You are coming across as bitter not better ... and towards men. Cap moon was offering to console you and you attack him unjustifiably. Hope that rant made you feel good but it was aimed at the wrong person, go give the guy you really want to tear down an earbashing.

I'm sweethearts btw, just in case you missed it and your name suits you too!

Posted by CapTenn
Could ladies' jumping the gun be due to the way they are raised.

I've always been under the impression that little girls grow up looking forward to marriage, family, and the house with the white picket fence.

Even little girls when I was a boy (long time ago) played house, had tea parties, easy bake ovens, and kitchen sets. It seems domestication is ingrained in them naturally -- from the get go.

????

that's it for the majority of girls. There are studies out there that prove little girls are treated differently to little boys in the same senario. Both fall over and scrap their knee, little girl is picked up and made a fuss over and little boy is picked up and told to man up, it didn't hurt that much. Little girls are treated as little princess's that will one day have their own. They will find their prince and get married and have the house & white picket fence in a lot of cases and live happily ever after. On top of that we also follow the examples of our parents. Some with parents still together hope and dream of that and for the others, they want what they never had.

So many differing factors but all with the same results, we aren't going to waste much time on someone that we can't see a future with and for most, finding that special someone is important!

Happy Belated LS, Happy Birthday Tiz and Infinite, you should celebrate it together and to all the other Libra's and Libra Partners.

I'm celebrating mine in Vegas...might get married in Elvis's chapel if I get drunk enough

Posted by KVZZMIR11
"What the hell do I do?"

OK...

Time it.


When they are finished, knock on the wall and yell out the time.

"2 min 35 seconds, GETTING BETTER JEFFREY!"

Hahaaha

Ok, just read the last page and my thoughts are with pink.

@ OP, I think he is clearly curious, whether he would act on it or not only time will tell. He could just get off of you getting off on him but never brave enough to try it.

LS and Tiz, would you seriously flirt with another man that you know is gay, if you have no interest in them?

Purely as conversation starters, how else do you get to talk with someone you've just met? You start with general questions until you establish some common ground.

Regardless of the situation and different circumstances, whether it be me that has left or the relationship has just fallen apart. I analyse it to death over a few months, or longer, if the relationship was longer. This, to help me build myself up and be a stronger person, I can be very weak in the beginning but as time goes on, I recognise the reasons it didn't/hasn't worked out and that makes it more definite to me.

Memories haunt me though, special places or days of significant in the relationship never go away and can send me thinking back...but not for long, just fleetingly.

???I no longer have patience for certain things, not because I??ve become arrogant, but simply because I reached a point in my life where I do not want to waste more time with what displeases me or hurts me. I have no patience for cynicism, excessive criticism and demands of any nature. I lost the will to please those who do not like me, to love those who do not love me and to smile at those who do not want to smile at me.

I no longer spend a single minute on those who lie or want to manipulate. I decided not to coexist anymore with pretense, hypocrisy, dishonesty and cheap praise. I do not tolerate selective erudition nor academic arrogance. I do not adjust either to popular gossiping. I hate conflict and comparisons. I believe in a world of opposites and that??s why I avoid people with rigid and inflexible personalities. In friendship I dislike the lack of loyalty and betrayal. I do not get along with those who do not know how to give a compliment or a word of encouragement. Exaggerations bore me and I have difficulty accepting those who do not like animals. And on top of everything I have no patience for anyone who does not deserve my patience.??

- Jos? Micard Teixeira (words Meryl Streep live by)

Wasted time is what you may say in the heat of the moment when you are still hurting, reality is it all adds to the person you become as you mature. People have to experience things for themselves in order to grow. It's a fact and most only understand this as you age.

Posted by P-Angel

Thanks for all the wishes ... I will tell him that ... well .... it's a funny thing.

How do I describe you guys to him? If I say that my friends wished him happy birthday, he would become seriously befuddled.

I don't want to put his mind in a spin on his birthday, because certainly it would be as he asked himself over and over .... she has friends?

I don't like people .. surprise !!!!

This made me laugh

When I talk of you guys, I just say, my internet friends or the people I talk to on a forum...nobody even gives it a second thought.

Happy birthday Mr P

Met a Gemini man recently who after the first night we were together sent me John Legends "All of me" within the next few weeks when he didn't get what he wanted he sent silent and within the 6 weeks was in a relationship with another declaring his love.

Had a friend that did something similar to a couple of gf's of mine. One of them flipped over him and he came on hard and fast and then pulled away, the second was exactly the same and now that I look back he was like that with most girls until he married his 2nd wife...

Think it's a trait!

Seems you live in a strange and complicated system, why not just add it all on top and be done with it? Think the rest of the world has it right on this. Pay an employee their due and if they are exceptional they may get a bonus.

Thanks, for most of your help. I take it that majority say 20% on service.

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Slut!!! I have had many opportunities to do that but i don't wanna be a home wrecker lol



You're cute and have values though.

I think age can sometimes be a factor too

@Getmisted

Hahaha how'd you know I wanted to get my first tat? lol So what do I tip the marriage celebrant...I hear that's the other thing to do while in Vegas

What's the going rate in the US. We don't really here in Australia unless we feel like it (and most don't) but I hear it's basically compulsory in the States. Spending a week in Vegas in October and don't want to get this wrong.

Do you only tip at restaurants? For Breakfast, lunch and Dinner? Or do you tip everyone that does a service for you? What about retailers, taxi's etc?

I noticed my hotel booking added additional taxes on (over $ 20 per day for tipping as well), so is that considered covered or is that just a form of tax that employees never see?

Might seem like a strange question to most of you but it's quite foreign on this side of the world and when I was recently in Europe it was also optional.

Ooops accidentally flagged my own thread lol

22 Libra

I'm in lust quickly but it's not love.