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sweethearts
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Joined dxpnet on March 24, 2006.
I'm confused...you say you want closure but I read you want him to tell you he wants to try again. So which is it?

You're the Libra that is indecisive, he's not. If he wanted to try again, I'm sure it would have happened before 5 months. Stop over thinking and looking for hope and move on, after 5 months you should be able to without looking back...then again you are Libra and we do think that we leave a burning impression that makes us unforgettable ...well we can live in fairy land, that's our prerogative!
Ex agreed to talk and cancelled
sweethearts
female
Joined dxpnet on March 24, 2006.
End it now! Too many red flags already, why are you even contemplating going down this path?? Do you really want this sort of BS in your life? This is where woman seem to want danger (considered bad boys) in their lives, is this really exciting for you?? Because I see it ending in abuse!
Confusing Aqua Man ????
sweethearts
female
Joined dxpnet on March 24, 2006.

i predict...

1. Sagittarius

2. Aquarius

3. Gemini

Thankyou, Sag was ex hubby of 19 years, was a good match through my early years. When you say Aqua or Gem I get a calm feeling. Can't say I've met many of either but looking forward to it.
sweethearts
female
Joined dxpnet on March 24, 2006.

Can we try again HoneyXx, just had a lesson from Seleukos
sweethearts
female
Joined dxpnet on March 24, 2006.
Oh my god!!! Lololol

I guess I didn’t work it out and got your chart @Seleukos... perhaps you can send me a pm on how to get mine up
sweethearts
female
Joined dxpnet on March 24, 2006.
@Seleukos, why the question mark? Is this the wrong chart? Took me 2 days to figure out how to get it up there 😂

@HoneyXx. Thank you, I thought you were going to say Aquarius somewhere there... Libra, Gem and Leo I’d be happy with but not sure about Aries or Virgo, heard too many horror stories!!
sweethearts
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sweethearts
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Joined dxpnet on March 24, 2006.
I can’t possibly fathom the thought that a mother would pick even her husband over the child she bore and raised but you see it all the time in the news where kids are murdered and abused by a step father or even both parents so it definitely happens. I struggle to understand it and how you could or would love your partner more??
What Happens
sweethearts
female
Joined dxpnet on March 24, 2006.
Judging by the comments from you guys... Hope you all look like the hot guy at the gym because your comments are really shallow so you clearly fancy yourselves as being all that! No wonder she isn’t interested in the likes of you all, you sound too brain dead for this intellect!

Don’t blame her for going out and paying to avoid the drop kicks she’d meet especially if their main focus was looking for a perfect 10!
Would you pay $6000 for 6 dates over 6 months?
sweethearts
female
Joined dxpnet on March 24, 2006.
Read the OP’s story and then re-read and read THROUGH it. Some are in “relationships” only in their minds or “online, long distant” and never had contact. They believe they’re in a relationship because they text or smile at someone frequently. You can generally pick them because they ask the stupidest childish questions! And then they want to know how to play the game and regain their interest.

Crazies don’t give up or take NO for an answer!
Stop feeding the Crazies!
sweethearts
female
Joined dxpnet on March 24, 2006.
You sound like a libra male that grew up without a father!
sweethearts
female
Joined dxpnet on March 24, 2006.
Posted by Cuteforsure1
No reason to lie.. what I say happened is what happened! He felt rejected and fucked off on me... I apologized and there was nobody else! He is the true Scorpio and has the characteristics of an unevolved kind.... we were talking again and I asked him if we could hang out and I asked him if he was comfortable with that or would he prefer to never see me again and he says “ I don’t see us hanging out “ sorry Just being honest ! So deep down his ego is still bruised and he feels vulnerable therefore can’t take a chance in seeing me again because deep down he still cares for me!!!! He didn’t delete me off fb because he still wants a connection to me! Anyone disagree????

Who are you kidding here... yourself! if he wanted to see you or still had feelings he wouldn’t hesitate. He dissed you for whatever reason and didn’t contact you for 3 years, you are the one that reached back out 3 years later and still won’t take NO I don’t want to see you at his word.

Everyone here is asking why you are even bothering and you say that he means so much to hoot. Clearly all in your mind because apart from texting you and being polite he doesn’t want anything to do with you. You’re starting to become stalkerish!
Why men do give women a second chance???
sweethearts
female
Joined dxpnet on March 24, 2006.
Posted by Cuteforsure1
No reason to lie.. what I say happened is what happened! He felt rejected and fucked off on me... I apologized and there was nobody else! He is the true Scorpio and has the characteristics of an unevolved kind.... we were talking again and I asked him if we could hang out and I asked him if he was comfortable with that or would he prefer to never see me again and he says “ I don’t see us hanging out “ sorry Just being honest ! So deep down his ego is still bruised and he feels vulnerable therefore can’t take a chance in seeing me again because deep down he still cares for me!!!! He didn’t delete me off fb because he still wants a connection to me! Anyone disagree????

