Ever heard the saying "the truth hurts"? If you are here just to have everyone agree with you and wrap you up in cotton wool then you're in the wrong place. People are going to have their opinions and not all are going to lace it with candy for you. Be objective when reading your answers but don't take on board some of the personal attacks, they will happen.

You have a problem but can't see it from all differing angles and opinions, you'll definitely get them all here whether you like it or not!

Wow, you have a self centred guy here. Both times he hasn't considered you at all, unappreciative of what you bought for him and then allowing his brother to crash in without even a second thought for you. I get that you decided to give the brother your tickets and room but he didn't say anything to convince you otherwise or try and arrange something else...instead he rings and abuses you and basically tells you, you're replaceable!! Not to mention having no concern for your situation with your father and what you are going through there...

Nothing will change with this one, those are all red flags of what to expect in future with him.

I use to hate texting especially with men in the beginning... Thought that they should ring and talk/ask you out... However, I soon realised, if you can't bet them, join them! It's not going anywhere it's here to stay... And in saying that I have used this to my advantage at times when I didn't want to have a conversation. Used it to make excuses and an easy out, used it even in my work when I don't want a reply but need to tell my workers something and don't have the time for a full in conversation.

It is what it is and not going anywhere.

Make up your mind! You're contradicting yourself, either you trust her and it's dropped or you don't!

I've just come from Europe and unless you are the type that wouldn't dream of cheating... You probably will! The bruise I don't think is evidence of this, I can't imagine many would get that from sex but more the horse theory tbh or something like that. The fact that he believes she has cheated is more to do with gut instinct IMO... Not something is overlook!

You're definitely wise.....................

Wai!!!!

It is going well, thanks. Hard work both mind and body but well worth the effort!

And you? How's your plans coming along?

2009 was a hard year, first time I ever felt depressed but soon realised I had created the situation myself and was the only one that could pull myself out to never return to that state. I had alienated myself from my family and friends, cutting off people I felt didn't care. Once I learnt my doing in it, I changed. Slowly things got better, by 2011 I was well underway setting myself up for life and things Are just getting better and better. My attitude has changed, nothing gets at me anymore, I won't let it!

Posted by Librapride18
I think that libras are best when they are in real relationships!!

Don't agree! I'm best when I'm single Or should I say, I like me best as a person when I am single and unattached.

18. People think you have a rough exterior but you??re secretly ~sensitive
19. Contradiction comes easy for you because you change your mind every five minutes.
21. You are never to be trusted with money because if it was up to you, you would blow it on useless things.

20/23

Love gay guys to talk with but I never want to go to their bedroom in my mind or for real and know they don't enter mine!

Each to their own if that's what turns you on but tbh, I'd be too homophobic to go with a man that had been there. I don't believe it's just out of curiosity but more a deeper desire that they are closeting!

lol ... The other woman

Same... Cancer was my first love and we were always always fighting!!

We loved each other much but it was hard to maintain it through the differences and miscommunication.

Not for me, one of the best years I have had to date!

Last year wasn't so good dealing with a break up but in hindsight the best thing that could have happened for me and this year has proved it

And you selfishly think that your brother owes you his life.. Guess your wrong!

Deal with it!! Not much you can do is there??

Barcelona is a party town and full on, it's more expensive than most other areas but well worth a visit. Madrid is also another beautiful place to visit, you can go to the bullfights when you are there and definitely take up on a Tapa/Bar crawl to get a real feel of the place??_.just don't travel the next day!
If you get to Alicante, make a bee line for Benidorm. Fantastic shopping Tapa's and topless sunbathing.

Take an empty suitcase

Her frustration is because she has No Control and never will have! People don't do what they are told by the family because they are told to. He is a grown man and his choice is his own, it surprises me how opinionated a lot of people here are. The best way to deal with a situation like this is to keep out of it because if it is as toxic as you feel eventually things will change.

I personally don't see that she's doing anything wrong, her man is looking after her as a man should!

Any particular reason why you still care enough to come here to write about it?? Feelings still?