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Sounds like his insecurity poking out. Cancer loves to test the waters to make sure it's safe and that you don't hate them or will reject them..

Yeah it was obvious that the first 2 dates his libra sun was out and now the 3rd date his cancer moon was showing up. I liked that he was honest. I def have my insecurities but not with appearance its more so with my trauma and personality shit (im needy lmao). The last guy I dealt with was a brick wall (virgo sun+moon+mercury) in terms of letting me in. So its kinda refreshing when im dealing with someone like this leeb man.

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@FadedAri Lol, so we went on our third date. He was a lot more transparent which I liked. The following is what he said:
Him: "I'm 6' but if I was 240lbs would you be attracted to me?" Me: "Yes I would, if I like you then I like you"
(I found this kinda weird? idk...I still reassured him)

Him: "I can be a spiteful, idk if you know. I shouldn't tell you this but" Me: "No its okay, tell me, I wanna know. Just be honest" Him: "Well my ex broke up with me for 2nd time and I thought it was done for, but she came back after a week and was like she misses me, I told her that I don't trust her yet and kept her as a friend for 3 months before getting back with her. I slept around with other girls during the 3 months, I didn't tell my ex. But it was out of spite. Its not cheating tho" I replied with "No it isn't". They weren't a couple so likeeee

Me: *telling him about a time when a guy with only-fans asked me to be in his video as our third date and laughing*..
Him: "Thats hilarious, you gotta be one handsome guy to be on only-fans though"
Me: "WELLLL I blocked him and I'm on a date with you, and you are handsome"

it's sweet but i would still be cautious. it would take a lot of reassuring actions before i trust a libra's words

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Oh facts...I don't trust any man's words lol

@ImperfectStorm Lol, so we went on our third date. He was a lot more transparent which I liked. The following is what he said:
Him: "I'm 6' but if I was 240lbs would you be attracted to me?" Me: "Yes I would, if I like you then I like you"
(I found this kinda weird? idk...I still reassured him)

Him: "I can be a spiteful, idk if you know. I shouldn't tell you this but" Me: "No its okay, tell me, I wanna know. Just be honest" Him: "Well my ex broke up with me for 2nd time and I thought it was done for, but she came back after a week and was like she misses me, I told her that I don't trust her yet and kept her as a friend for 3 months before getting back with her. I slept around with other girls during the 3 months, I didn't tell my ex. But it was out of spite. Its not cheating tho" I replied with "No it isn't". They weren't a couple so likeeee

Me: *telling him about a time when a guy with only-fans asked me to be in his video as our third date and laughing*..
Him: "Thats hilarious, you gotta be one handsome guy to be on only-fans though"
Me: "WELLLL I blocked him and I'm on a date with you, and you are handsome"

@FadedAri Lol, so we went on our third date. He was a lot more transparent which I liked. The following is what he said:
Him: "I'm 6' but if I was 240lbs would you be attracted to me?" Me: "Yes I would, if I like you then I like you"
(I found this kinda weird? idk...I still reassured him)

Him: "I can be a spiteful, idk if you know. I shouldn't tell you this but" Me: "No its okay, tell me, I wanna know. Just be honest" Him: "Well my ex broke up with me for 2nd time and I thought it was done for, but she came back after a week and was like she misses me, I told her that I don't trust her yet and kept her as a friend for 3 months before getting back with her. I slept around with other girls during the 3 months, I didn't tell my ex. But it was out of spite. Its not cheating tho" I replied with "No it isn't". They weren't a couple so likeeee

Me: *telling him about a time when a guy with only-fans asked me to be in his video as our third date and laughing*..
Him: "Thats hilarious, you gotta be one handsome guy to be on only-fans though"
Me: "WELLLL I blocked him and I'm on a date with you, and you are handsome"

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All attention is good attention, similar to the media

Are you a Leo moon?

What are all of your placements? You are like an anomaly in both signs of your Sun and Moon. lol

I think you're an Aries Sun, and are you a Leo Moon as well?
Seems like you have all the good peaceful qualities and none of the bad ones.

Yeah, I'm Aries Sun with Leo Moon.