Who are you kidding here... yourself! if he wanted to see you or still had feelings he wouldn’t hesitate. He dissed you for whatever reason and didn’t contact you for 3 years, you are the one that reached back out 3 years later and still won’t take NO I don’t want to see you at his word.

Everyone here is asking why you are even bothering and you say that he means so much to hoot. Clearly all in your mind because apart from texting you and being polite he doesn’t want anything to do with you. You’re starting to become stalkerish!
Why men do give women a second chance???
sweethearts
female
Joined dxpnet on March 24, 2006.
Finding it hard to believe you got iced out simply because you couldn’t go out and had to work....

What else went on why he feels you were either making up an excuse or lying or seeing someone else??

He didn’t trust you back then for a reason either that or he sounds really immature and threw his toys out of the crib in a tantrum!
Why men do give women a second chance???
sweethearts
female
Joined dxpnet on March 24, 2006.
So except his friendship... if you can.

Better to have loved and lost than not to have loved at all.

As long as you in your mind can except just being distant friends then why do you have to loose him, however, if it’s going to effect you going out and finding someone else then let him go.

Those are the two sides of the scales and only you can answer which you can live with.
Do I move on?
sweethearts
female
Joined dxpnet on March 24, 2006.
Finding it hard to believe you got iced out simply because you couldn’t go out and had to work....

What else went on why he feels you were either making up an excuse or lying or seeing someone else??

He didn’t trust you back then for a reason either that or he sounds really immature and threw his toys out of the crib in a tantrum!
Scorpio men
sweethearts
female
Joined dxpnet on March 24, 2006.
Yes, all the confidence in the world until it’s someone I’m really interested in... then I have trouble stringing two words together. Trying so hard to be interesting to them or finding common ground. Last time I felt like that was near 10 years ago!
Are Libras awkward when it comes to having a crush?
sweethearts
female
Joined dxpnet on March 24, 2006.
Posted by jeane
Posted by DonnaLibra
There are so many things that people say about Libras that just aren't true. Out of the Libras I know none of us are"

1. Never want to be alone but always want to be coupled. I love being alone, whether it's shopping, eating out,
movies or even just going to the park.

2. Indecisive. I know immediately what I want and what choice to make.

3. Flaky. If you mean change my mind and not want to be bothered seeing you (you're right)!

4. People Pleaser: So not true. I could care less if people like me or not. I can be very blunt sometimes
and definitely have never run from a fight.

5. Doormat: No one has ever been able to walk over me. When I've been in a bad relationship or marriage I've
ended it immediately and divorced.

oh, ffs, it's COULDN'T care less.
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Ahahahaha I get like this with Pronunciation and punctuation 😂😂😂 more anal with myself though
Libras the most misunderstood?
sweethearts
female
Joined dxpnet on March 24, 2006.
Posted by nano
you are happy with the money you make and where you are career wise

Or do you instead just feel like you're kind of going through the motions with your job and your life

And how old are you

Most of the people I know are just going through the motions.... it's uninspiring and sad. Makes me wonder if this is what life remains like for most middle aged + people or if it's more just in this little corner of the world I've (mostly) always lived in. Need some perspective.

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Through the years in the beginning it was going through the motions and educating myself through practicle experience rather than education (schooling) then taking chances by investing, sometimes wisely and sometimes not so wisely. Now I’m at a point in my life where the kids are grown and I’m cashing up and reassessing. Number 1 is to travel more. I’m not spending the rest of my life working long hours in the hope of retirement. I’ve been smart and now I’m going to enjoy the fruits of my labour. I intend to go out fulfilled not wishing I hadn’t work all my life away!
sweethearts
female
Joined dxpnet on March 24, 2006.
@gemitati

You’re right it is a quiet nightmare, my step dad is 14 years younger and only 64.. geez doing the math he’s not had sex since he was around 45!!! I feel sorry for my dad but he just drinks himself to sleep. She really should have let him go but then again maybe he didn’t want to and was willing to sacrifice... I know one thing though my mum would never allow him to sleep with anyone let alone a prostitute!!!

You really don’t know what goes on behind closed doors.

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