Posted by krysrenee7

Posted by sweethearts
On top of it all, I am who I am and if the man can't except that then they aren't worthy of keeping.

I don't believe in changing to suit them, as they wouldn't need to change to suit me!

Well there is such a thing as EFFECTIVE communication

And in a man's defense, yes expect to be single forever if you never learn how to communicate effectively

You can't really argue with or justify things when what you're doing or how you're doing things isn't working.

Men, just like women, have a right to expect someone who can communicate effectively. Nothing wrong with that. The only people who disagree are usually very argumentative, never satisfied, hold grudges, aren't good listeners, etc....in other words, those kinds of women are-----> SINGLE! As they should be

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Didn't have any problems in those 3 areas you pointed out with my last bf and it still didn't work so none of this was true.

After the honeymoon period...is the guy actually worth keeping? They slacken off themselves and are no longer the prize they once were.

They certainly have to give out so that we can give back in the kitchen and the bedroom and have you ever thought what a woman will be nagging at?? Mmmm I can think of a lot of examples and most of it is standard stuff that they probably should be doing without being asked begged or nagged at to do it!!

On top of it all, I am who I am and if the man can't except that then they aren't worthy of keeping.

I don't believe in changing to suit them, as they wouldn't need to change to suit me!

The Shut the F up?? So what you can't have an opinion if you want to keep your man? Not in my book, probably why I'm single but my opinions count!

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She will put on that front in company and only really breakdown when she is alone or with very close friends/family. All you can do is be there with her and if she needs a cuddle or to talk then be there. She will be processing every little thought in her mind and won't come out of that for some time.

There really is nothing you can do to speed up this process...lots people being around all the time will only prolong it unfortunately.

Posted by feby16aqua
With the same guy, we were in bed and I told him "I love you" he responded "I know"

fucker.

I said that once...because I didn't feel it back...some fall sooner than others I guess!

Why did I think you were gay Feb?

No idea cheeky....Been mistaken for many a nationality, I do have Irish, Scottish descent , but doesn't everyone?

D, is that you in the pic?

Can't wait to hear how this pans out

I meant, he's not chasing from what I can see, just being friendly

I understand this perfectly. There's a risk factor involved and the fact that your first union didn't work only adds to the insecurity. First marriage, you think forever and when forever is shorter than you think and you are left with the aftermath of splitting everything and how it can get nasty, you certainly remember and consider all these things before jumping back into the frying pan!

Any asset or finance from that first marriage, is thought to keep you living on the life style you got accompanied to and possible to help the children on their feet from that union...complicating this with a 3rd party and possible extras who could take a hand in it within a few short years is definitely not to be taken lightly..

Some go right in blindly, I am one of those friends that will always look out for me and my own first and foremost and if the sacrifice is no second marriage then so be it! It doesn't mean you can't love again.

Think I read into this wrong..looking back through the pm's he initiated the first one and contact but I initiated the other 3 conversations...he just likes half the things I put up on Fb...status or links...

Discipline starts at home. You are ignoring the fact and like a lot of parents today making excuses for your children's bad behaviour. When he's older and stronger it'll be you he's yelling at to get his point across...this I have seen with so many teens and even younger children today and parents just give in to their demands for peace. No need for medication, try upping your discipline methods and teaching him how to act, not act out.

Lol

No...where did you get that from??? Think you've been hanging around some of the other DXPer's too much!

So you choose to lower any standards you have because others have none? Interesting..

Also, those woman will get their own just deserve, he will eventually do the very same to them when he is bored.

Posted by kalin
i don't know if there's any taboo in relationships anymore, nowadays people just go after what they want.

The question is your personal opinion.

Posted by feby16aqua

Posted by sweethearts


He comes off as patient and mild tempered but also not a chaser even though he was the first to initiate contact. He pm'd me late Saturday night ending with a question and I didn't answer until Tuesday, then he continued with conversation. So he's quite laid back.

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Yay! Damn, how do I find out without stalking his FB. Doesn't feel right, want him to tell me

- Patience: Taurus > Aries
- Speed of Temper vs Size of Temper: Taurus takes much longer time to forgive than Aries ... note that Taurus can be really stubborn.
- Chaser vs being chased

Depending on his chart, he may be somewhere in the middle (especially if he has both Aries and Taurus in his chart, like mine). But this is what I would look for.

He comes off as patient and mild tempered but also not a chaser even though he was the first to initiate contact. He pm'd me late Saturday night ending with a question and I didn't answer until Tuesday, then he continued with conversation. So he's quite laid back.