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sweethearts
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Joined dxpnet on March 24, 2006.
Happy Birthday Ands.

I was speaking to someone from the Philippines today when I rang my web server to sort out a problem. I kept thinking I was talking to you He didn't sound Asian at all, his English was pretty good and he told me that you learn English in your schools as a second language.

So how do Filipino's celebrate their birthdays?
sweethearts
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Joined dxpnet on March 24, 2006.
Beware of that nagging feeling, it's there for a reason and shouldn't be ignored. Deep down you know what it is about and you should sort it out as soon as you can.
Libra Man, Virgo Woman - Need Advice!
sweethearts
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sweethearts
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I don't think it's a star thing either.

I've only kissed 1 Piscean and unfortunately he is the one that got away and I still dream of today

He was a great kisser...
Are Pisceans really good kissers?
sweethearts
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Joined dxpnet on March 24, 2006.
Yes I have heard that before ^^^ A lot of truth to it~

My dear friend has gone straight back in, I only hope that when it happens again it's not fatal and she doesn't suffer too much more.

I don't condemn or think bad of her, in some of my darkest days with my ex, I still would have taken him back even though very clearly now the same problems would have arisen and eventually we would have had to part. We were heading in different directions.

However, I think fear and insecurity was what was driving those thoughts at the time... Pride is what held me back!
What makes woman so weak when it comes to men?
sweethearts
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Joined dxpnet on March 24, 2006.
Hahaha,

staaay single you funny fuck!
IN LAWS
sweethearts
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Joined dxpnet on March 24, 2006.
Rice is soooooo cheep, you no be so mean and love her and her family long time
IN LAWS
sweethearts
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Joined dxpnet on March 24, 2006.
lol bloody Asian!!
IN LAWS
sweethearts
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Joined dxpnet on March 24, 2006.
Say everything you want to say and then walk away and let them think is all you can do, then possibly go back a week later and ask if they have had time to think and do they want to discuss it?

If it is a romantic relationship, it may take longer and may not end well if they have decided to walk and not turn back. Some will not want to talk at all and some will want to know that there is no hatred or ill feelings and that might not be what you want, which will make them less likely to enter into confrontation.
How to apologize to a libra
sweethearts
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Joined dxpnet on March 24, 2006.
Say everything you want to say and then walk away and let them think is all you can do, then possibly go back a week later and ask if they have had time to think and do they want to discuss it?

If it is a romantic relationship, it may take longer and may not end well if they have decided to walk and not turn back. Some will not want to talk at all and some will want to know that there is no hatred or ill feelings and that might not be what you want, which will make them less likely to enter into confrontation.
How to apologize to a libra
sweethearts
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sweethearts
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I see the ball is in his court. He knows you are single and you also made clear to him what you would like for the future and now that he is single, let him make his own mind up and let him come to you.

I think you feel the time is right but I'm not sure that he shares that??_last time he decided to explore what he had with the other girl even though he knew it wasn't going to work out and he knew you wanted to be with him. This says a lot!
I want my Libra ex bf back
sweethearts
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Yes we expect a lot from our children, we spend most of your adolescence teaching you right from wrong and nudging you when you are taking the wrong turns through life but at a certain point we feel most of the teaching is done. In fact you make that decision yourself and we recognise it, this is when you no longer get told what to do and how to do it and must think for yourself...and when you do the wrong thing or make the wrong decisions you will feel it from us!!!

This is the way I am with my girls, I've pulled back considerably and trying to cut the apron strings but they keep coming back with the simplest things wanting me to make decisions for them and the complex things they want to be left alone...I don't understand or know what they are going through.. sheesh!
My libra mother.
sweethearts
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Joined dxpnet on March 24, 2006.
Not common at all with me. I've experienced it with one guy that I can think of and he was on drugs, many years ago. It's more common for them to finish up leaving me wanting to go again not long after... Then having to wait until they can get it up again!
sweethearts
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Joined dxpnet on March 24, 2006.
She'll talk to you again, one thing we do is forgive easily enough with people that we care about. Forgetting is another matter, what you said and the way you acted would cut like a knife and it won't be forgotten. Very doubtful that you will get back to where you once were unless you are very very special to this Leeb. Most of my friendships, the ones that are solid are also easy and very few if any conflicts and that's the way friends should be. If it's toxic and full of jealousy which is what I read here then it's kept at arms length.
Libra Best Friend
sweethearts
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Joined dxpnet on March 24, 2006.
Time heals, we learn from mistakes and experience and sometimes repeatedly so but eventually we learn and generally most of us need to the hard way.

As Aquagirl says, some don't find their way out until they can't live with it any longer and it becomes life threatening in their minds.
What makes woman so weak when it comes to men?
sweethearts
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Joined dxpnet on March 24, 2006.
My answer now when asked why I'm single??_

It's just too easy to please myself!
What makes woman so weak when it comes to men?
sweethearts
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Joined dxpnet on March 24, 2006.
Posted by Sugarfoot
Many women will use the excuse of not wanting to start over with someone new. Either the devil you know is better than the devil you don't know, or she's invested too much time into that man to let him go now. Never does the thought enter her mind that she may actually meet a better man! Why? Because she doesn't believe she can do any better than him. Why not just be alone then? Because she feels worthless without a man. Why? To her, having a man validates her presence in this world. Someone CHOSE her to be with. Alone she is faced with how miserable of a person she is.

The best thing a woman can do for herself is to learn to be happy and live a joyful life as a single woman! Then there is no need to put up with foolishness from anyone. She'll realize she will be happier without the nonsense!

I personally have found I had to go through all those excuses before I left my marriage, sometimes it's easier when you have a normal routine and being single I have to motivate myself to make my life interesting and not be sitting at home alone all the time. There's more work involved with being single but also more fulfilling because you only have yourself to consider so you aren't necessarily doing for others all the time.

The 2nd part I think is learned from experience and generally after children/family. A lot of woman selflessly put everyone before her during that period and then one day decide to be more selfish for her own sanity. I went through this and my favourite saying to my children is, it's all about me now, I've done my time. Sometimes they don't like it but they have learned to respect it!
What makes woman so weak when it comes to men?
sweethearts
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Joined dxpnet on March 24, 2006.
"The ego is rooted in insecurity"

Where does that stem from? When are we taught this??

Yes CC, cultural differences do make things difficult. With my friend this is definitely the case, but it is with his culture that it is exceptable, cheating and beating... not with the way she was bought up and yet she is bending for him?? How is it that she can't stick to her beliefs when she knows and has always learned that it is wrong? Instead in one conversation she said to me he hasn't cheated on her...as if that is a buffer!
What makes woman so weak when it comes to men?

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