It's fine. I will just carry on. I'll be ok. I want him to train me as its boxing not just normal training
I agree. What's the best thing for me to do. He didn't ask to see me again but he is my personal trainer so he knows he will have a session with me at the weekend
I guess my past. I am underestimating my love worthiness it's my curse and I don't know how to stop it. He text me to say thanks for a lovely evening and had a great chat but yet I still think he probably doesn't like me. And I find it impossible to wait and see so I obsess. If you can help Id be really grateful I cannot do this anymore it's so unhealthy x
I can't ask him. It's too awkward for me.
I can't ask him. It's too awkward for me.
But does he like me? For me im guessing maybe he doesn't
I don't really understand what you are saying p angel. Are you saying that because I like someone I shouldn't be thinking does he like me? But that's the point I want them to like me back and I look to see if they do. I'm quite insecure and I cannot see if they do like me. I get obsessed about trying to see if they do. What is the way I should be looking at things. Cos I feel as though I am losing my mind. With it never working out and now I look to see if it's likely not to work out xx
Yeah I also obsess over whether it's turning into a relationship etc. I don't know how to stop or to think differently. Do u have any experience
I'm nearly 37 im single every guy I meet seems to be the wrong guy. I look around and everyone has met someone and got married had children. I try my hardest not to think about it so much but it really does dominate my life and if I meet someone I don't know how to stop worrying what this and that means. Does he like me. Xx

He came round Friday night for pizza. We had a really good conversation and he got very flirty towards the end. I dropped him home. He was being playful and flirty in the car on the way. He text me when he got home saying thank you for a lovely evening. Such great conversation. I was being cheeky and flirty re your dress I replied saying it was a lovely evening and really enjoyed he conversation. He was cheeky for the last half an hour was fun and funny. He replied with three winks. I text him this morning to wish him a happy Easter. He replied happy easter you monkey. I sent back a laughing emoji. If you have any advice or comments Id be grateful thanks xx
Yeah. He asked whether I liked wine cos he was gonna get me one. I said not to worry as I was fussy with the wine x
I dunno if monkey is a sign of attraction would you say it was or are you saying it isn't? He doesn't drive no I invited him around and invited him for pizza I paid x
He came round Friday night for pizza. We had a really good conversation and he got very flirty towards the end. I dropped him home. He was being playful and flirty in the car on the way. He text me when he got home saying thank you for a lovely evening. Such great conversation. I was being cheeky and flirty re your dress I replied saying it was a lovely evening and really enjoyed he conversation. He was cheeky for the last half an hour was fun and funny. He replied with three winks. I text him this morning to wish him a happy Easter. He replied happy easter you monkey. I sent back a laughing emoji. If you have any advice or comments Id be grateful thanks xx
He needs to lose weight for his fight and maybe he hasn't got the time he trains two hours in the morning then three in the evening. i think the session was on his mind. And he said twice he really enjoyed it. The conversation thing might be my doing I once blanked him when he came over to say hi. I was shy. I then made a point of saying hello to him after but it didn't change anything as I was leaving he faced the other way. I text him to apologise and said I didn't realise it was him I was in the middle of my training. He laughed said it was ok. But has now always not come over to me in training. Once I was on my own in the gym and he was behind me working out and didn't say a thing. Then the next day he text me asked me how my session was.
But he's already said he's definetly up for pizza after his fight which is a few weeks I can't really do much else. I'm seeing him for our training g together Saturday. I need to practice patience if I'm honest and learn to let things u fold im terrible at that. And not read too much into everything. Positive he said definetly anytime after his fight for pizza round mine. Negative he hasn't text in a couple of days. And didn't say much at the gym as usual lol. I need to learn to say to myself so why do I jump on the negative straight away. Becuase of my insecurities and I need to really work on them. And think it's fine infact it's better than fine he's now coming for dinner. I can't immediately think straight after he isn't interested that is an insecurity on my part. If I push them I securities onto him he'll be gone everything is cool yes? That's how it needs to be doesnt it. Not living in turmoil and chasing due to my insecurities only.
do I message him or leave it till our training session on Saturday ?
Thanks he brought up the pizza saying send some over. I'll replied Saying he can come over sometime. He has always been a bit like that with me in the gym. He once didn't say anything and kinda stared at mewhilst I was working out. The next day he text me. He wasn't avoiding me he was beside me in the workouts but again didn't speak. I know from experience that pisces pull that move back thing. So if I get used to it now and can handle it will help in the long run. Xx
When pisces are getting to know someone do they swim away. I said to him he'll have to come over for pizza one day he said definetly anytime after my fights. I replied cool we'll sort something after your fight This was saturday not heard anything. I saw him in our boxing class said hi he acknowledged me then didn't start up any conversation but each time I turned around he was beside me working out. Is all this ok?
Surely me saying he can come round for Pizza lets him know I like him. I wasn't wxpecting him to fall over himself but maybe a bit of conversation after saying definetly after my fights tho It may be that he doesn't know how I will react. Once when we were texting he came over to say hi put his arms round my shoulders. I kind of blanked him as I didn't expect him to do that and felt self conscious so I kind of blanked him. He seemed to go into a mood about it and totally avoided me. That's when I thought he looked as if it had bothered him. When I got home I text to say I was sorry and that I didn't realise it was him he laughed and said it was ok. But maybe that's always in the back of his mind I dunno. But I thought we got past that having a great time training together and then texting saying for him to come round mine for pizza. I obviously don't want to chase him so I guess I have to leave it now to him