I seem to have ruffled your feathers paisley boy Go play your silly games with the old men that will still put up with you...your clocks ticking and you won't be worth much soon. Might pay to have a back up plan!

I do have a month long trip planned DJ but not for another 2 months time and I'm so looking forward to it. In the meantime I have to put everything into play to keep the wheels spinning while I'm away.

Totally understand and feel what your saying LS... Is it age and the "sick of worrying about what people think of me" faze? I use to think my old aunt was blatantly honest and quite rude... Now I feel I'm being her and it's about speaking the truth!

Posted by utopian
retro Libra Mars.

Meaning??

IKR?

I normally will let things go over my head but not anymore, I'm scarily vocal and don't care if I offend someone when I think they are clearly not thinking or being presumptuous!

I did decide that I wasn't going to sit back and be a doormat anymore at the beginning of the year..

Soooo snappy and short with people. I can feel my blood boiling in certain situations and I'm very blunt!! Is it me and the stresses I have or is it a Libran thing atm?

I feel like I have to keep away from people as they are seemingly incompetent, not thinking or just plain thick!!

Think I need a holiday or an escape.

Happy birthday for Tuesday and many happy returns P

Even if it is what I might be looking for in the long run..it would scare me and I would end up becoming a little distant until I felt that I shared this with this person.

I've not come across many men that are that upfront so it's foreign territory and this would send me internally questioning whether I would want the same.

I'd much prefer any talk like this not happening until way after a month or going out around 10 times or more.

The truth is the best, not the cold harsh truth but enough so he will stop expecting something from a man he won't have any future contact with.

TBH, I don't think I want to find a person to spend my life with. I really enjoy living on my own and doing me and having that freedom.

However there are nights like the night I wrote this when I was wondering... hence the title "thinking out loud" (can't help the Libra Venus)

Loneliness comes and goes from time to time and my mind goes into overdrive but for most of it I'm perfectly content with my life. I guess at times the grass can appear greener...

@Gobstopper...are you projecting from experience, very sorry you were hurt but do get over it!

Is he worth it? Will he ever stick up for you or will you always be subjected to this?

I've never seen or heard anything like this from a mother so it makes me wonder why she is soooo mistrusting of anyone around her son. What troubles has he gotten himself into previously that he has to have his mother do all the questioning for him and if he knows about everything she is doing, does he say anything? If not, then I have to ask again....Is he worth it???

We're still lurking and pike in every now and then, it's change quite a bit recently and it seems you have to have a lot of free time to keep up with what's going on. Too much going on in RL to bother.

Have you heard of Metabolic Precision? I'm learning up on this atm. Google it but to help with aiding your diet in short :you need to eat correctly at the right times and the right foods.

6-8 meals a day (3 can be liquid protein shakes-not just your powered variety)

Diet consists of First class Protein (Lean Meats, seafood, eggs, low fat yogurts, cottage cheese, skim milk, whey proteins)

High Energy Carbs (All breads, pasta's, rice and whole grains, potato's, Bananas, Oats. Wheat, rye, whole grain varieties the better option

Low Energy Carbs ( Fruits Veges and Legumes. The more colourful the better!)

Omega Fats (salmon, sardines, tuna in water, maceral, cod, lobster, scallops, bluefish, flax seeds/oil, canola oil, spinach, green lettuce raw, butter lettuce, kale, collard greens, red lettuce.

JUST BEFORE EXERCISE: Protein Supplement (Fast absorbing 20-50grams
Carbohydrate: Fast Absorbing, small dose 10-40 grams

IMMEDIATELY AFTER: Protein Supplement
Carbohydrate Fast absorbing

WITHIN THE HOUR AFTER EXERCISE, SOLID MEAL: Protein + High Carb + Low Carb + Omega Fat

WITHIN THE 3RD HOUR : Protein liquid should contain fast and slow absorbing protein. Carbohydrate High & Low, Omega Fat

YOUR METABOLIC WINDOW IS 3 HOURS FROM EXERCISE AND THESE MEALS CAN ONLY BE EATEN IN THIS PERIOD!




