Posted by Cappiegvery true, it's like a gift and a curse.
I agree 100% , I am quite guarded with my feelings to start with but once the person entered my heart it is forever. I guess the good things is that we are fiercely loyal and our emotions can withheld test of time, distance etc however in the same time it is our weakness as we find it nearly impossible to walk away from someone we love, we would keep trying to work things out/fix it more then any other sign even if maybe it would have been wiser to let go. Still I think it is a great trait.
Posted by drxpxfJupiteryep. its like who the treetrunk did i fall for and how could i believe them, it makes you feel like a complete fool. i start doubting and blaming myself all over again. trust goes out the window, i have a hard enough time letting my guard down to begin with. i trusted that this person wouldnt do this and they do the exact same thing. i dont think she even knows who she is herself.
and I think the only way to bounce back is to exercise a certain self confidence and skillset until you start feeling like you can trust life again.
Posted by Vixen2i'd think it's the opposite. lavish expensive wedding where everyone attends only to get divorced a couple years later. at least that's what i see.
You'll need that money you saved for the divorce you'll be getting 5 years later...
Posted by drxpxfJupitera big booty hoe wouldn't be bad if you could send me onePosted by MetaphysicalAll i want afor my birthday is a big booty ***. jokes..
i just want to be left alone, i dont even want a dinner or anything for my upcoming. actually on second thought there is something i want ....an apology from someone i will never get. i would never forgive them but i would make peace with my heart and forgive.
secretly i would love for someone who genuinely loved me/cared about me to make a huge fuss about my birthday. i dont have that though.
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Posted by drxpxfJupiterit seems to be that way. it screams to me of cowardly, i suspected something too.Posted by RumiLoveI think so...it is because that person doesn't even know themselves so they don't want to face who they are.Posted by MetaphysicalSuch people lack sincerity. It reflects deeply on that person's sincerity towards himself, that's why they hide, put a facade on, or run away. Because when you are being real, it warrants the same from another person...after all how long can they hide?
when someone runs and hides instead of facing you, what would you think? would you think they had something to hide all along?
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Posted by Heartthis is true for me, im a cap sun/moon, the volcano....there has been someone aware of it and i dont think they like it. we hold so much in, eventually it erupts.
We're volcanic. The volcano is not dormant- just reserved. I do feel bad for the person who does come across a goat moon tempter tantrum. I rarely reach my limit, but when I do, make room. And when I love I want the best for them, which means you always have an ally- unless you run a red light.
Posted by M00Nchild
There's truth in both statements that people need companionship and that we need to be okay on our own. I choose to be a loner, but I'm also lonely. I choose to be single because every time I have cared for someone, I got hurt, and it just isn't worth it to me anymore to keep trying. I'd rather be alone than get my heart broken again, but I'll admit just this once that as Kodak said, there is a void in my life.\
says the cheater. or do you cheat because you want to punish people for someone in the past hurting you? either way you are a coward. cheating is the worst thing you can possibly do to a person and the ultimate act of betrayal. i would say its better to shoot someone than commit adultery because that pain goes away quickly when you die, whereas the pain from someone cheating on you is always there.
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