Posted by LethalFantasia
This post..... The Mean Girls references....
I LOVE YOU
P.S - I'm a Gemini and I would feel extremely devastated and crushed and pretty much very upset for atleast 2-3 months and even THEN it would be in the back of my mind if I had a bae and he said we need space
Posted by WaterDevilPosted by MissKrabs
Didn't you have a great date with her?
Amazing! just because Im super in to her doesnt mean i dont need space. I adore her! and I wanted to let her know I need space because i adore her. Because I see potential, and so i need to reveal early on before feelings get too deep that im the type who needs lots of healthy space. We have been talking everydya since our date, and I know if i would have kept it going without saying anything I would have started to feel suffocated and annoyed. And so preventative measures feel me? I was already feeling I didnt want to text her anymore, so i realized it was a good time to bring up the topic. Because I sometimes will stop looking at my phone for 2 days while i re charge, and with no warning. And so I wanted to communicate that with her so that she wouldnt feel insecure like I ghosted her or something. Secure that when that happens Ill come back. And assuring her that I want her to be there when I do come back. As I would be for her if she needed space.click to expand
Posted by neves
Dating is different in Europe. In a way it's like the American version in reverse. I mean... if you happen to fancy some girl you met somewhere (wherever that may be) - and she gives you reasons to believe that she feels the same - that she enjoys your company (also, shares her FB or her telephone nr. with you) - the next step "is more like a hangout". As in... you go to some bar for a few drinks, you go to a movie, you walk like lovers do and have some fast-food along the way, BUT... the girls don't have this expectation for you to pay for everything. They always bring money with them to pay for their consumption. OFC some guys offer to pay for everything and some woman accept that - while others don't. Sex on the other hand - is more like a surprise... it can happen after the first hangout or maybe some other time. But no, paying for the consumption doesn't come with expectations for sex. Even on a guys night out - sometime one of the guys pays for the drinks and "there's definitely no expectation for a BJ from the other guys". It's simply a nice gesture (and act of generosity - a way to show some appreciation for a great night in good company). Anyway, more often than not - the American version of dating takes places after the two are already in a relationship. At that point the girls are usually ok with their man paying for the whole consumption. I guess in Europe it's usually easier to get in a relationship. Or at least faster - cause that's when/how they get to know each-other. It's not something that happens on the first meetings (as Americans seem to do on first days - "like an interview").