Posted by anearthygemini
Did you ever fall asleep and dream of something, only to awaken, and find yourself in a similar situation?
Please list your Asc/Sun/Moon/Mercury/Neptune/Pluto
Me: 3 dreams come to mind.
Dream #1. I was going through a typical non-eventful dream when I was suddenly whisked to the edge of a mountain and was looking down at a large abyss when the ground beneath me started to give way. I started grasping for things to hold on to, and was about to let out a scream, when I suddenly woke up, and found myself on the furthest edge of the bed getting ready to fall off. The dream felt like a warning.
Dream #2. I was having another uneventful dream when suddenly I was in a car driving around. I drove by a gas station and an attendant started to flag me down. I drove over and he said, ???you need gas. You better fill up.?? I looked at my tank, and noticed he was right. So, I did. When I left the gas station, the scene happened again, and would happen one more time before I woke up. I thought it was a strange dream. As I jumped into my car to drive off to work the following morning, I happened to glance at the tank, and it was empty.
Dream #3. Another uneventful dream changed scenes quickly and I found myself in a forest and tree was getting ready to fall on me. I started to run but it crashed down and landed across me. I laid pinned under a tree and couldn??t get out from under it. I found myself trying to push it off or crawl out without any success. Slowly, I felt the air being pressed out of my lungs and I woke up gasping for air. As soon as I awakened, I noticed that my 6??2?? boyfriend was sprawled across me like a log and my 5??5?? frame was basically pinned under him. Apparently, he rolled over onto me in his sleep. I called out his name, he woke up, and unpinned me.
Posted by Nebulous_Cloud9
"he called again 45 minutes later but I couldn't answer as well but I called a minute after his miscal exactly & still no freaking answer"
He called you but you couldn't answer, but you called him back a minute after? Were you only busy for a minute? I'm so confused.
You really need to reevaluate yourself, your emotions, and your self confidence. Are you stable and secure enough for a marriage? You're seriously all over the place. Love, hate, love, hate, love...
Posted by LostinmyMind11Posted by LaynaPosted by LostinmyMind11
Yesterday had an ex message me on fb...telling me that I was his best girlfriend he ever had and he was stupid for breaking up with me lol. This was over 12 yrs ago and hes an Aries, with a Leo moon and cancer rising. It was really sweet and nice to hear. Wasn't this supposed to happen a while back...where exes might come out of the wood work? I swear everything happens to me later on. lol
I soooo know what you mean!
I had a big crush on the coach assistant when I was 12 or something, when I was on the tennis team... Nothing happened.
Fast forward 4+ years, I bumped into him out of the blue. He immediately starts pursuing me... texts, calls, Fb chats, etc... wouldn't stop. Even my mom was, like, "[Layna], who's this guy?!" LOL. Like, dude, why are you so late?!
Went from nothing to almost stalkerish lol guys are a weird bunch!
I would never date mine again...not that it wasnt a good relationship, so much time has past, it would be weird lol (maybe not)...it was just nice to hear and it was something I never even knew, I'm so clueless when it come to stuff like that. lolclick to expand
Posted by P-Angel
The guy tells you that it's not going to work out, which is a break up and you know it's a break up .... so you turn around and call him to ask him if he likes you?
What are you? 12? .. and not getting enough attention from daddy?
No, Virgos don't make rash decisions. Virgos are extremely considerable in all of their thought processes.
Maybe you constantly being needy is what drove him off. Whatever the reason, he broke up with you, so grow up and move the fuck on and leave him alone.
Seriously .. you called him because of YOUR insecurity, and actually asked him if he like you?
::: shakes head :::
I actually feel sorry for men, in that they have to put with desperate women who are so emotionally out-of-control that they do stupid shit such as this.
Posted by MermaidPrincess
Well to be totally honest love seeker, I truly believe he stopped caring for me and that was one of the reasons why he decided to move away for a few months. I didn't really want to call it quits with him, but I didn't like the current situation one bit and I felt as if I has already lost him anyway. So I just closed the lid on the coffin so to say. Later on I did tell him that he was one of the best things that happened for me here in FL and that I don't regret one second of the time I spent with him. Again, no response, so I can only assume he doesn't care and that he stopped caring long before I ever said those words. :-/
Posted by MermaidPrincessPosted by 88pisces
I meant to type "Enormouos."