What else? What makes you so calm? This is what I'm wondering.
Do you have a lot of Libra in your chart? Or Aquarius? There is something in your chart that chills you out, lessens the fire.

I think these are your calming influences.

Cancer Rising
Pisces Midheaven
Pisces North Node
Sun conjunct Venus
12th House Mars & Jupiter
Taurus Mercury
2nd House Moon
7th House Neptune conjunct Saturn

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As a taurus mercury i agreeee

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He's cardinal sun and moon, so I will say to keep him as a high priority.
Let him ask you out and say yes, more times then no. If no, schedule a different day that works, don't leave him hanging.

Cancer moons want to be a priority and want to know that they are a favorite.

Yeah everytime he mentions any type of date I give a positive response. I also try not to be the chaser and give him as much space as he needs (its hard having a venus aries lol). He has dominant placement (mars leo), so I let him ask me out. I'm guessing the cancer moon placement makes him a bit traditional in dating? He never lets me pay, holds the door, holds my hand when walking, is respectful.

He has a Leo mars which means if he want's you, he will basically lie and wait. Think a lion trying to catch his prey. They hide out and wait for you to come to them.
We usually are good at getting what we want.
I think Cancer placements in general are pretty traditional and homely. It's always a good idea to show interest but not chase a man.

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Also when it comes to men I think "if he wanted to he would", if he wants to take me out on a third date then he will. If not welllll

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I guess it depends on if the Cancer moon talks about himself or not.
I like Virgo moons and Scorpio moons because I can ask them anything and they answer it. Then they reciprocate. I do not talk about myself much, especially the past. So if a person wants to know they have to ask me.

I like hearing about a persons past because it tells me about their character and how they treat people in their lives. I don't do it to reminisce, I do it to silently judge and see if it's something I would be willing to put up with in my life.

Kind of like gossipy friends and how you can't be surprised if they do it to you.- I listen to everything you say and let you talk and tell it all, while actively listening and remaining neutral about it.

I want to know everything you're willing to tell me about your past and I want to know how you handled problems that came up. I want to know the highs and lows.

Virgo moons in my exp are tight lipped about themselves. It aggravates me after like x amount of time. They are mad cynical and guarded. But yeah I'm the same way. I like knowing people's stories.

I've never had an issue with them for some reason. But my questions are usually innocent enough and not too personal.

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I'm a nosey bitch so I wanna know EVERYTHNG, esp the personal shit so that is probably why

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I guess it depends on if the Cancer moon talks about himself or not.
I like Virgo moons and Scorpio moons because I can ask them anything and they answer it. Then they reciprocate. I do not talk about myself much, especially the past. So if a person wants to know they have to ask me.

I like hearing about a persons past because it tells me about their character and how they treat people in their lives. I don't do it to reminisce, I do it to silently judge and see if it's something I would be willing to put up with in my life.

Kind of like gossipy friends and how you can't be surprised if they do it to you.- I listen to everything you say and let you talk and tell it all, while actively listening and remaining neutral about it.

I want to know everything you're willing to tell me about your past and I want to know how you handled problems that came up. I want to know the highs and lows.

Virgo moons in my exp are tight lipped about themselves. It aggravates me after like x amount of time. They are mad cynical and guarded. But yeah I'm the same way. I like knowing people's stories.

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He's cardinal sun and moon, so I will say to keep him as a high priority.
Let him ask you out and say yes, more times then no. If no, schedule a different day that works, don't leave him hanging.

Cancer moons want to be a priority and want to know that they are a favorite.

Yeah everytime he mentions any type of date I give a positive response. I also try not to be the chaser and give him as much space as he needs (its hard having a venus aries lol). He has dominant placement (mars leo), so I let him ask me out. I'm guessing the cancer moon placement makes him a bit traditional in dating? He never lets me pay, holds the door, holds my hand when walking, is respectful.

The leeb man def tries not to come off as opinionated, emotional or passionate. He tries to seem as balanced and calm as possible. But this man has mars leo and moon cancer. It is impossible for him not be those things lmao. I managed to work around it a lil bit. Because I hate superfluous exteriors. I wanna know what makes you tick, what makes you cry, what makes you laugh, what makes you fall asleep, how you grew up, why you have your scars...and so on.

