died.

If you have a counselor in your school, maybe schedule a visit? You can't avoid the inevitable but you can sort of prepare for it. You need all the support you can get.

Try not to take so much in your plate because too much can cause mental and emotional strain. Unless it works and actually take your mind off things.

It's hard but you can push through it.

I'm the type of person who always feels like a burden to people if I ask anything of them even if I'm close to them. But I will try me best to reach out to people.

Did the scheduling for getting out your emotions help keep you focused on other things you needed to get done, knowing that you set aside time to let everything out?

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I'm not sure where you are to know when your semester ends but here in Texas this spring semester ends around the beginning weeks of May for colleges. So only a few weeks away.

When I was going through emotional turmoil during school it took all my energy to shut out all my thoughts and focus on completing a set of assignments at a time before scheduling time to let all my emotions out and allow myself to be as ridiculously depressed as possible. During exam weeks it required me to be numb and hold onto my emotions for a few days at a time but looking forward to having that allocated set time of being able to release somehow made things more manageable. I encourage you to try it.

If you're also working, I suggest your days be scheduled to work, classes, studying, talking to your mom and releasing your emotions. Friends can wait. At least until you finish the semester. They say mind over body for a reason, if you can do your best to keep up your mom's spirits regardless of the situation, it might help her pull through better. Set aside a time of day to video call with her every day. Let her know you're doing your best for her. You can do it. It's going to work out. Sometimes everything can feel so treetrunked up like it can completely crumble any second but lie to yourself a little longer just to pull through this semester.

But trend wise emotionally unavailable women are in

I'm an INTJ. I'm career driven and don't mind leading if needed, display emotions towards very limited areas of my life, but my introverted nature makes it extremely draining to constantly be around people and network everywhere. Idk if I envy ENTJs or find them insane to a degree.

They all lying, I married one and they're confusing as treetrunk

Fire signs and scorpios

“The church’s wood latticework roof and iconic spire collapsed but many of its most valuable religious relics and cultural treasures were spared.” Yes let’s pour nearly a billion dollar into fixing the roof and spire of all things while there are many other sanctuaries where the basic worship area alone is no more. What’s wrong with slapping a Home Depot quality roof on it and allocating the funds to other pressing issues? Oh right...aesthetics

Stop trying to make aesthetics happen with unheard of things you leeb

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1) I’ve never cheated
2) Its because my gf at the time regulated on me

All other non serious relationships, I just got bored and fell off of communication. Like I’d stop bothering and disappear.

I can’t honestly say if I would cheat when it comes down to it, but I can say I will stray if I’m with a girl that can’t keep me fully stimulated and doesn’t soften me.

What do you mean by soften you?

My penis😌

That was literally the context of my post lol

Me being in a relationship and unfulfilled is my worst nightmare... like... bye babe I’ll see you next year 👋🏻

So, if she fulfilled you in every other aspect except sexually. You would run?

I have to be completely fulfilled to be happy :/

So yes. If we don’t vibe on all levels, I don’t want it.

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Is this a Pisces guy thing (female Pisces seem more leveled)? I thought Pisces were easy to pushover... why can't yall be more thankful for what's in front of you instead of looking for things to vibe at ALL levels for contentment? Wait nvm it's cause y'all live in your heads, reality is beyond yalls comprehension

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I’m ok at money management (surprisingly because I’m a Pisces). I AM very bad at shopping around for discounts though. I like, I buy. My credit is pretty well and my debts are low.

I’m still pretty green when it comes to retirement plans though. That stuff gives me headaches, but I contribute 9% of my income to 401k by auto drafting. It gets matched at 6% .

My company offers discounts on stock trading, but personally, the shares are a bit too much and I’m still debating if I should...

Roughly $ 250 USD per share

It doesn't sound like you max out your 401k, why not? You get a 6% match which would mean more free money! Taking compound interest seriously from when you are still young is the best thing a person could ever do for themselves.

