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Posted by Metatron
been so twice....the ceremonies are super romantic and fun to me - picking out the music you both want to listen to, the menu, setting/decor, everything - open bar w/all your family and friends...just a great way to creatively celebrate your relationship IMO, be excessive and indulgent for a night etc....And I have no issues with the spotty history of the institution of marriage itself, as I think people can and do lend whatever meaning they want to the ritual.....But no, I don't think I would ever put myself in that situation with anyone ever again....I can probably suffer through any kind of obligation, but I no longer have confidence that a lasting love is something I (or anyone else really) can honestly commit to, at least not the emotional component of it....
Can you elaborate on this. Why do you think you struggled to emotionally commit yourself? Did you both want different things? Marriage is supposed to be about more than love. After the infatuation and honeymoon phase it's down to the daily grind of life without that extra cloud 9 fluff - I feel like this is where people give up. It's like all they crave is the initial highs and rush and don't want to face the reality that it is a short duration component of every relationship.- Most of you are 30+. I'm just curious on why you don't ever plan on marrying (apart from believing it's an outdated institution) or maybe you do but just haven't found the right person - in that case what are you specifically looking for in a life partner that you haven't found yet? For women, do you ever feel pressured that your clock is ticking? What's your approach on that? Do some of you believe having a long term life partner without marriage is sufficient enough, if so why?
Posted by Emhendo
Posted by AfternoonDelights22
Or don't date hoes seems simpler
So you have these magic abilities to tell a faithful woman when you see one??
Can I bring you out with me and let you use your faithful woman radar?click to expand
I have this. If you wire me money I will provide services.- The ones that I've failed I've had ridiculously difficult synastry with. Synastry reports were like in the negatives. Like someone said, sexual chemistry seems to be pretty accurate but let's say for example there's a spicy aspect like ascendant conjunct venus in synastry. Maybe you have it in synastry, if you don't, you could have it in composite instead, or maybe you don't have it in synastry or composite but have it like x's progressed ascendant conjunct y's natal venus. I'm sure there's other ways to justify that ascendant-venus energy. Basically it's all poopie.
Posted by saggurl88
I would never be able to take a Sag man serious. We give too much space and I wouldn't be able to take him seriously. I couldn't imagine actually dating one. I need someoe to chase me a little. Sag usually only go full on in the beginning and then slack off big time
Even I've seen this smh. So what signs do you mesh well with romantically that give you that chase without slacking off later?Posted by nanobot
My longest relationships have been with 2 geminis
June 6 - 5 years
May 23 - 3 years and still together
I'm may 24 😎
Are they near your age? At times did you feel like you saw yourself in them?Posted by HappyCapper
Must say that my own theory is that it's difficult to find aspects that suits all couples and aspects that suits none.
For instance, my chart is filled with squares and saturn and pluto, which means that I'm used to adversity, so a trine filled synastry chart would probably bore me to death - I would probably need something more challenging than that and a person with lighter aspects and placements in their charts would probably not find too much of a challenge very amusing. So I think you would have to look at the individual charts very closely and then look at what that person might need in a partner.
But that's just me.
I feeeeeel you. I'm Plutonian. I have tons of hard aspects to my Pluto so I'm very familiar with the energy. However, most within the Pluto in Scorpio generation would also make lots of hard aspects to my personal planets. And sun-pluto, moon-pluto, mars-pluto, etc relationships are INTENSE. So I read that unless the other person is also familiar with the Pluto energy in their chart, it can make it more difficult for them to process and deal with such synastry aspects and it's usually up to the natal Plutonian to guide them given that they are mature and aren't fighting the energy themselves.- Someone has an empty 7th house but has had 4 marriages. I'd love to have seen her chart...
- So my Pisces friend just met this Pisces girl on some serious dating site and they both fell madly in love within like 36 hours. I think it's barely been 1.5 weeks and they're genuinely planning their wedding for this December. Like they've got their parents involved and discussing arrangements level serious.
They're both 25, she is just 10 days older than him.
Idk how people do that?? I've never been romantically into people around my age much less within my sun. Maybe it's my cappy placements that strictly dig older men (I was like befriending guys in their 20s and 30s at age 14 😂).
