i'd never hit a woman or anyone out of a verbal spat that didn't seem to be escalating.

@CaramelizedCoffee

isn't the point of charisma to get what you want or sell what you are trying to sell?


And I'd rather be a sociopath than a psychopath. I think a lot of successful people have traits that are close to a full blown sociopath

yea, I think I have it, and its because I've been told I have it. It's really a natural thing, I think its just really the confident energy you put off.

with my placements, I read its in a few of my dominant planets.

I've always sensed fake charm/charisma when I meet someone and I am immediately turned off by that person.

I was reading in darkstarastrology http://darkstarastrology.com/sagittarius-decan-3/
that people in my decan sense people...and its dead on.

@RooSagicorn

you know what I am talking about.

@dewiklaessen25

Sag isn't really temperamental or aggressive. honestly I am pretty happy go luck until someone crosses a line. then I blow. I can take a lot of crap. Patience is what I show externally ( the sun). internally ( the moon in Aries) I don't take any bs from people and want what I want and want it now... I really hold that back from people.

@imnotvirgo

I'm sure there was something else behind that punch. I won't start a fight, but I will jump in one for a friend, or finish one that someone instigates.

all my passion fights with ex's did involve shouting(because its all coming out) and with one sag ex her breaking a lot of my stuff lol. then me yelling at her she wouldn't have to spend money she didn't have replacing my stuff if she didn't break it in the first place LMAO.

I have a terrible temper, when I finally erupt... I don't know if its my aries moon that adds to it. It takes a lot to make me mad. so when I finally get there. You are getting ALL of it. not just this moment, but every damn moment I let you get away with that I have stored in recent memory.


I think its because we are so mutable that we let stuff slide, that most people probably would have called you on, to maintain peace and keep things light.... but then it just builds up.

I don't like being confrontational unless I have to, and sometimes I take a barb from someone as being misplaced and try to analyze it internally instead of doing tit for tat, but then stuff just adds up and erupts like a volcano.

You will think we are just spazzing out over what just happened. that might have just been the catalyst for the explosion.

@MonaMachiavelli

It sounds like we are on the same page. I don't just observe and point and try to make any one feel like crap. that's not my job. I like people to enjoy being around me. Like you said about being overweight/out of shape. I trained my ex- scorp that was out of shape. she worked out with me religiously, she said some of the things I had her doing was stupid and and even told me no she wasn't going to do certain things I said, but I was there and still working with her and she looks amazing now, and still sends me half clothed pictures here and there (even though she has a new boyfriend)...

I hate people that just observe and criticize. I am a true and active friend, and people know that when they sign up for me to be in their lives. And I can take peoples barbs at me. that same scorp said to me, "I don't know why I get so mean to you, you are so good to me." at some point you gotta stop saying it and start doing something about it. that's all I'm saying.

@MonaMachiavelli

I've never been that way. The truth is all the scorps I know are sensitive as hell deep down. You guys never let someone truly in. So when I finally get in and I know I'm respected that's when I make mention of issues/situations. Granted your faults are your faults. I have my quirks too. That's why I don't demand a change.

A few times from a few scorps I've been asked... "can you tell me my such and such has a problem with me?" yeah its because you do "x,y,z" Ya'll try to dominate a relationship. It's ok. People are there because they want to be, at least in my case, so while I can respect you for who you are. I damn sure am going to tell you when you are acting like an a hole, maybe a beautiful, sexy a hole, but an a hole nonetheless. Not to mention, I won't go until I am good and ready. thats true friendship not this westernized "friendship" people are trying to sell.

That's why I am normally gone when a relationship is over, because as mutuable and patient as I am, I might not know exactly where my line is, but when I turn my feelings off (and it takes a lot) its definitely no coming back.

my mars libra is in 12th.

@MonaMachiavelli

You said bitch please? Anybody ever tell you, you can debate without being insulting?

Also, nobody is perfect. if you are doing things like trashing your friends behind their backs, its one thing to say you don't like something about them, but literally saying how terrible a person they are, and doing self-destructive things to yourself. It's my job as a PARTNER to tell you about it and give you some alternate suggestions, not just let you be toxic to your friends and yourself. If you guys are that FIXED that you can't take constructive criticism. you will not only never grow as a person, but keep making the same mistakes.

I was looking through my pullen and my dominant planets are scorp venus/jup sag and my dominant sign is sag at 20% followed by scorpio at 19.4% not to mention I am 31% fire and 29% water in terms of elements.

I have up and down moments with my emotions towards people and my desire to be free. I love deeply and change without reason, and I just have feelings that just make me feel bipolar at times, but give me power to empathize and rid myself of people and their baggage.

What about you guys?

yeah I don't know if I can love deeply again after first betrayal by a sag woman.... and then the last scorp I had leave but still wants to hang around as a friend. It's too painful to lose like that. probably only two times I cried in my adult life about my own situation.

That was enough tears for a lifetime. I want to control my life from now on.

