Posted by Metatron
been so twice....the ceremonies are super romantic and fun to me - picking out the music you both want to listen to, the menu, setting/decor, everything - open bar w/all your family and friends...just a great way to creatively celebrate your relationship IMO, be excessive and indulgent for a night etc....And I have no issues with the spotty history of the institution of marriage itself, as I think people can and do lend whatever meaning they want to the ritual.....But no, I don't think I would ever put myself in that situation with anyone ever again....I can probably suffer through any kind of obligation, but I no longer have confidence that a lasting love is something I (or anyone else really) can honestly commit to, at least not the emotional component of it....
Posted by EmhendoPosted by AfternoonDelights22
Or don't date hoes seems simpler
So you have these magic abilities to tell a faithful woman when you see one??
Can I bring you out with me and let you use your faithful woman radar?click to expand
Posted by saggurl88
I would never be able to take a Sag man serious. We give too much space and I wouldn't be able to take him seriously. I couldn't imagine actually dating one. I need someoe to chase me a little. Sag usually only go full on in the beginning and then slack off big time
Posted by nanobot
My longest relationships have been with 2 geminis
June 6 - 5 years
May 23 - 3 years and still together
I'm may 24 😎
Posted by Black-Mamba
Interesting. I have an opinion on this, but i'll hold off
Posted by HappyCapper
Must say that my own theory is that it's difficult to find aspects that suits all couples and aspects that suits none.
For instance, my chart is filled with squares and saturn and pluto, which means that I'm used to adversity, so a trine filled synastry chart would probably bore me to death - I would probably need something more challenging than that and a person with lighter aspects and placements in their charts would probably not find too much of a challenge very amusing. So I think you would have to look at the individual charts very closely and then look at what that person might need in a partner.
But that's just me.
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Posted by Haruuka
Yes, if I love him, I will be with him and give him every thing .. love and care, I will maybe marry him, but if he cheat on me I will kill him and move on
Posted by oxSunQueenxoPosted by SassyKiwi
I don't know what's going on in other threads but hoe men exist because of hoe women. The kitty is more expensive than the peen. The peen is free. These hoe women are emotionlessly giving themselves up easily to men in relationships just for the sake of some cheap thrill and pleasure, their existence encourages not having any respect for themselves, the person they're treetrunking, or the concept of commitment.
To be able to find a man who doesn't easily fall into the hands of the basic hoe woman, they must have strong self-control and morals from the get-go. But also don't lie to yourself, you have to uphold similar values to attract that.
These men aren't that hard to find, but they're also not perfect either, some realize their worth and can put themselves in an annoying pedestal.
I also believe the energy you exert heavily influences what you'll get in return.
But then bad things happen to good people and you realize maybe some people just aren't destined for certain things.
Just never give up your ambitions for a man. You will always regret it. Never lean on another person or relationship to bring you happiness. You have to find a way to be content with yourself first and if it's meant to happen, a good guy will come along and complement your life if you're into marriage or long term commitment (it seems like people are pushing to outdate marriage? Lol idk you new age people are crazy and full of something new every day.)
Explain the bold part... Because based on my observations, it's the women who want commitment and not the men. But I'm curious about your perspective on that.
Everything else you have said, I completely agree with.click to expand