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I'm dealing with a libra sun, cancer moon, leo mars, virgo venus+mercury.
I am Gemini sun+moon+mars with aries venus, taurus mercury

I have no clue how to deal with him, but I am intrigued as to how his mind works. He is definitely sensitive, and mad respectful which I love. He likes kids (a plus).
We talk everyday like a checkin but I have a feeling I'm dealing with his outer shell (Libra sun) and have not reached his cancer moon. I know I know it takes time but any tips/experiences with a cancer moon man are appreciated

Based off the info you put out, proceed with caution; he could have violent tendencies; more likely abusive, (provoking tendencies since he’s a libra sun), provoking you to get physical or start screaming first. Your Venus might or might not work; Virgo Venus are mutual and service-oriented. Mentally, there needs to be a lot in common to give it longevity. Being a triple Gemini, I think you’re too lighthearted to give his personality the tender prodding and understanding he needs past the honeymoon stage. Being an Aries Mercury, you’re bound to say something on the fly (down the line) that his negative rut will erupt over time and time again.

But (if you’re into this) he’ll most likely give you good sex (squared types love seedy, dark sex; it burns off all that anger) Being the more leveled one in the relationship

what's a provoking tendency?

Libra hates directly starting fights (as a last, desperate resort they will but it's grueling on them), s when they want to surface an issue to talk about it, they provoke the person in passive-aggressive or indirect ways so that they "bring it up first," and it looks like the other person is unbalanced and lacks inner-harmony. They'll provoke you in public and shame you into starting the fight so they throw in what's bothering them about you.

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The leeb man def tries not to come off as opinionated, emotional or passionate. He tries to seem as balanced and calm as possible. But this man has mars leo and moon cancer. It is impossible for him not be those things lmao. I managed to work around it a lil bit. Because I hate superfluous exteriors. I wanna know what makes you tick, what makes you cry, what makes you laugh, what makes you fall asleep, how you grew up, why you have your scars...and so on.

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I'm dealing with a libra sun, cancer moon, leo mars, virgo venus+mercury.
I am Gemini sun+moon+mars with aries venus, taurus mercury

I have no clue how to deal with him, but I am intrigued as to how his mind works. He is definitely sensitive, and mad respectful which I love. He likes kids (a plus).
We talk everyday like a checkin but I have a feeling I'm dealing with his outer shell (Libra sun) and have not reached his cancer moon. I know I know it takes time but any tips/experiences with a cancer moon man are appreciated

Based off the info you put out, proceed with caution; he could have violent tendencies; more likely abusive, (provoking tendencies since he’s a libra sun), provoking you to get physical or start screaming first. Your Venus might or might not work; Virgo Venus are mutual and service-oriented. Mentally, there needs to be a lot in common to give it longevity. Being a triple Gemini, I think you’re too lighthearted to give his personality the tender prodding and understanding he needs past the honeymoon stage. Being an Aries Mercury, you’re bound to say something on the fly (down the line) that his negative rut will erupt over time and time again.

But (if you’re into this) he’ll most likely give you good sex (squared types love seedy, dark sex; it burns off all that anger) Being the more leveled one in the relationship

what's a provoking tendency?

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I guess to get someone to be mad at you??? Cause arguments and stuff.

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Posted by Gem03
I'm dealing with a libra sun, cancer moon, leo mars, virgo venus+mercury.
I am Gemini sun+moon+mars with aries venus, taurus mercury

I have no clue how to deal with him, but I am intrigued as to how his mind works. He is definitely sensitive, and mad respectful which I love. He likes kids (a plus).
We talk everyday like a checkin but I have a feeling I'm dealing with his outer shell (Libra sun) and have not reached his cancer moon. I know I know it takes time but any tips/experiences with a cancer moon man are appreciated

Based off the info you put out, proceed with caution; he could have violent tendencies; more likely abusive, (provoking tendencies since he’s a libra sun), provoking you to get physical or start screaming first. Your Venus might or might not work; Virgo Venus are mutual and service-oriented. Mentally, there needs to be a lot in common to give it longevity. Being a triple Gemini, I think you’re too lighthearted to give his personality the tender prodding and understanding he needs past the honeymoon stage. Being an Aries Mercury, you’re bound to say something on the fly (down the line) that his negative rut will erupt over time and time again.