Its a common agreement most people love sags for the simple fact that we are human detachments from reality. we are fun to be around, great lovers, and mostly attractive people.

We are fickle and yes we do like a puzzle to solve, and when you have fixed signs we tend to butt heads unless there is enough willingness to make a change on their side(or mutuable/cardinal if you are that in to astrology).

out of many women its rare I have any that tell me never speak to them again... unless they decide to stop talking to me because they still want more than what I am willing to offer, but I make it a point not to cross people or commit a deadly sin(and if I do I make it a point they never find out or if I can't - I end it).

My dominants are sag and scorp almost equal 19% to 18.3% ...

Sign: Power Rank Percent - Element Power Percent
Aries: 60.3 ( 4) / 9.7% - Fire: 194.5 / 31.1%
Taurus: 70.1 ( 3) / 11.2% - Earth: 137.8 / 22.1%
Gemini: 38.5 ( 8) / 6.2% - Air: 107.2 / 17.2%
Cancer: 12.0 (12) / 1.9% - Water: 185.0 / 29.6%
Leo: 15.9 (11) / 2.5%
Virgo: 24.3 ( 9) / 3.9% - Mode Power Percent
Libra: 48.3 ( 6) / 7.7% - Cardinal: 164.0 / 26.3%
Scorpio: 114.4 ( 2) / 18.3% - Fixed: 220.8 / 35.4%
Sagittarius: 118.4 ( 1) / 19.0% - Mutuable: 239.7 / 38.4%
Capricorn: 43.4 ( 7) / 6.9%
Aquarius: 20.4 (10) / 3.3%
Pisces: 58.6 ( 5) / 9.4%
Total: 624.5 / 100.0%


Then my dominant planets are tied with my Scorp Venus and Sag Jupiter at 14.2 % *shrugs*

Planet: Position Aspects Total Rank Percent
Sun: 45.0 ( 4) + 13.7 ( 6) = 58.7 ( 5) / 9.4%
Moon: 25.0 ( 9) + 19.5 ( 4) = 44.5 ( 9) / 7.1%
Mercury: 41.0 ( 5) + 34.3 ( 1) = 75.3 ( 3) / 12.1%
Venus: 77.0 ( 1) + 11.7 ( 9) = 88.7 ( 1) / 14.2%
Mars: 32.5 ( 7) + 21.6 ( 3) = 54.1 ( 6) / 8.7%
Jupiter: 55.0 ( 3) + 33.4 ( 2) = 88.4 ( 2) / 14.2%
Saturn: 35.0 ( 6) + 12.6 ( 8) = 47.6 ( 7) / 7.6%
Uranus: 20.0 (10) + 12.9 ( 7) = 32.9 (10) / 5.3%
Neptune: 30.0 ( 8) + 16.0 ( 5) = 46.0 ( 8) / 7.4%
Pluto: 63.5 ( 2) + 5.7 (10) = 69.2 ( 4) / 11.1%
Chiron: 12.0 (11) + 0.0 (11) = 12.0 (11) / 1.9%
Node: 7.0 (12) + 0.0 (12) = 7.0 (12) / 1.1%
Total: 443.0 + 181.5 = 624.5 / 100.0%

sorry sorry. I've been through this whole baord and people are saying the real leos are the moon leos and the sun leos are just leos by the sun and all this crap. I'm just like everyone has a damn opinion.

I don't get this fake scorpio ish.... my ex is a scorp through and through and has 0 placements in her 8th house. 5 planets in f'ing scorpio including her sun,venus, and pluto .... then her emotionally bipolar butt has a damn cancer moon on top of that.... ZERO in 8th and she was born on November 20th.

If you want to go off of Sun or whatever you feel the definition is, then so be it, but chill with the REAL and FAKE personal definitions.


Signed,

A REAL Sagittarius.

I won't go back to an ex If I finally got her to agree to friend zone. It takes a lot of effort to friend them and to go back sends mixed messages.

If I have feelings I would go back, or out of revenge and I know she's a good lay.

dammmmmnnnnnn. that is harsh. I'm glad a scoprio's never done that to me. well I think its worse if she strung you along thinking everything is good.

This one Gem made a move then just pulled back a little. Normally when people make a pass... I think did they just make a pass? but because I over analyze I lean toward the side of caution, so I wait for 2 or 3 more cues before I make a decision that they actually did make a pass.

when people look at me from across the room I don't think they are interested. I think I must be doing something embarrassing or she's looking at someone else. I am completely uncomfortable reading people I've never communicated with. I have always normally been approached or set up with someone I was interested in.

Normally if I come up to them and start a conversation I don't care if they like me or not or drunk lol

yeah 75% is high... but if you think about it I'm only right 3/4ths of the time. I don't like running the risk of embarrassing myself or ruining a good friendship. So to gamble I need a high probability of being right.

@Thesag

exactly my point. I can like her to death... but I won't make a move until I'm 75% sure