OUTSIDE THE METABOLIC WINDOW MEALS SHOULD LOOK LIKE THIS: When not exercising

PROTEIN: at least one first class
CARBOHYDRATE: low energy only
FATS: Omega - 3 ratio

Posted by aquavita
lies behind their own motives. they watch other peole so close an dconstantly...that they never have time to look into themsleves...thus no emotions.. which is a good thing..as emotions...are nto waht feelings are. emotions are just confusing... they come from unclear head... may be isnide libra lives a big fat buddha...laughing at the world... yet a little extra compassion woudl not hurt libras....u re so self preservational... an yet so detached

I'm detached from that situation because it happened 5 years ago, why would there be any emotion in it now? Simply answering the questions, now if it was someone of the here and now, there may be more passion.

Did you lose a Libra or get hurt by one?

When he pauses a conversation with you to jump on the nipple!

1. I wonder how do you feel when you like someone?

The confidence in me waivers and I find I can't look at them for long especially if they look back at me and I am lost for words...dumbfounded, they would have to approach me for me to ease up.

2. What do you do when you feel a spark?

Show I am interested by eye contact or being around that person whether it be standing with them, bring myself closer so we can talk or feel each others presence. He will need to make the moves.

3. Are you clingy if you love so much?

I can be until I learn to trust this person.

4. How do you show your interest?

Answer as in 2.


5. Do you make the first move if you like? Are you being direct to get what you want or you just try to impress the person you like?

Not often but if they don't pick up on my signals then I will send stronger ones or get in a little closer to spark conversation.

6. How do you feel when someone you love doesn't love you back? What do you do when this happens?

Go crazy assessing the situation and finally will approach them and ask them out, I need to know so I can continue on and stop wasting time if there is no chance.

7. How do you deal with your emotional side if you can't have what you want?

Put it in it's place, we can't have everything we want all of the time. Move on and find new things to focus on...not saying it's easy but necessary!

8. What do you expect from a relationship?

It changes all the time in my mind so when I meet someone it changes with them. Loyalty would be something I need and that way I can learn to trust, we can build from there.

9. What to do when your relationship gets to be routine? does it bother you? or you try to change something?

I don't mind routine but I also like to change it up when I can or if he would. I'm very social so there's always offers on the table to step outside the square every once and a while. The friendship doors need to be kept open even when in a relationship so ideally this person would have to be social as well.

10. Are you loyal when you're not happy? Do you try to improve/change the situation or give up.

I am loyal to the end once I have pledge my love but if it's over it's over and I don't like to beat a dead horse. I'll end it or get them to!

Not one person has the answer to everything regardless of how happy they are, you are in a happy marriage but I bet you still have your problems.

Some people have learnt along the way and have some good sound advice that can be shared even if their marriage/partnerships have failed, they have learnt by their mistakes and mistakes aren't always recognisable until it's too late and you are looking back and assessing where things went wrong.

I believe, It's wiser to take a little off everyone and keep your mind open.

Don't know for a Libra, I never read my yearly this year but as a Horse in the chinese zodiac it's not for me. Would be interested in knowing and if it is suppose to be, how that effects that prediction.

Maybe so, but some people on FB aren't really friends or you are trying them out as friends. I deleted someone not so long ago because after 5 months he proved to be too loose for me and used FB to keep an eye on me and when I confronted him he lied. So delete, no regrets either.

Seems to me that a lot of gay men are promiscuous and expect you to put out immediately...don't get me wrong, it's not an attack on you or gays but just hearing things in general it seems that way and you are well within your rights to have standards and uphold them.

I've been on dating sites and only one person asked me to send a pic and he was very graphic in his profile too, he was blocked immediately.

Back to your original post, also seems like your instincts on this one was spot on!