Posted by virgoOPPPPosted by SassyKiwi
I can't relate. I trash both equally. I do prefer to be friends with guys over women because women are weird af, too emotional and dramatic for me
my BFF is a gay Aquarius man
gives me a lot of space
never had genuine friendship with straight men coz sex
i'd prefer female friendships but i'm too self-centered to keep it goingclick to expand
Posted by MyStarsShinePosted by SassyKiwi
Most mother-in-laws are big pieces of butters to their daughter-in-laws. I cannot tell you how many mother-in-law situations I've had close people in my life encounter that are borderline nasty and obsessive over their sons. Sometimes you wish you could scream at them to shove their sons back up their vaginas because clearly that would make them the happiest. Women like these are so attached to their sons either because they've had a butterty husband or just plainly don't have anything else meaningful going on in their lives. I see them as the most pathetic level a female can stoop. Seriously treetrunk trying to ever impress her because you won't. You just do you and ignore her existence if you realllllly want to be with her son. You can play neutral if her son is around, other than that let her talk all the butter she wants about you. At least your guy will know it's all coming from one side instead of both. Try to get her to fear you by showing with your actions how *he's* the lucky one to deserve you if you can. Put the cookiemonster in her place with your actions, not words.
It's really twisted, I've known women who treat their sons like they're their husbands...selfish, warped and very unhealthy, sad women. If the son is weak it can screw them up big time
I agree with all you say here Sassy.
Shame on those women, to me that's not love, it's fecked up 👎🏻click to expand
Posted by Lastwill
Mars square Pluto, natally is a pretty 'evil' aspect. More-so just flagrantly inconsiderate tho.
Posted by HeartofIcePosted by generation_xy
It sounds ridiculous but I actually scheduled my time to cry and let my mind run when my grandpa died.
If you have a counselor in your school, maybe schedule a visit? You can't avoid the inevitable but you can sort of prepare for it. You need all the support you can get.
Try not to take so much in your plate because too much can cause mental and emotional strain. Unless it works and actually take your mind off things.
It's hard but you can push through it.
I'm the type of person who always feels like a burden to people if I ask anything of them even if I'm close to them. But I will try me best to reach out to people.
Did the scheduling for getting out your emotions help keep you focused on other things you needed to get done, knowing that you set aside time to let everything out?click to expand
Posted by DreamyboyPosted by ClairDeLunePosted by DreamyboyPosted by ClairDeLunePosted by DreamyboyPosted by ClairDeLunePosted by Dreamyboy
1) I’ve never cheated
2) Its because my gf at the time regulated on me
All other non serious relationships, I just got bored and fell off of communication. Like I’d stop bothering and disappear.
I can’t honestly say if I would cheat when it comes down to it, but I can say I will stray if I’m with a girl that can’t keep me fully stimulated and doesn’t soften me.
What do you mean by soften you?
That was literally the context of my post lol
Me being in a relationship and unfulfilled is my worst nightmare... like... bye babe I’ll see you next year 👋🏻
So, if she fulfilled you in every other aspect except sexually. You would run?
I have to be completely fulfilled to be happy :/
So yes. If we don’t vibe on all levels, I don’t want it.click to expand
Posted by Black-MambaPosted by SassyKiwiPosted by Dreamyboy
I’m ok at money management (surprisingly because I’m a Pisces). I AM very bad at shopping around for discounts though. I like, I buy. My credit is pretty well and my debts are low.
I’m still pretty green when it comes to retirement plans though. That stuff gives me headaches, but I contribute 9% of my income to 401k by auto drafting. It gets matched at 6% .
My company offers discounts on stock trading, but personally, the shares are a bit too much and I’m still debating if I should...
Roughly $ 250 USD per share
It doesn't sound like you max out your 401k, why not? You get a 6% match which would mean more free money! Taking compound interest seriously from when you are still young is the best thing a person could ever do for themselves.
I think you read that wrong, in fact he does more than match it by 3%
He's doing the normal at 15%click to expand