Posted by newtothisPosted by sweethearts
Libra - scales - decision
He hasn’t decided
So what should I do if he hasn't decided?click to expand
Posted by ATGRPosted by sweetheartsPosted by ATGR
If he wasn’t that into you it could work out being friends.
I don’t think he’s that into me, so how do I flip it?
I saw upthread you said you hadn’t actually met up yet. Probably best to just be direct in that case and say you only want friendship.click to expand
Posted by borednbeautifulPosted by sweetheartsPosted by borednbeautifulPosted by ATGR
If he wasn’t that into you it could work out being friends.
What if it was the opposite? If she wasn’t into him but he kept insisting on more? It makes me feel so uncomfortable.
Yes that! The awkwardness when saying goodbye and I turn the cheek with the kiss. Or when he starts putting his arms around my shoulders for a cuddle when talking with others… like a claim thing. I tend to freeze up.
Sometimes I am too nice for my own good. I think women tend to under-read interest from guys and guys tend to over-read. Like, I was just bored and chatting to you and you have feelings already? Men don’t take rejection well. If you go out, they think they are guaranteed something.
And I can’t help it. I attract a lot of men. For better or worse. I was at a bank the other day and talking to the director and he said “how come I haven’t noticed such a pretty woman around here before” (and I am thinking…I just moved here!) But I quickly changed the subject by mentioning to him that his last name is that of my middle school friend. And he said that was his cousin. Just awkward, lol! 🤦♀️click to expand
Posted by alexscariesPosted by sweetheartsPosted by borednbeautifulPosted by ATGR
If he wasn’t that into you it could work out being friends.
What if it was the opposite? If she wasn’t into him but he kept insisting on more? It makes me feel so uncomfortable.
Yes that! The awkwardness when saying goodbye and I turn the cheek with the kiss. Or when he starts putting his arms around my shoulders for a cuddle when talking with others… like a claim thing. I tend to freeze up.
Question is what did he do wrong why you are not attracted to him?click to expand
Posted by borednbeautifulPosted by ATGR
If he wasn’t that into you it could work out being friends.
What if it was the opposite? If she wasn’t into him but he kept insisting on more? It makes me feel so uncomfortable.click to expand
Posted by ATGR
If he wasn’t that into you it could work out being friends.
Posted by GemiMayPosted by sweethearts
Your interested in a lady romantically… maybe… you reach out a little but not much.. you’ve hung out a couple times but she isn’t jumping on your bone.. so to speak.
Can you turn it around and just be mates?
Does she need to tell you that or will you figure it out for yourself?
Can you be friends?
Hon. Secret. There is no men in this cave.
It’s more like Disney World Paris or Las Vegas. 😂click to expand
Posted by alexscariesPosted by sweethearts
Your interested in a lady romantically… maybe… you reach out a little but not much.. you’ve hung out a couple times but she isn’t jumping on your bone.. so to speak.
Can you turn it around and just be mates?
Does she need to tell you that or will you figure it out for yourself?
Can you be friends?
Depends if I want to be friends with her. Too be honest I'm not nice, if I had 3 dates and it looked like it was going nowhere I'm done.click to expand
Posted by borednbeautifulPosted by sweetheartsPosted by borednbeautifulPosted by sweethearts
Are you saying that you are beautiful and that in your perception that you think ugly deserves ugly???
Beauty is in the eye of the beholder and I’ve seen the prettiest person being the ugliest… in fact most of the so called beautiful people are ugly so it depends where you thing ugly and beautiful are represented!!!
No, this isn’t about me at all. Lol, jeez.
Just something to discuss. I am actually not beautiful.
I don’t think I’ve ever seen you this angry. Wow!
Yes this topic hits a core with the perception of beauty on the outside is more than beauty on the inside. To me beauty is more inside than out but it’s never seen that way because of our shallow world and the shallow perception of what is!
Okay. But that Aries guy you were crushing on, what did you like about him? Please don’t tell me personality. You didn’t even know him that well. He must have had that something that attracted you to him. And you also said you were horny.
Face your demons. You like sex as much as me. What is the problem with that?click to expand
Posted by borednbeautifulPosted by sweethearts
Are you saying that you are beautiful and that in your perception that you think ugly deserves ugly???
Beauty is in the eye of the beholder and I’ve seen the prettiest person being the ugliest… in fact most of the so called beautiful people are ugly so it depends where you thing ugly and beautiful are represented!!!
No, this isn’t about me at all. Lol, jeez.
Just something to discuss. I am actually not beautiful.
I don’t think I’ve ever seen you this angry. Wow!click to expand
Posted by Capgirl15
Do we have any updates? Gemini women, did you discussed with your husband?
Posted by HypnotoadPosted by sweethearts
No happy ending
No answer…
Don’t regret putting it out there though. Makes me realise that when I’m interested in someone, I can’t read them lol
Dam shoulda left your undies for the other woman to find, so you can swoop in after she leaves him.click to expand