Posted by -elle-
drop the flowers.

I would be annoyed if I had to carry them all night.

lol


I was going to hide them and give them to her at the very end of the night. I already thought of that. I'll probably wait on the flowers though.
Posted by MagicMona
dont tell her. just go and show. we like surprises. just as long as it's none of those 'you turn out to be a serial killer' kind of surprises. go for it.


Awesome thanks so much!
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Umm after a fight? You might have hurt their feelings. This basically rips rugs out from under us so we start thinking about it from all views. Is it really me? Is it them? Can I live with changing this something about myself to please them? Work , sleep a lot if you've depressed us. Push all our feelings on our friends asking what they think. Once we feel collected , hi what's up?


GIIIRLLL! What a help!

My cap once told me, after a BIG argument that he doesn't talk to ppl about his business but if he did, they'd say I was wrong..

Few weeks later..

We're hanging out at a bar, me and his cousin (best friend) are on the sideline chatting and I'm like "Your cousin was mad at me for a bit and ignoring me.. His friend says "I know, he told me everything.. you were wrong" LOL! I glance at my cap with a smirk.. Then in my mind I'm thinking: this mutha-effer said he doesn't tell his biz blah blah blah.. LOL! But anyway, your "bolded" point must be true because he took his issues to his bud vs coming to me and laying it all on me.. & when he did come out of his hiding, it was if we NEVER argued. O_O

weirdos. lls!


We only tell it to our best friends . We don't blast our business to everyone all over social media or anything like that. We think it's tacky.


I understand..

Attention seekers do that. Not my cup 'a tea.. -__-

Exactly. We also hate rehashing old arguments (at least I do) . We like our relationships to be good. Dwelling on negatives is draining. Fix it and move on. Because when we forgive someone it's forgiven. We kind of expect the same.


Thanks for this, good to know!!

My cap doesn't like to argue at all.. He rather avoid them.. Which is why he goes silent during issues after he's said his part and when he comes back, he's moved on from the matter ALL together..

That's us, and so glad I could help! Feel free to pm me or ask me anything on here if you ever need more clarity or info to work with. Good luck with your guy!


I appreciate that! And I will! ☺️ Thanks so much, I need the luck!
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Anytime! Just your friendly neighborhood spiderman.
Okay dating this Scorpio girl. Do you like surprises or not? She knows we are going to dinner. I picked this really nice kind of pricey Italian place (because she loves pasta) . Anyways should I tell her where we are going or surprise her with it? I'm also taking her to the river walk to listen to some music and for it's nice view. I was also thinking of getting her flowers. So yes or no. And go!
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Umm after a fight? You might have hurt their feelings. This basically rips rugs out from under us so we start thinking about it from all views. Is it really me? Is it them? Can I live with changing this something about myself to please them? Work , sleep a lot if you've depressed us. Push all our feelings on our friends asking what they think. Once we feel collected , hi what's up?


GIIIRLLL! What a help!

My cap once told me, after a BIG argument that he doesn't talk to ppl about his business but if he did, they'd say I was wrong..

Few weeks later..

We're hanging out at a bar, me and his cousin (best friend) are on the sideline chatting and I'm like "Your cousin was mad at me for a bit and ignoring me.. His friend says "I know, he told me everything.. you were wrong" LOL! I glance at my cap with a smirk.. Then in my mind I'm thinking: this mutha-effer said he doesn't tell his biz blah blah blah.. LOL! But anyway, your "bolded" point must be true because he took his issues to his bud vs coming to me and laying it all on me.. & when he did come out of his hiding, it was if we NEVER argued. O_O

weirdos. lls!


We only tell it to our best friends . We don't blast our business to everyone all over social media or anything like that. We think it's tacky.


I understand..

Attention seekers do that. Not my cup 'a tea.. -__-

Exactly. We also hate rehashing old arguments (at least I do) . We like our relationships to be good. Dwelling on negatives is draining. Fix it and move on. Because when we forgive someone it's forgiven. We kind of expect the same.


Thanks for this, good to know!!

My cap doesn't like to argue at all.. He rather avoid them.. Which is why he goes silent during issues after he's said his part and when he comes back, he's moved on from the matter ALL together..
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That's us, and so glad I could help! Feel free to pm me or ask me anything on here if you ever need more clarity or info to work with. Good luck with your guy!
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Umm after a fight? You might have hurt their feelings. This basically rips rugs out from under us so we start thinking about it from all views. Is it really me? Is it them? Can I live with changing this something about myself to please them? Work , sleep a lot if you've depressed us. Push all our feelings on our friends asking what they think. Once we feel collected , hi what's up?


GIIIRLLL! What a help!

My cap once told me, after a BIG argument that he doesn't talk to ppl about his business but if he did, they'd say I was wrong..

