As much as I would like to make this a long story short it's hard..... it will be a month since me and my Leo broke up.... I said some hurtful things to him during an argument and kicked him out the house and told him i was done , it was all out of anger smh.... I regret it..... he put up a fight BUT I wasn't trying to hear it because I was so upset.... we texted that whole day and night and even the next days ..... I'm a SCORPIO by the way.... I wanted him to come back home but he way already at his mother's house so he said he will come talk to me Monday (we broke up on a saturday) .... I didn't want to wait ...i just wanted him back home that day smh... i was miserable because honestly we had a great relationship, we truly loved eachother...he was even paying on an engagement ring which was supposed to be a secret but he accidently told me. And I saw the proof so I know it was real. Anyway as days went by all I did was beg and beg and beg this man but all he kept asking me was to give him some time..not a lot but time to think....that he was still in love with me and didn't say he was goin anywhere he just needed time. ..I didn't allow that because of fear I would lose him so I begged for 2 long weeks ...i made the mistake of involving family members all because I needed advice and he didn't like that smh....he always revealed that i hurt his pride and made him feel less of a man..... that he is hurt...i admit I was wrong but I wanted my baby BACK home...and inwas willing tonda whatever because we had more ups then downs.. he barely called me but he dry texted me, giving me small talk...he did tell me he hasn't been the same without me and that it was hard..... then 2 days went by without a text.........this past sunday I told him i didn't want to wait anymore and i was goin to stay out the way ...i have completely drained myself ....crying EVERYDAY just not being myself and to enjoy his freedom I can no longer wait around..... he didn't respond until Tuesday he told me he needed to stop holding a grudge toward me and then asked how my day was..... iam so confused ....idk what he wants ..he never told me he was done or anything...and still can't tell me an answer.. so yesterday I texted him to ask him to to put his pride down and forgive me so we can have peace i also asked him AGAIN if he was done with the relationship because i needed to know he said why can't we just have a normal conversation and let things FLOW instead of asking about the relationship everyday and that he hates talking about it..... but as a SCORPIO I like DIRECT information ... I feel it's either we are goin to be together and fix it or go our separate ways smh..... anyway we actually texted through the whole day surprisingly and he called but that was it....today I didn't hear from him and I didn't call or text either....... I just don't know ...... all I know is I love him but don't know how long more I should be waiting....its almost a month smh
What was the argument about? Must of been a very serious argument if you got mad enough to kick him out.... for the most part i feel like Leo’s pick their battles pretty carefully. I love scorpios and their intense nature so i think you should give him time. Apologize if you haven’t and don’t just say sorry SHOW him your sorry by changing your ways. You can’t kick him out because of an argument if you’re trying to make the relationship work. Work on your anger or i think the Leo will leave you for good. Also since he’s living somewhere else now he might get used to it, that was not a good move at all.
Posted by hellosaggy She had the nerve to tell me that this is the most adult relationship she’s been in... I cook, clean, pay bills, don’t cheat(well not yet 🤷🏾♂️), sex is good (from her perspective 🤷🏾♂️), we get along great... but yet, she’s lazy as hell and not giving me the attention I need physically and I have to ask her to do things around the house. Like she’s my child. She said she’s so used to doing everything it’s nice to be basically taken care of.
Side note ladies. Just because you give it to us, doesn’t mean that’s what we want. I asked her for some mouth hugs the other night and she goes, can we just have sex? I just gave you one last week. The actual hell is that?!?
I might be wrong but isn't that the Aqua lady that most likely had some rape or sexual abuse experience?
Yea. She said it doesn’t effect her with me because she loves me and wants to please me, especially now.
I think it does affect her because she’s gotten less active over the time and sex is too personal.
She told me last night she’s probably be more involved if we didn’t live together. Right now due to living together we are kind of stuck together and she’s probably too comfortable.
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Yea you guys are basically together already, living together, having sex, going out. Sounds like a relationship to me lol just without the title ...
Posted by hellosaggy Nope. Because I’m all about consistency and the only thing consistent is she’s inconsistent. I’m the last person that should be nagging anyone to do something. But I really realize that’s what I’m doing. I might take her aloofness the wrong way; but she seems very selfish.
Well damn lol I don’t think it’s like that though i think she just wanted to take it slow and see what happens. Seems pretty natural to me. If you don’t like the inconsistency then voice it and see if you can work it out.