Posted by Vixen2
It only looks easy. It actually takes me quite a bit of time before I emotionally cut ties and swim away. Usually it's an acumulation of hurtful things...feeling unloved, underappreciated, unadored, unheard, taken advantage of...yeah, you get the drift. And it's not so cut and run that we don't communicate needs or feelings...the other person just keeps doing it. And then one day, the finally nail gets hammered in mentally...and then it's just done.