The non-emotion I feel is how I am with people that I have no feelings for or want them in my life again. I know this well because that is how I felt with my real father and anyone that I feel doesn't add anything to my life. It's not a hate or anything with emotions, it's just blank.
@ Jenlove, I've done all the analysing of the how, what, why, and when and put it all into perspective and my life is full on atm which is why I haven't felt the need to find someone plus neither of the 2 guys around atm are doing anything more than just being friends.
Yes, well sleeping with someone just because makes me feel used. The Cap is still there ^^^ and hasn't been too forceful but moreso constant, my thing is I don't want a FWB either and that's where I would put him.
My expectations are not high but I know what I want and I haven't felt or seen it in a while, I want those butterflies. Only one guy has ever had me all tongue tied and twisted and if I could turn back time I would do things differently!
I think some people here know that my relationship ended well over 6 months ago. I haven't slept with anyone in this time because I haven't found anyone that makes me feel like I want to.
Yesterday I bumped into my ex walking hand in hand with his new gf, it startled me because it was so far from home and quite bazaar that we were in the same place at the same time. Certainly fate, I just walked on by without reaction... apart from the initial shock of realising who I was walking towards I didn't really feel anything emotionally about it. He's going through gf's fairly fast as I knew he would.
It does pose the question in my mind that even though I don't feel anything for this guy anymore, have I moved on because I haven't physically? Do we need to open ourselves up again to be completely over someone?
Today, I walked straight past my ex holding his new girls hand, chance meeting showing how small the world really is. It startled me for a moment, I won't lie but also drives home some truths. I wish I was in a place in my life where it didn't effect me but it does feel like you were "somebody that I use to know"
And Happy Birthday sweethearts! I apologize for the tardiness. You're one of the best Libras out.
Naawwww thanks Tiz, Happy belated to you too, hope it went well.
Soooo rapped up in my own world atm, everything going really well with my Opening and gaining lots of new members Near 400 already. So, much to get my head around with all the learning but very fulfilling
And Happy Birthday to all the Beautiful Libras, enjoy
Crushing on this guy atm...haven't done or felt like this in years. Physically attracted and interested in someone and everything they say and the feelings you get and not being able to stop yourself smiling when you are talking to them. Makes you feel good, pity it will never be but a sure feels good for those few moments.
Youre not assertive enough, if you want something you take it. Nice guys like you Sit back and wait for a nice girl to come along. Practice some of what you learn in school..you are a practicing lawyer arent you or training to be one?
It's a failure, whether it is a job, a business or a relationship. The process is you have to look at your involvement in the breakdown and learn or work on your own shortcomings as you were a part of the equation. If you never look at any of the reasons why, and feel you weren't a part of the failure then you are way above yourself!
I don't think it is solely about beating yourself up, rather, excepting that we have faults and we can learn for the future and with the next venture.