But (if you’re into this) he’ll most likely give you good sex (squared types love seedy, dark sex; it burns off all that anger) Being the more leveled one in the relationship

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um I am taurus mercury....Also what makes you say abusive tendencies???

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It's all about balance, don't be too much of anything. And be independent.
Libras love love but in a superficial way, if that suffocates them they'll easily detach, I know one mistake Geminis can make with libras, forgetting about them.

Yeah I have my own priorities and hobbies. I'm good on that.

@GenerousLeeb How do I know if a libra man has fallen for me? the signs?
I mostly have experience with earth sign men....never dealt with a libra man before.

Well I'm a Libra woman and if I like someone I get flirty and I show them that I'm interested, I check on them and make sure to have time for them, but I don't show that much it's a push and pull, if I fall for someone that's another story, I guess this is when my Taurus moon kicks in, I become very possessive, and jealous.
Gemini and Libra is a good match at least for me, you'll have a friend before anything else.

I guess once he falls for me his cancer moon will kick in?

Our cancer moon is always active, it will show up in his empathy for you. Even if you make him mad, he will likely end up turning around and feeling bad for what he said or how the argument may have affected you rather than thinking about himself.

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My mom has a water moon (pisces moon). I def understand the empathetic side its sweet

A man only stays if he wants to....he seems like he has a foot out the door and he is tired

I have learned one thing, if he breaks it off with you then leaveee him.

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I have cancer moon, Virgo Venus and Libra stellium including rising.

It takes time and consistency. We are the types that will fall in love with a friend. It takes time for our more permanent bonds to develop, but once we are in, we are in for keeps. The biggest thing is consistency, with all that Gemini in your chart you might be prone to being fickle.

I’d say the fact that you talk everyday is a good thing. Earth Venus are slow to move, so it might take a while but in his case, attachments evolve with time and consistency. His Virgo Venus might frustrate your Aries Venus because he will likely overthink everything and can be timid or hesitant to move fast. (I’m currently involved with an Aries Venus too).

We'll talk then he drops off the face of the earth for the next 13 hrs lmao. Its okay tho. I dealt with a virgo venus before they analyze EVERYTHING lmao.

The Aries Venus that I’ve been talking to has Virgo moon and I feel like he is the more the type to fall off the face of the earth for several hours 😐 lol which then makes ME overthink why he is distancing himself from me lmao

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Hmm what's his mars, mercury in? The leeb guy has his mars in Leo (this is my second time dealing with a mars in leo). I think he needs to be physically kept occupied or he gets bored as fuck. So I chalk it up to work, gym or hanging out with friends/family or needing downtime since his moon is in a water sign.

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Cook for him.

Me cooking for a man has to be earned....I don't do it for every guy I have 2 dates with lol. I think my mercury in taurus makes me somewhat domesticated in my mindset but you gotta be worth it

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I have cancer moon, Virgo Venus and Libra stellium including rising.

It takes time and consistency. We are the types that will fall in love with a friend. It takes time for our more permanent bonds to develop, but once we are in, we are in for keeps. The biggest thing is consistency, with all that Gemini in your chart you might be prone to being fickle.

I’d say the fact that you talk everyday is a good thing. Earth Venus are slow to move, so it might take a while but in his case, attachments evolve with time and consistency. His Virgo Venus might frustrate your Aries Venus because he will likely overthink everything and can be timid or hesitant to move fast. (I’m currently involved with an Aries Venus too).

We'll talk then he drops off the face of the earth for the next 13 hrs lmao. Its okay tho. I dealt with a virgo venus before they analyze EVERYTHING lmao.

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Don't ask questions and try to work it out. We'd rather just feel than know why . It's better to accept his moods and go with it, rather than try and "help". I think we just want people to feel us, more than understand us

He hasn't been moody as of yet....I did tease him for not moisturizing his face then later gave him a couple recommendations lol