Any reason?

Which do you sleep on and state whether you are male or female.

I also wonder if this changes from country to country. In Australia and New Zealand we drive on the right side of the road, you in America on the left...

He always says the dumbest shit... Attention seeker!

And so you all know Pissed over here means drunk.. It can also mean pissed off but is mostly used to describe an intoxicated state.

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He may still have his heart on you, but he could really be dating girls there. It's weird how being with someone else so soon is normal for men. I don't get it and then maybe come back later and downplay the dates like they meant nothing? Like casual is okay. But then again we tolerate this behavior making an excuse for them that but he had his heart on me. He came back to me.. SMH at our behavior here.

That's a good start for a new thread soul talk!

You're blinded by what you want and clearly not listening to him! Most men don't say these things outright because they don't feel it necessary to hurt someone but he has told you numerous times to quote "move on" probably because he knows already that you won't let go. If he wants you he will take the steps to be with you. Leave him alone, no contact at all. It'll make the healing process easier and maybe you will be open to love again. This guy is not your one... Only in your imagination!

I experienced this when I was contemplating leaving my husband.. I couldn't go anywhere and felt insecure and not in control of my mind and body (irritable bowel) I went to a shrink and talked and talked and learnt that my mind was controlling these thoughts and I had to learn to take that control back! It worked. Something is bothering you and it more than likely has been set off by something of the present but stems from the past. I highly recommend talking to a professional, it can really help!

So today my ex step daughter reached out to me. We use to play words with friends from our mobiles and she requested another game. So crazy, made me soooo happy. I know it's just her little way because she misses me and it brings tears to my eyes, both happy and sad.

Another friend put up on FB last night how when a relationship breaks down how much it effects family and friends and how they get hurt too. Sad but true!

No, I left about two years later. It just highlighted that I wasn't happy in that relationship and I had to do a lot of soul searching.

That's a really hard one! I've experienced this and while I didn't physically cheat I was emotionally caught up in all of a sudden the feelings of my entire being feeling alive again and desire. Long story short, it also awaken my mind and the fact that I wasn't in love with my husband and didn't want to spend the rest of my life with this man.. Eventually I left.

Libra

I had 1,3 & 5. It took a bit to get use to it as I hadn't had it before and it was nice but I really needed 2 quality time and I would have liked 4 but could live without it. Along with quality time I need someone that is also supportive of my career.

You can keep your happy ending, my nose is very sensitive and I prefer they take that stench elsewhere!!

Was your selfie of you cock?? Biggest turnoff in my book when a man does this, and these days it happens way before some are ready to see it!!

Why would you be with a guy if you are this insecure about whether he wants you or his bff? You've come on to the scene after the fact and yet you have a problem? I don't get it. Do you also share this insecurity with a bff of the same sex. Does it make you jealous when he wants to spend quality man time at the pub or football game?

What's the real problem here? Is she beautiful and do you see chemistry with them that is more than a friendship? Which one do you see likes the other more than as a friend or is it both and they flirt with each other in front of you?

A. If they were anything more it would have happened already. Any insecurities lie with the 3rd party and should be kept in check.

Are these to blame for our romanticized outlook on RL?

This week I was watching a romantic comedy and of course the girl and boy have a hate/love relationship but then develop a friendship which turns to love against the odds. While it was lovely, at that point I wondered, does anyone really have this happy ending where the man comes running to find you and openly confesses his love, when previously he was a philanderer.

I'd like to hear stories if you have any.

Then over in Libra, I was reading a thread and it's exactly what some are expecting to happen in their own lives. Against all odds, he comes back and confesses his dying love....or it's want she wants to hear anyhow even though to others it's blatantly obvious that this guy is using her for his own selfish reasons!

More than likely obvious to her to and many many others but being bought up on these stupid "happy ever after" love stories that are so far fetched, has somehow distorted our reality and what we think/dream will happen one day...

If it fits...

From what I have seen and read here most of you share it!

There's not a whole lot of respect or love coming from this man...are you happy to just receive his crumbs because the chances of it getting any better are very slim!!

Your not a priority and doesn't sound like you ever will be and the way he is treating you has red flags all over it!!

Your choice though, you obviously don't feel you deserve better!

No not the smoking, he gave up himself anyway with no persuasion from me. Just wanted to and did. But my family weren't sure of him and I against my better judgement allowed him to moved in, in a short period and I also never wanted step children and I grew to love his two and they were ripped away without as much as a goodbye...there were a lot of little things and I blindly closed my eyes which is why next time around I will be looking to my friends and family to take in all their thoughts right in the beginning.


But I think we all have expectations or a list per-sa that we feel we don't want, and it all goes out the window at some point.

The not wanting a family is an expectation then isn't it? You might meet the perfect person that wants a family...then what do you do?

In my case age is about experience and wisdom. I also didn't want a smoker with the last and excepted it that he was but I overlooked things I shouldn't have in his case and it turned and bit me...so I have to heed my own warnings next time around.