I think you read that wrong, in fact he does more than match it by 3%

He's doing the normal at 15%

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Yeah I did read it wrong. I would try to still contribute more if the salary allowed. Imagine that max of 19k grow 10 years from now. I think more young people should take advantage of it. The money will end up working for them in the long term and the only sacrifice now is living frugal. But it's not cool to be frugal they say, it's all about instant gratification. We'll just see who's faring well when they're all middle-aged. But then I'm also for enjoying life when you can while you're young because one's health won't nearly be at their peak by retirement. So conflicting 😫

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I'm not at all good at managing money like at all. I'm a big spender of food and colognes jeweleries anything that make me look good. It seems everytime I put money in my account I'm ready to take it straight back out and buy food. I can literally eat about 400 and something odd dollars on food by myself. Food doesn't last long in my house because of me. Food seems to be the most important part of my daily life. With Libra in the 2nd house you tend to be a big spender of food and aesthetics.

Yes I have my own business

Scammed? I don't like to think so

And I like to consider myself retired. Although I have my own I don't need to work by the hour on some stinking timeclock.

Wow. My Venus is in the 2nd house but I'm kind of the opposite. I'm young but I don't like to spend my own money on food... I definitely would never want food to be a significant chunk of my expenses. Do you at least have an emergency fund for yourself and your family?

I think it's great when people are at least working for themselves by retirement age and not others so you seem to be doing something right. What kind of business do you have?

My Venus is in my second house too.
I spend my money on traveling. I would rather travel then eat lavishly. So I don’t go out to a lot of expensive restaurants.

Spending $ 100 to eat at a fancy restaurant 3 times in a month is a plane ticket somewhere.

Yes! I would rather travel than spend lavishly on food too. I've found a country's local food is usually a better option than their fine dining so I will never understand how people can bring themselves to overpay for usually underseasoned fancily plated food. But I also have a heavy 9th house.

Do you relate to what it usually says about the 2nd house venus placement? It's supposed to make you financially lucky or comfortable.

So the two of you wouldn't spend money on a nice fine man? You know like buy him Valentine's gifts and surprise him with nice Valentine's dinner?

I not only focus my money on food for just myself but also on other women I takes out to dine.

And I have a pack 9th house too and my thing is still food. I could really care less about traveling.

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Treating SO occasionally is different but I'd rather we go on nice trips and vacations than waste on fancy food that rarely lives up to their expectations. My palate is most pleased by home cooked meals.

You could care less about traveling? You are a 9th house fraud..

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I’m ok at money management (surprisingly because I’m a Pisces). I AM very bad at shopping around for discounts though. I like, I buy. My credit is pretty well and my debts are low.

I’m still pretty green when it comes to retirement plans though. That stuff gives me headaches, but I contribute 9% of my income to 401k by auto drafting. It gets matched at 6% .

My company offers discounts on stock trading, but personally, the shares are a bit too much and I’m still debating if I should...

Roughly $ 250 USD per share

It doesn't sound like you max out your 401k, why not? You get a 6% match which would mean more free money! Taking compound interest seriously from when you are still young is the best thing a person could ever do for themselves.

From what I've heard, a lot of people do better when they go back to school in their later years because they have more self-discipline and maturity than when they were younger.

I was an innocent little brokenhearted girl that looked up zodiac sign compatiability and came across forign stuff like sun sign, moon sign, rising. Didn’t know a person could have multiple signs. I used the calculator to calculate mine and looked up their meanings and was somehow lead to dxp. Idk why I stayed because most dxpers would post sexual threads and seemed sexually frustrated (still do lel). Then I got into the dxp games and mafia, those got me addicted. The times I'd sporadically disappear meant real serious butter was going down in my life. I also don't use social media so dxp can be like my reddit.

What's your end game here? To keep throwing yourself at someone who doesn't want to talk to you? Women find this attractive all the time. Finds a self-made man who has his life together and can be elusive because he has other priorities but thinks that maybe he will one day come in and sweep them off their feet. He's not Mr. Grey. He's been clear he has no serious interest in you. You're only hurting yourself here.

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Wtf are OP's placements? His posts are firebunny level obnoxious and nauseating

Oh, look.

A disarmed and feckless New Zealander is telling me I am obnoxious.

IDGAF about what you think, sheep.

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I'm American you piece of poop

Wtf are OP's placements? His posts are firebunny level obnoxious and nauseating