I have this one close friend 7 days older than me and yeah we're very similar in thoughts, mannerisms, etc but I couldn't imagine romantically digging a male version of her since I know our flaws. There's no mystery. I've also met this girl 3 days older than me with a same chart as me except different rising and houses - I couldn't stand her. She was like this happy-go-lucky, angelic version of me lol. Girl was scary.
Anyway, synastry wise my Pisces friend and his Pisces gal have tons of conjunctions of course... and lots of same aspects within their own natal charts with each other in synastry (except like rising and moon stuff)... so wouldn't that make for an extremely smooth relationship that could eventually get boring? I read difficult aspects in synastry keep relationships interesting and encourage working for something. - In my experience, a pisces will lead if he's into you. So let the poor fish lead... and unless you guys established exclusivity, you do what you want.
- https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/miscellaneous/why-are-guys-less-motivated-than-women-in-life--10381442/
There are way too many successful, financially independent, beautiful single women out there. Can't say the same for the men. Guys' egos are fragile. The user who posted this message has hidden it.
- Pedophile
Posted by Haruuka
Yes, if I love him, I will be with him and give him every thing .. love and care, I will maybe marry him, but if he cheat on me I will kill him and move on
Imagine if we did a mass genocide of cheaters 😁Posted by oxSunQueenxo
Posted by SassyKiwi
I don't know what's going on in other threads but hoe men exist because of hoe women. The kitty is more expensive than the peen. The peen is free. These hoe women are emotionlessly giving themselves up easily to men in relationships just for the sake of some cheap thrill and pleasure, their existence encourages not having any respect for themselves, the person they're treetrunking, or the concept of commitment.
To be able to find a man who doesn't easily fall into the hands of the basic hoe woman, they must have strong self-control and morals from the get-go. But also don't lie to yourself, you have to uphold similar values to attract that.
These men aren't that hard to find, but they're also not perfect either, some realize their worth and can put themselves in an annoying pedestal.
I also believe the energy you exert heavily influences what you'll get in return.
But then bad things happen to good people and you realize maybe some people just aren't destined for certain things.
Just never give up your ambitions for a man. You will always regret it. Never lean on another person or relationship to bring you happiness. You have to find a way to be content with yourself first and if it's meant to happen, a good guy will come along and complement your life if you're into marriage or long term commitment (it seems like people are pushing to outdate marriage? Lol idk you new age people are crazy and full of something new every day.)
Explain the bold part... Because based on my observations, it's the women who want commitment and not the men. But I'm curious about your perspective on that.
Everything else you have said, I completely agree with.click to expand
All the bold part means is it's easier for the average woman to get laid than the average man. It's harder to obtain a woman's consent in sex than a man's.- I don't know what's going on in other threads but hoe men exist because of hoe women. The kitty is more expensive than the peen. The peen is free. These hoe women are emotionlessly giving themselves up easily to men in relationships just for the sake of some cheap thrill and pleasure, their existence encourages not having any respect for themselves, the person they're treetrunking, or the concept of commitment.
To be able to find a man who doesn't easily fall into the hands of the basic hoe woman, they must have strong self-control and morals from the get-go. But also don't lie to yourself, you have to uphold similar values to attract that.
These men aren't that hard to find, but they're also not perfect either, some realize their worth and can put themselves in an annoying pedestal.
I also believe the energy you exert heavily influences what you'll get in return.
But then bad things happen to good people and you realize maybe some people just aren't destined for certain things.
Just never give up your ambitions for a man. You will always regret it. Never lean on another person or relationship to bring you happiness. You have to find a way to be content with yourself first and if it's meant to happen, a good guy will come along and complement your life if you're into marriage or long term commitment (it seems like people are pushing to outdate marriage? Lol idk you new age people are crazy and full of something new every day.) - No but I think it roots from a lack of self-fulfillment. Write down all your smallest and craziest goals and dreams and start crossing them off one by one. Or list all your fears and start going after them one by one.
- An aries woman and 4 guys, 2 cap, 1 taurus, and 1 leo were in a huge poly relationship
Posted by UnusualVaginalDischarge
Posted by SassyKiwi
Uvd chica just get a pet goat
They're very fulfilling
Do you have one?click to expand
No, but I want one 😞
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