Posted by sole2Posted by sweethearts
You have a quitter on your hands, things don’t run smoothly and get too hard and he quits. He’s got himself in deep by actually getting married and that commitment alone takes a lot more to get out of without a firm reason to give to his wife and family... if it wasn’t you, he’d find another. Look back at his life, bet he quits all the time whether it is relationships, jobs, path of choice, he can’t and doesn’t stick much out past a year or two.
Go ahead, be the reason he walks away from his marriage. Tell yourself whatever you need to, to make yourself feel better but guarantee you’ll be in a similar position when he quits you too!
Before he was with me he had a 4 year relationship with a woman from a different culture and conservative background and they had to be secret the whole time. He didn't give up then.click to expand
Posted by LibranebulagirlPosted by Ravishing
I feel like you're not being honest with yourself. You still have feelings for him and want more than just closure.
I still have feelings for him. Yes. I want closure. Yes. Me having feelings for him doesn't equal me not just wanting closure why is this hard to understandclick to expand
Posted by LibranebulagirlPosted by sweethearts
I'm confused...you say you want closure but I read you want him to tell you he wants to try again. So which is it?
You're the Libra that is indecisive, he's not. If he wanted to try again, I'm sure it would have happened before 5 months. Stop over thinking and looking for hope and move on, after 5 months you should be able to without looking back...then again you are Libra and we do think that we leave a burning impression that makes us unforgettable ...well we can live in fairy land, that's our prerogative!
I'm not sure where you read I want to try again because I never said that anywhere here. I did admit to still having feelings for him, which is true. That doesn't mean I want to try again. I was unhappy with him. I just want him to realize we can't be friends at the level that he wants until he takes more accountability and there's more closure. It takes me longer than most to get over relationships because my emotions run deep. I want him to stop sending mixed signals. Simple. I'm not living in "fairy land" my feelings are valid, I don't care about being "unforgettable". This is a situation that has been observed from everyone around us and people that I don't even speak to about it have literally approached me to ask me what his deal is. I haven't listed everything he's done but he's been very blatantly sending me mixed signals and no it's not my "wishful" thinking. In fact I almost WISH he would ice me out so that I wouldn't have to deal with this. Nothing to do with the whole "indecisive libra" thing lol. More to do with the fact that I've kept it distant and it seems the more I move away the closer he follows.click to expand
Posted by AerialViewPosted by sweethearts
End it now! Too many red flags already, why are you even contemplating going down this path?? Do you really want this sort of BS in your life? This is where woman seem to want danger (considered bad boys) in their lives, is this really exciting for you?? Because I see it ending in abuse!
Calm your tits! 😂click to expand
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