Posted by sultrykitty
You're older, he's older. The issue of practicality and commonality IMO, is much more important in mature relationships.
You've both experienced the drama, passion, and lust so now it's time to build a contented life with somwone stable.
I agree with you there and can't comment about this *particular* relationship but for me it would still be too soon to know whether what I said above is what's happening with you.
I hooe so, and yes--id you respect and like someone love *can* come later. Happens a lot in arranged marriages so I'm not going to knock that idea down.
Posted by LadyOfRebirth
I get the not wanting to wait. I'm also an Aries Venus. But it's a detriment Venus for a reason too.
I just hope he doesn't fall out of infatuation with you and gets bored.
Posted by KinglyCrab
I wish you well. Maybe even a little more so it isn't boring.
Posted by iCloud9
"not for love"...
i totally agree that marriage needs practical, intellectual, emotional and spiritual compatibilities to work. but imho love is the glue. real love gives the couple the strength and desire to fight through the ups and downs together and love/cuddle up at the end of the day.
Posted by MlleFisk
I'm going to withhold my opinions. Though i dont agree with some of the decisions youve made with your previous relationship, ultimately i do think you are a good person. And i hope that you either...
a) you think this a little more thoroughly
b) that if you do go through with it, that it works out.
Posted by Montgomery
TAURUS Mars v. Cancer Mars.
That coupled with the scary airy thing
you both have ought to be one hell of a show
on Venus opposite Pluto Night.
KEEP US POSTED.
Posted by MlleFisk
Good luck, bruh.
Posted by LuckyLibra979
Thank y'all for taking the time to read it. No, its not just for conjunctions but the sun in aspect to any planet in sun as try. I was gonna right about the sun-moon but it is pretty deep. Its simple, yet deep simply because what makes the moon person comfortable makes the sun person feel in charge. Its almost like there's a natural need for one to comfort and the other to guide. It's definitely a marriage aspect because it binds the need for emotional stability with the need to lead, guide, and support. So they balance each other out, like yen and yang.
Mercury, its a odd placement. You really like talking to that person and your communication with then either pulls them in or pisses them off. Somehow tho, the mercury person knows how to talk to the Sun person but the sun person may be a bit demanding on how and when the communication happens. For mercury, the sun person may be a bit dull or a bit too much but either way, the conversations happen so easily. Its like the mercury person knows what the sun person is thinking or speaks their language fluidly. I'm going to expand on this soon as I believe mercury is a hard fellow to tie down but he makes or breaks relationships too.
Thank y'all again for reading this. I want ppl to look at astrology loosely and more fundamentally. So many times we accept what astrologers tell us, and to me, that's like accepting another's belief without forming my own. I know Mars represents assertion mainly and that Pluto represents how the subconscious changes us but what if our descriptions differ? So @el_tigre if I was to do it, it would be in a way to teach and guide and instead of deny and misguide. All our souls yearn for different experiences, we find truth in different arenas and honestly I've been thinking of starting a blog website I just don't know how to start from scratch. There are no wrong answers in astrology, its like life, full of mysteries and possibilities but like life it takes application. I hope y'all learn from not to take astrology at face value, to find your own meaning in it. I put my opinions out there to share, I'm glad y'all e joyed it iced learned a lot from ppl on here and this is more likely than not going to become my background role on here
Again thank y'all, y'all taking the time to read is what motivates me to put more on here even if its just y'all 3, I'm cool with that cuz its genuine and pls feel free to offer your own interpretationz
Posted by ramengirlPosted by ElTigre25Posted by ramengirlPosted by ElTigre25Posted by ramengirlPosted by ElTigre25
I told this Pisces that she talked too much about things I wasn't interested in. I also mentioned that I just couldn't talk on the phone with her again because... No.
She poured out all her sensitivity to the criticism via text. I guess I was insensitive because I had already gotten the truth off my chest and didn't really care at that point.
I just am not the type to waste my time. It's harsh, but time is valuable.
Time is valuable but do you consider her time valuable as well?
Don't know about her time, but my time is valuable.
If so why engage her in conversations you consider uninteresting from the beginning? Sounds like you intentionally wasted your own time to prove a point from my end.
We had a total of 1 phone conversations. That was enough to tell.
Maybe it would have made more sense to end the conversation early instead of continuing out of false sincerity.click to expand
Posted by ElTigre25Posted by MsTeeq1974
Since you dropped her, I don't understand why you care about how she feels. You said that you're not going to talk to her anymore. She vented on how she felt about your statement...end of story.
Lol....so you criticize and drop someone, but you want them to love you for it. Where they do that AT??
You twisted the situation. Had she been ok with the criticism instead of whining everything would be fine, but no. Yes she should be thankful someone tells her something that was obviously never told to her.click to expand
Posted by tiziani
I don't know, I was thinking about it this morning actually. The most unforgettable chemistry so far has been with a Pisces woman. As I said before these are two signs that don't know how to say no. It wasn't about the physical sex in the end, it was the unusual level of openness and willingness from both sides to please one another with no taboo. And the fact I could establish that kind of connection with a woman was quite literally mind-altering. It changes my view of what is possible and not possible in the world.
BUT the sum total of that connection is that it ended. It's over.
So it's clearly not everything. And as I've mentioned before there is such a thing as being selfishly selfless. When you spend so much time pleasing a partner that they don't really know what you want or where you stand. I think there are merits to the opposite - a selflessly selfish lover that thinks of themselves first, that really go under-appreciated at times.
Openness frankly is just one side of the coin to intimacy in my experience.
Take the good with the good and the bad with the bad. Happy New Year.