Genghis Khan

I think it's that they are over the top... Anal...and that's something that I'm not. After a while it starts to annoy me and I have to get away!

Is your self esteem that low PP? I called you unpretty once and you continually stalk anything I put up. I feel sorry for you really, you don't have much going for you and you allow yourself to be used and think you really are all that when in reality you are just a bum boy...pardon the pun.

Now I am not going to reply to anything further you say in the future, I'm done playing with you, you've never got much to say except lol and I do realize it's your immaturity that sends you my way and at some point you will be need to grow up.

Catherine Zeta-Jones

Richard Chamberlain

Not just a sag thing, I feel that way myself after a break up. ATM I feel like it's just too damn easy to please myself so why complicate things now that I have found myself in a happy place?

Sags, I have found them to be more stimulating and easier to get on with. Similar thoughts but still enough differences to keep things alive. Not many fights with my ex of 19 years. He always did what he was told lol

With Taurus and i haven't had a relationship with one but have many friends that are, I can only take so much of them. We can spend days in each others company but I get annoyed after a period and have to leave and not see them for a while so I don't start voicing my irritations.

She's just told me there is a guy that they hang out in a group situation but he doesn't flirt with her, they are the only 2 singles. I've suggested that he maybe observing or even have the others put pressure there and keeping his distance until he knows within himself if he is interested in her or not.

I can see it's hard for her, she has always wanted to have children and at her age will be starting to feel like her clock is ticking.

Would make my world if she found a nice man and settled down

I said no, you are beautiful. She is in fact, she is pretty to look at and also has a very loving nature and that has been expressed to me by dozens of people, so it's not me being biased.

Then she asked me, then why don't any men find her attractive? I tried to come up with answers but it makes me wonder too why not many men approach her. She is religious but that doesn't change the dynamics too much other than whom she would find suitable to date. I've seen guys at my work flirt with her so maybe she doesn't really pick up on it.

Is it that they (men) sense a no nonsense girl? She is marriage material and doesn't play around taking her religion very seriously, not sure you would be able to pick that up when you first meet her as she is very friendly and down to earth & not prudish. I would liken her to the "girl next door type"

Any thoughts on why men don't approach?

The only time a young adult has wanted to sit in my was my daughter and she just wanted a mummy cuddle. It was bazaar but I guess she needed it.

I would not understand a man asking the same. You need to look at your maturity and relationship with your mother, did you miss out there?

What you've done by asking this girl this, is in fact insult and offend her and probably totally confused her, whether or not she was interested in you sexually before. You've changed the dynamics of the situation by coming off as a man child.

Actually I'm quick to explode and even I don't recognise the build up at times but it also goes within minutes. I have my say until it either gets through or I realise I'm beating a dead horse and then I decide it's not worth it!

Let her calm down a little but don't give up...you also need to re-think about what you intend to do and how long you intend to stay. Your mother is important but so is your future and when you do talk to her again, have some real answers of what is happening.

Out of curiosity, did you chuck your job in? AND your apartment? You've uprooted your whole life in France by the sounds.

On another note, I'm visiting there on May 22-25th...do you want me to meet her and put in a good word lol

yeah, not something I practise at all because I had learnt from a couple previous ones...most embarrassingly!

Actually you aren't reading this thoroughly at all...his mother isn't dead, she's sick but not terminal. He just feels he is needed there.

I also feel there is no real communication here for a couple that are suppose to be planning their lives together!

Awww sorry to hear that! Cookie sends her love xx

I doubt he ever left!

Hi David,

Sounds like you two have still haven't got the communication lines open anymore than before!

How often have you been in contact since October? If you were thinking of moving in together when you got back then sounds like you are in a full on relationship and it maybe that your downfall here is that you are not discussing this with her. I understand that you need to be there for your mother and you feel you are needed there but you booked for 4 months and then you cancelled out on going back and have told her you don't know when you are returning. Was there any discussion here?

For all she knows you are having the time of your life and making excuses. You're definitely not considering her feelings if you haven't taken her thoughts into consideration.

If you want this lady, perhaps you should actually try talking to her and listening