We've known each other a while too. She had just moved to this country a few years ago and I basically just helped her out to help her out. No strings and she thought I didn't like her in that way but I was curious to learn about her.
She told me she trusts me... which I think is huge. I figure she thinks I'm not really interested. I just didn't see her that way back then because I had a girlfriend. But I always liked her. Maybe she wants to be pursued... I don't know. It's annoying because I put myself out there telling her I want to see her.
I'm an attractive guy... it's just not in my nature to blurt out... I REALLY LIKE YOU. I'll put it out there by saying or doing something flirting 101. I look for some sort of reciprocity and then I will increase it until it's obvious.
If I know you, I don't want to make you uncomfortable about my feelings so I won't come right out and say it.
Yea... the problem is casual relationships turned into relationships.... that's why I said I started courting first before just evolving a relationship from sex. I grew out of it about 6 years ago.
I realized flings shouldn't turn into relationships. I was so wrapped up in school and working I didn't really want one at the time. If you read a later post I said I never loved them. I was equating my lust for them and them willing to drop what they were doing to satisfy me as love. I was wrong for it because they loved me.
I didn't cheat on my last girlfriend of 2.5 years or during the year we were separated. Even now seeing her and she's unavailable I'm not getting some while trying to see where we go... even if she is.
How do we really know when you are interested? Because
New Scorpio lady I met texts me once or twice daily after we went out one time a few weeks ago. Says she wants to do it again, and she likes spending time with me and I make her laugh... but always busy. It might be my Aries moon but I'm getting impatient. My Sagittarius wants physical contact! I know I can't make her rearrange her schedule but geez.
You Can't make 2-3 hours to see somebody? I Know you aren't supposed to push a Scorpio into something. But what's up?
I do know how to leave. that is actually my problem, I'm too good at it... i just don't want to leave her if I can get back together. I moved back to this $ hit town for her. and the fact that we had an hour long conversation and flirted the whole time with a long hug good bye, made me realize I still want to be with her, especially because she has been reaching out to me since I've been home.... she just needs to drop the "boyfriend" of 5 months.
she asked me what did you expect? for me to jump right in your arms and rip your clothes off, I haven't seen you in a year? and I said... well yea obviously
@saggurl88 Lol... but we would always be trying to top each other....plus I'm a go-getter and motivator. I work out a lot too so I always have an urge to do something... I can be lazy to an extent.
Maybe one of you ladies can answer this. When you've had a man you were in love with and that completely satisfies you in bed... like omg amazing mind blowing.... do you still think of him in that way even if you broke up.
Like when you he was amazing, and you didn't break up because the relationship sucked(LD killed it)... I would think seeing him would at least get you a little intrigued even if you are with someone else?
Not a fling but like a past ex-boyfriend. I could swear when my ex asked me to meet Thursday. a quick meeting turned into an hour and she took her sunglasses off to look at me in my eyes the last 30 minutes.... that there had to be something there.... not to mention the 10 second hug good bye... I don't know if that was closure or her wanting to see if there was something really still there. my emotions are clouding my personal judgement on this one. I haven't heard from her since then, normally I would have like clock work 24 - 36 hours....
not to mention.... with my drive at 1000% and not getting any for almost 2 years.... Can I please get a break from past mishaps? I said I was sorry to the ones I did it to and meant it. I wish I had a sister growing up, I probably would have definitely been more grounded in things like that. Plus they forgave me, so how you going to hold it against me?
I HAVE NEVER SAID I LOVE YOU... but to my recent "ex" and the one before that... I don't play that love stuff. its ridiculous to lie to get something from someone. now if they think doing me will make me love them that's their fault because honestly if they ask me I would tell them no it wouldn't. I can separate the two.
I just said I'm not anymore.... jesus.... cut a guy a break. I said I was a little 'extra' back in the days.... those two relationships I cheated. I was only seeing them once or twice a week because of their schedules and my sex drive is on 1000% . Why make me take care of myself? and they are saying I love you and want to be with you and all this stuff but I have things I want too, I was very selfish. so I got some on the side.
My "ex" and I were like animals and we had a great relationship and she didn't smother me. She wasn't perfect, but to me she was. If I wanted it she would find a way to make it happen. That was my woman! and my best friend so imagining her with someone else is very very hurtful