I can assure you I am not looking to hear that Pisces is torn up about me calling it quits with him. As I stated earlier, it seems to me that he is not bothered at all by my decision. He didn't say anything at all about it, so I can only assume it doesn't matter to him. And that makes my decision easier to make since I know it won't hurt him.click to expand
Posted by MidniteStar
If I used him, I did not do it intentionally. I never thought I was using him. I really did consider him a friend. After things ended romantically between us he was the one who sought me out to be friends. Maybe I should have been stronger and told him no. I'll admit to that mistake. If he wasn't over me completely I should have never agreed to being friends. That was selfish of me. Yes, it was nice having a friend like him to talk about life, problems etc. with and to get advice from, but it was a two way street. He came to me too and I helped him the best I could because I wanted to.
I'm not confused about why he ended our friendship, but rather why he ended it so abruptly like this after all this time with no warning. Apparently it had been building for quite some time. But I understand that he is hurting and I can't blame him for having to end our friendship. I truly hope he falls in love with someone deserving of him who shares those same feelings. I don't want him to hurt over me. I hate causing people pain. So I hope he gets over me sooner rather than later and not because I just want my friend back. It's sad our friendship has ended, but this isn't about me and my feelings. It's about him and his feelings.
Posted by MidniteStar
A few years ago I dated a Pisces for about a year. Things didn't work out for many different reasons and I soon realized the romantic feelings I had for him were no longer there. We agreed to be friends, but then he told me he could not do that because he felt more for me than friendship so we parted ways. Not even three months later he got back in touch with me and told me he was wrong and that even though he knew I no longer had feelings for him, he still wanted to remain friends. I told him that was fine with me as I really did care about him and enjoyed his friendship.
Over the years we remained great friends and talked every week. We both dated other people and would talk about our dates with each other along with many other things. I learned more about him through this friendship than I ever did when dating him. He shared many past secrets with me that he had never spoken about with anyone else and I did the same.
Just last week I get a text from him out of the blue with no warning. This is what it said:
"It's nice having someone seem to understand. But I still have feelings for you and I know you don't share that. I just make you feel good on your bad days. I get it. But I wont do it anymore. I just cannot be friends anymore. Good luck with things."
The whole part that said "I just make you feel god on your bad days" really got to me. I'm so hurt that he felt that way about it. I had no idea and it wasn't my intention to do that. Which apparently I did, if he said that. I feel horrible that was what he was thinking the whole time. I'm sad that our friendship has ended, but I don't want to hurt him anymore than I have. I'm respecting his wishes by not contacting him anymore. As much as I hate losing him as a friend, I will accept that.
The thing that is bothering me is the way things ended. All I could respond with was "I'm sorry you feel that way. I will no longer contact you. Good luck to you as well." I sent that out of anger and I regret it. It was a shitty response and I was only thinking about myself when I sent it. About how angry his text made me feel. I don't have romantic feelings for him and I don't think I ever will again, but I just wish things could have ended on better terms. I feel as though he hates me now. I feel like another text to him would just make things worse. I just don't understand why he
Posted by MermaidPrincess
That is true, Piranhaparadise, I don't have a lot of patience. All I know is that I'm not happy with the situation right now and I just don't have the patience to wait it out until December to see what happens...especially when I can't guarantee that the situation would ever change for the better. That is why I made this decision. Patience has never been a virtue of mine.
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Posted by MermaidPrincess
Do you really think he is sad about it? Even if he is, I had to do this. I just wasn't happy being away from him and having to "play it cool" while waiting for him to decide if he wants to still be with me or not. I don't want to deal with that stuff anymore, and I no longer have to settle for that now that I'm living in such an urban area with plenty of other available fish in the sea (no pun intended). If he still likes me and wants to be with me, then he can just step up and say so and show it.