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- Sun in 3rd house. Extremely accurate. I do have at least 1 sibling and he is male. I've been a straight A student regardless of the hard aspects to my sun. Everything else is also extremely relatable.
Posted by DMV
As a black woman, I find it hard to date black men who have the same cash flow as myself because ...
Majority of successful black men don't view black women as a status symbol. They dont see as as apart of their success or the image of success. They tend to date white women or foreign woman. Most all of lighter skin.
Whereas black women view the black man as success and apart of the image of being successful.
I’ve seen this too. I totally support interracial relationships. But when a person looks down on the men or women of their race and sees other men or women outside of their race as a better status symbol for their own success, that is just plain disgusting and you most likely wouldn't want to ever end up with such a person with such mentality regardless of if they worship your race outside of theirs.- This is very interesting to me since we're in a time period for the first time where there are more women than men who are more financially independent and living on their own.
I've been seeing an increase in relationships where women significantly make more than their male partner (1.5x or more) and don't seem to quite understand. What is keeping these women from going for someone who earns equally or more than them? I'd think these women would have higher financial standards for the men they choose to be with?
Don't get me wrong, I believe a person's character is more important than their income. I'm just curious what is keeping these women from being with men of a similar income caliber as them since these days usually high-income earning men are picky and seek someone near their level as their partner. Posted by Black-Mamba
Posted by SassyKiwi
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Posted by SassyKiwi
I'm tiny and absolutely love a big guy with me. Looks coot too
I notice skinny women get things easily and men are Moore amenable
I think it's because we look so harmless/sometimes childlike and maybe the guys are expressing their providing nature to them?
People might find tiny women being fiesty cute or endearing and might put up with more of their bullbutter than if it were a non-tiny woman but from experience I believe tiny women to be more evil, manipulative, and cunning than any other size women.
I lost 5 pounds and men are treating me like a baby
Yes like a child, even women think I'm a decade younger
It's very weirdclick to expand
Shh just let them spoil us so we can stay more cute 💁♀️Posted by Black-Mamba
Posted by SassyKiwi
I'm tiny and absolutely love a big guy with me. Looks coot too
I notice skinny women get things easily and men are Moore amenableclick to expand
I think it's because we look so harmless/sometimes childlike and maybe the guys are expressing their providing nature to them?
People might find tiny women being fiesty cute or endearing and might put up with more of their bullbutter than if it were a non-tiny woman but from experience I believe tiny women to be more evil, manipulative, and cunning than any other size women.- I'm tiny and absolutely love a big guy with me. Looks coot too
- Leave bad reviews of their staff on many sites as possible until the owner or manager reaches out and offers you free stays or something. Profit from dat butter
- Lol I will never understand why people care what their parents think about them having to move out/grow up if it'll be them (and not their parents) that'll be paying for the bills once they move out. It's like YOU ARE enabling your parents to continue their overbearing behavior. Now if your parents will be paying the bills once you move out then hell yeah you do what they want.
- Not scorpio cause they'll probably use it to blackmail you one day. No way cancer because they could one day emotionally combust and let it "accidentally" slip out to the wrong person. Just no water signs.
Probably an aquarius because they could equally care less about anyone. - If he didn't get your jokes sounds like you two don't really have great chemistry
- Well my dad is self-made so it was extremely important for me to be with someone who also was self-made that didn't depend on mommy and daddys' monies. My parents were not affectionate when I was a child which has caught up to me in adulthood, I require lots of affection from my SO for my wellbeing.
- You go be a hot mama of 4 and do ur thang !
- My sag ex with scorp venus did it to my 22 year old self! He casually mentioned it after he got me all tipsy for the first time. He started listing all my family members' names... Apparently he did it because he once had dated a girl who ended up having an aunt who was a prostitute, he couldn't have his reputation tainted like that...
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I guess thread broke from quoting cant see your reply.
Ok nevermind, sorry im a gemini venus and flip flop ahah, I took your advice and messaged him about avoiding me. He assumed I was avoiding him apparently. We had a chat about it. I'm still a little confused but at least I wasnt ghosted? lol Thank you for all your help!!
No biggie hope you dont have anymore problems LOL
Ummm so I got ghosted again....idk why. but this time hes not watching my snapchat anymore.... is that really bad?? IDK what I did we were talking fine then boom ghosted....
Sometimes it's just "Me Time" your dealing with a virgo who are natural loners. This happens every now and again.
He went ghost for a week...longest hes gone MIA. And last time he ghosted he was still watching my story/snap....yet now he chose not to despite bang online. Does that mean he no longer cares??
Should I say something or text again?
No don't do anything. Just do you for the meantime. preoccupy yourself.
We can go months without contact.. it doesn't mean we ghosted anybody or its over. We just need time to ourselves.
He's never been like this in the time that I've known him though.... and it came completely out of nowhere. He initiated contact with me then the day after ghosted.... I kinda wanna reach out to him but I dont know.... do I avoid him in person too?? This is odd
There are stages believe me you'll learn a lot of new things over time. No you don't need to avoid him if you see him in person that's just going to make things awkward and confusing.
BE NORMAL just don't be crazy girlfriend "why haven't you answered my 57 messages"
Hi! So sorry to bug you again.. but this situation is so confusing. He initiated contact with me again after that whole no communication thing...then after a few back and forths, he drops off again and stops responding.... wtf? I know virgos are complex but this is odd....click to expand
Oh dear sweet little Aqua. Don't put your heart out on your sleeve. Forget the fact he's a Virgo or anything. If you are fawning over a guy way more than he is fawning over you, you let go of them and act unbothered. Forget about you wanting him to know you care because he knows you do and might even get an ego boost from feeling so desired by you. Just act like you're living your life and go meet other people, he'll come after you once he's realized what he's missing out on if he even does.Posted by blvckphvse
I expect 50 / 50, never expected a man to provide for me, only to hold up his own end and meet me halfway on the necessities we both use. But of course being one of few women who don't expect a man to provide for her, I end up getting stuck with the ones who won't even meet halfway. -_-
Why do you think that happens? I'd think you'd be able to attract men with better financial means because of that?Posted by _VirgoGent_
I believe financial alignment is a must once the relationship is reaching the stage of marriage. Failure to have alignment in this area is one of the biggest reasons relationships/marriages fail. I need too know how the other person views personal finance and what their financial goals are. I'm a firm believer in living by a budget and knowing where every penny is spent.
I too believe in having a joint account where all of our money is initially pooled. We will then pay our bills out of it. We'll also have a joint savings account for emergency funds and investment purposes. A certain percentage of our monthly income will go into that. I do not want our monthly expenses to ever exceed 50% of our income. I'd be most comfortable around no more than 30% .
Once our necessities are taken care of along with our savings and investments, we'll split the left over as our walking around money, spend as you wish.
Spoken like a true Virgo
Except there was that one thread where Virgo ended up being one of the three signs with the most debt problem :p- They're independent and nonchalant but they never flake on you like a Libra or Gemini could. They rarely talk butter about others because they literally could not care enough to xD
- 50/50? Does one of you contribute more than the other? What about when you live together?
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Posted by SassyKiwi
Dxp is usually a dump yard to discuss relationship woes. What about those who don’t need any sexual partners in life? Do y’all exist on here?
Hey look, Sassy. Just because you are a cold-ass cookiemonster, doesn't mean you need to spread your anti-sex movement across the internet.
Who says having a sexual partner means having relationship woes?
Could it be possible to have sex without any drama?click to expand
Who let you crawl back out your mom's vagina?
As for your last question, no for you average dxpers.The user who posted this message has hidden it.
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