Few weeks later..

We're hanging out at a bar, me and his cousin (best friend) are on the sideline chatting and I'm like "Your cousin was mad at me for a bit and ignoring me.. His friend says "I know, he told me everything.. you were wrong" LOL! I glance at my cap with a smirk.. Then in my mind I'm thinking: this mutha-effer said he doesn't tell his biz blah blah blah.. LOL! But anyway, your "bolded" point must be true because he took his issues to his bud vs coming to me and laying it all on me.. & when he did come out of his hiding, it was if we NEVER argued. O_O

weirdos. lls!


We only tell it to our best friends . We don't blast our business to everyone all over social media or anything like that. We think it's tacky.


I understand..

Attention seekers do that. Not my cup 'a tea.. -__-
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Exactly. We also hate rehashing old arguments (at least I do) . We like our relationships to be good. Dwelling on negatives is draining. Fix it and move on. Because when we forgive someone it's forgiven. We kind of expect the same.
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Umm after a fight? You might have hurt their feelings. This basically rips rugs out from under us so we start thinking about it from all views. Is it really me? Is it them? Can I live with changing this something about myself to please them? Work , sleep a lot if you've depressed us. Push all our feelings on our friends asking what they think. Once we feel collected , hi what's up?


GIIIRLLL! What a help!

My cap once told me, after a BIG argument that he doesn't talk to ppl about his business but if he did, they'd say I was wrong..

Few weeks later..

We're hanging out at a bar, me and his cousin (best friend) are on the sideline chatting and I'm like "Your cousin was mad at me for a bit and ignoring me.. His friend says "I know, he told me everything.. you were wrong" LOL! I glance at my cap with a smirk.. Then in my mind I'm thinking: this mutha-effer said he doesn't tell his biz blah blah blah.. LOL! But anyway, your "bolded" point must be true because he took his issues to his bud vs coming to me and laying it all on me.. & when he did come out of his hiding, it was if we NEVER argued. O_O

weirdos. lls!
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We only tell it to our best friends . We don't blast our business to everyone all over social media or anything like that. We think it's tacky.
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I'm not a scorpio. I'm cap. I've had my fair share of encounters with them though. I'm currently seeing one now that's a Scorpio sun, and aqua moon. Talk about silence sometimes. though she always comes back around. The most important thing I can tell you is don't try pushing them into anything. You have to let them choose you. Give them their space and don't freak out when they do it. It's okay to tell them you like them. They might not respond to it right away but they definitely warm up to you. Especially if you're persistent and handle how they are with Grace and understanding. They like challenges but more like challenges for dominance. They don't like being completely dominated though in general. Talk like you're happy to speak to them. For God's sake don't criticize Scorpios. It will push them further away. I mean even if they are getting on your last nerve , I repeat remain calm until you can speak to each other without blowing up with emotion or anger. If you start getting completely iced out then I just suggest moving on. If they keep talking to you it's a good sign. That's all I got for this subject. Be patient with them, and let him feel in control.


That sounds like walking on eggshells. Why should you make anyone feel like they are in control of situations .... The only thing we are in control of is ourselves....not others

Scorpios can be too controlling so how are we going to learn not to be when others don't assert themselves with us?



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Personal opinion if you can't be relaxed or be yourself when dealing with someone you have an attraction to, then maybe they are just wrong for you. You should just be yourself, if it works it works, if not then I mean there is a world full of other options. I was just giving some insight to smooth some edges if she really wants it to work. Like it or don't like it is neither here nor there but that's the answer. Idk what else to tell you sweetheart. All the stuff I mentioned comes naturally to me. Some people have to work at it. I'm not spontaneous I'm boring and predictable. Fire signs adventure comes easy to they just go for it all without​ blinking. I stare for a few days , weeks, months and analyze stuff. Scorps are more laid back . Still bad asses but laid back.
Not a dude but I'm a lesbian. And no I wouldn't.
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Hahaha... you calling cancers alphas. OK


successful people are not emotional or aggressive

they dont need sex always


the world revolves around money get with the times emotional crab



You're just trolling. Are you my cap sun Pisces moon emotional treetruktard brother?


no honey



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Look at all that aqua. I have a feeling you have a pretty high IQ.
Generally no, if you hurt their feelings they become reserved , if you are overly emotional they can detach. Got into an argument they become cold. If you're very confrontational they become reserved. Many different reasons really.
Posted by CreepyPants
take that with a grain of salt, mojo... branh loves a good generalization, especially when slung at women, and even moreso at cap women.

though, like jack said, it does sound iffy. nothing like good direct confrontation about what's on your mind. if an answer is what you want, then straight up asking her is probably the only way you're gonna get it. good luck, mo


