SassyKiwi

Sounds like something my 14 year old self would do with my crush, congrats

You dodged a bullet. He's out raising someone else's kid with no stable job. Read that sentence again carefully. Reality will bust them up soon enough.

Take all the time you need to mourn until you're sick of mourning but I also suggest you also throw yourself back out on the market soon for fun to get some confidence back. Just go on fun dates or something. All your adult years wasted on him so far. You will come to find the ocean is full of way more impressing fishes.

All seafood break me out and give me cystic acne (sucks so much since I used to LOVE shrimp and fish)

I haven’t drank soda since high school, that stuff is nasty and I've become sensitive to sweet things due to it

I don't drink alcohol and don't understand how others do because it's yucky

I genuinely love explicitly drinking water, I'm so thankful it tastes so good and satisfying to me

Oh I also love fresh coconut water directly from coconuts, I become a crack addict for them

As someone who has a pretty twisted MIL, there must be something about the way you live or come off as that suggests you don't have certain class, therefore is possibly a golddigger after her son.

Also it's completely normal not to be loved and adored by everyone, especially a MIL figure. The less you seek her approval, the happier you'll be.

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Pictures of the ocean please!

I didn't take very good pictures.. but here's Kaanapali beach, probs the best picture taken out the entire trip

THANK YOU

THANK YOU

I DID ((((NOT)))) GET NOTIFICATION FOR THIS.

THANK YOU

my gosh it's so beautiful.


this means so much to me.

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I honestly hate uploading any kind of personal pictures (I changed my FB profile picture like 8 years later xD) but I'm glad I did and that you're enjoying it. Sending you lots of serene & positive vibes Aju 💕

There's nothing to understand and learn from here. The ex is most likely an attention seeking low life like most exes that have nothing better to do with their time. You shouldn't even for a moment dwell on it. Block him permanently and ignore any future communication attempts from them period. This day and age it can't get any easier to cut off another person's existence unless they're psycho enough to physically stalk you.

Can someone explain to me how it's mostly unmarried people in unstable relationships that end up "accidentally" pregnant like all the time when there's so many stable, healthy married couples that have been together for 4+ years that never once had a pregnant scare? Married people ironically practice safe sex more or something? Being sloppy like that is nowhere near a sign you have your butter together even a little bit so work on yourself and keep your damn legs closed.

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I'm about to jump in my car and drive by his house.

Just stahp.

Pretend he doesn't exist and just try to have a great time while enjoying your birthday.

Nope... I don't like my time being wasted.
He will receive the dramatic grand exit from his life.

Because I told him before, if he lies again to save my feelings I will leave him.

And I know definitely he has done it again.

Because there ain't no flights coming in at the time he said.

You do know that Pisces men.....especially with an aries moon....are going to totally get off on your dramatics.

Suit yourself.

You are being totally stereotypical scorpio woman cringe right now.

I don't give a treetrunk, I own every bit of my crazy. *Kanye Shrug*

You are entitled to "own your crazy" but it is much more empowering to control yourself.

Put things in perspective....

You bought your flight.
You bought your airbnb.
You played yourself.

If he is a "high earner", he obviously knows how to prioritize and unfortunately, it doesnt appear that you are one of his priorities.

As a "successful" woman yourself, you should know when to cut your losses.

I am cutting my loses... but I'm also going to cuss him as, I end it.
my bestie flies in tomorrow. I"m good.
With me its about principle. I do not take kindly to being disrespected.

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DO IT! Cut that mofo's weenie off!

Pisces men are trash.

That Aries moon does not help him.

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@SassyKiwi Like your social experiment?

Yes 💕

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@SassyKiwi

oh and didn't you go to Hawaii recently?

um... You get some ocean pics?

you know..

those...

could...

help the anxiety in all of us...

I posted a pic a little while back to your other post. I am honestly too lazy to fetch the url heh. The beaches there are really nice but I'm sure California is cheaper and has as nice beaches for one to get away at. I wish I lived super close to a pretty beach instead of Galveston but some beach nearby is better than no beach I guess.

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I used to have bad anxiety growing up but then I would exercise like crazy (only to drown out the emotions) after every heartbreak and also got braces so I ended up getting more attractive which helped my overall self esteem.

So treat yoself and always look good for yoself is my suggestion 💅

I wonder if this can help me.

I know that running a lot helps my skin and health...

And people think that I am attractive but I'm not sure if that will be enough?

I will do my best to treat myself though as in maybe more painting? or just enjoying
something -finding something to enjoy in the middle of the night when I feel this way.

nooooo, get the mind out the gutter. come on now.







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I love going on walks and runs at night. It feels better for me when less/no people are out and there are nice breezes. I also have a treadmill so I'd randomly be using it for hours past midnight if I need. Just blasting music and using my Fitbit to track my heart rate to target zones. It is all done as a way to release my emotions and block out my anxiety. There are also so many creative ways to exercise these days like dance and aerial silk that I want to get into but I never have time. I'm extremely awful artistically but I'm sure if you had your own little art studio you could do wonders. Always keeping yourself busy helps so much with anxiety. I think that's the biggest cure. Recognize the moments you have too much free time which lets those negative thoughts slip in.

Yikes dude

What are you doing in life? What's your relationships been like?

Let's be friends I'd like to research you

Damsel in distress

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I only experience Anxiety over one thing now. And I'm not even sure if it would be considered Anxiety or a mild form of PTSD. It may sound silly or pathetic, but I'm scared of being home alone in the dark. It causes me a lot of stress and an abundance of paranoid thoughts. It's continually getting worse.. to the point I have to make plans to go somewhere for the night or have someone over because I cant handle being home alone at night. Makes me feel pretty pathetic at 30 years old and I'm not sure what I can do about it. It was triggered by an event in my past and I've had a really hard time coping with it.

I'm scared of being home alone in the dark too but I just turn on all the TVs and lights in the house and keep someone on the phone with me at all costs bc u kno just in case

I used to have bad anxiety growing up but then I would exercise like crazy (only to drown out the emotions) after every heartbreak and also got braces so I ended up getting more attractive which helped my overall self esteem.

So treat yoself and always look good for yoself is my suggestion 💅

Ew fire sign women

EW fire sign men

Wait you're just actually gay for big James but in denial?

You hurt the love of your life deeP

I don't get impressed easily to begin with so once I caught feels I never fell out, I had to sever them raw for my own good. Fixed energy probs. They were Scorpio, Pisces, Sag.

I want to meet you irl and smack the butter out of you

You shouldn't even be considering dating someone who still has a kik

Those of you who have spirits watching over you... I’ve always wondered are they able to watch you when you’re doing private thinggies? Serious inquiry.