Yeah just ask, beating around the bush or acting weird will just annoy us. Be direct.
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I'm not a scorpio. I'm cap. I've had my fair share of encounters with them though. I'm currently seeing one now that's a Scorpio sun, and aqua moon. Talk about silence sometimes. though she always comes back around. The most important thing I can tell you is don't try pushing them into anything. You have to let them choose you. Give them their space and don't freak out when they do it. It's okay to tell them you like them. They might not respond to it right away but they definitely warm up to you. Especially if you're persistent and handle how they are with Grace and understanding. They like challenges but more like challenges for dominance. They don't like being completely dominated though in general. Talk like you're happy to speak to them. For God's sake don't criticize Scorpios. It will push them further away. I mean even if they are getting on your last nerve , I repeat remain calm until you can speak to each other without blowing up with emotion or anger. If you start getting completely iced out then I just suggest moving on. If they keep talking to you it's a good sign. That's all I got for this subject. Be patient with them, and let him feel in control.



Was my saying dont waste my time pressuring?
Because i didnt ask for anything infact I liked that we were taking things slow

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Yeah in a way it seems pressurized. Before you get into a relationship it's all about seeing if you connect well. When you say things like don't waste my time it seems forced then like it has to go somewhere. It should feel natural , like it falls into place. Scorpios manage things at their own pace. Try going with their flow, even if you're used to leading. Let them take the drivers seat. If you're patient and go with it instead of pressing pauses or thinking to much into it instead of just feeling it, then when he comes around you're in for a surprise. They are super affectionate and really good at expressing themselves and how much you mean to them(mostly). Just let him lead for now. Like I said don't freak out, just follow their pace.
Not that into you, keep walking. I think he just wanted sex. I don't mean to be harsh but yeah. We usually say what we mean and mean what we say. If I was acting like he is, it's just because I was attracted to them, but want no emotional entanglements.
Umm after a fight? You might have hurt their feelings. This basically rips rugs out from under us so we start thinking about it from all views. Is it really me? Is it them? Can I live with changing this something about myself to please them? Work , sleep a lot if you've depressed us. Push all our feelings on our friends asking what they think. Once we feel collected , hi what's up?
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I'd like to know the answer also!

I'd assume they are working.. (but of course)

& possibly thinking about the person they are silencing.. I mean why else would they come back!?!!

I hear they get cold feet when they are falling hard..'

BUT anyways,

What do I know..? I'm just a mere Scorpio, loving my cap man & his ways...

Definitely get cold feet when falling hard. Makes us twitchy. We don't know what to do with it, because it just kind of hits us and we're like treetrunk. Makes us weird because then we acknowledge we are vulnerable. Very frightening. If you can make it through the weird stage though of the on off silence and stick it out, we'll warm up and boom passion.
What they said, scorps and caps get all distant when their careers and stuff aren't going good. It makes us really weird. It's like a panic mode that shifts us into freak out internally, come up with game plan , freak out, start acting on game plan to fix it. We like to analyze and attack our hurdles . It gives us tunnel vision though. I promise it wasn't you. Just be there for him, and try your best not to give up, and just be there. Be supportive. Don't criticize it only makes us feel worse. There's nothing more bothersome than when a Scorpio or a cap doesn't feel in control. It really throws us off.
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I have a Libra moon, and I'm a monogamous kind of person. I don't think there is anything wrong with open relationships , they just aren't for me.


I would agree that most libras are not good with open relationships


I do know a bisexual libra. She's into open relationships as long as her bf is okay with her having a Gf. She's mono right now.


Thank you for sharing I'm sure there's s hand full of libras open to this as long as it's equal.
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Very much so. All about equality and fairness.
I'm not a scorpio. I'm cap. I've had my fair share of encounters with them though. I'm currently seeing one now that's a Scorpio sun, and aqua moon. Talk about silence sometimes. though she always comes back around. The most important thing I can tell you is don't try pushing them into anything. You have to let them choose you. Give them their space and don't freak out when they do it. It's okay to tell them you like them. They might not respond to it right away but they definitely warm up to you. Especially if you're persistent and handle how they are with Grace and understanding. They like challenges but more like challenges for dominance. They don't like being completely dominated though in general. Talk like you're happy to speak to them. For God's sake don't criticize Scorpios. It will push them further away. I mean even if they are getting on your last nerve , I repeat remain calm until you can speak to each other without blowing up with emotion or anger. If you start getting completely iced out then I just suggest moving on. If they keep talking to you it's a good sign. That's all I got for this subject. Be patient with them, and let him feel in control.
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I have a Libra moon, and I'm a monogamous kind of person. I don't think there is anything wrong with open relationships , they just aren't for me.


I would agree that most libras are not good with open relationships
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I do know a bisexual libra. She's into open relationships as long as her bf is okay with her having a Gf. She's mono right now.