Posted by N_leo
So ... i’ll cut the beginning short.. and say i knew this guy for like 6 months ... he was showering me with his love so intensely and i loved it ... but then suddenly he cooled of ... didnt stop but for example we used to go put almost everyday even if its just he drop me home from somewhere .. and then he suddenly didn’t ask me out for a week ... and like this..
So i sensed this change and i asked him whats wrong? He always replies nothing its just that i got comfortable with you .. things always get colder at any relationship but i do love u the exact same .. so then little things rised up ... and i was confused ... and i just feelt like something isnt normal bs he always reassure me that am just over thinking ... anyhow after a series of such thing i told him that i want us to stop talking until we solve all what’s happening cuz its not healthy ... he never listens and continued to act like nothing happend and forced me to accept it and when i didnt he asked for a break ... i gave him break but then i felt like its been over a month and i couldnt take it ... and sadly everytime I confront him or show him that i cant take it and i really need any thing to assure me things will get better not worse ! He says that he loves me and that he cant commit at the moment and he doesnt know how long will it takes ... i’ve stayed patient for another month but couldnt take it so tried to “ force” him to talk about it twice as he always refuse to ... but in both times things get steemy and go the wrong direction until i try my best to make him calm and talk reasonably after he already said ghe worst words mocking my feelings and calls me drama queen ...
Finally, 3 days ago he called and was too sweet but didnt say anything about what’s happening.. so i called again at night he refused to pick up at first then he did and he was like please dont discuss anything ! .. and i was like i just thought u called which means u decided finally ! Cuz last tome i told u we need to stay away untill u make up ur mind ! ... but he went too cruel and harsh with his words very hurtful and mocked my feelings so i told him he was being an marker and that he is too low so he hanged up the phone to my face ... just to call again half an hour to apologize but i didnt pick up so he texted me saying he is realllllly sorry and fhat he isnt like this and that i dont deserve this so i said:
“ thanks this was a wake up call ..... yes i dont deserve this, and am not the person who u r making me ... i’m at my worse and u made it even worse for me .. and before u mock me for acting like we have been long together and its inly 6,6 months ... truth is at least i took 5 months to love u deeply and do this .... while you went crazy wanting me aincr week 1 !! And went even crazier After I rejected you several times after ! Anyways i choose to rise above all this ... i always knew i deserved better but i chose you so amd thanks for reminding me ... i’ll leave now not because u wanted it because u have hurt me enough to leave... u abused every single feeljng i had for u which turned me into an ugly beast that gave u all the reasons not to want me of course ... so yes you win. I choose to leave am better than all of this”
So he replied: i’m sorry, i love you
I’m so sorry
Then half an hour later he texted me again saying am deeply sorry for real .. so i replied if its because u hang up the phone to my face np worries.
He replied: no i’m deeply sorry for everything i have done..
Posted by SagittariusInLove
Most guys bore me easily....
I guess I seek someone that can stimulate my mind
Any others sags feel that same
Posted by slowdive80
I have Moon and Mars in Sagittarius. And I've always been flexible when it comes
to being in a monogamous or non-monogamous relationship (meaning just sex with others, no relationships though).
Basically, I can do either one. Just curious if that is common with sag mooners or if I am the unicorn out of the bunch.
I've always been weirdly detached when it comes to sex. Emotional infidelity is something I cant do aka polyamory however.
Feel free to give feedback if you're the flexible type too or not when it comes to being a Sag mooner.
Posted by tizianiPosted by Mz_DPosted by tiziani
I would lay off, he's already told you no.
The funny thing is I ve tried the laying off part and leaving him alone and he would come right back or say that’s not what he wanted. I tried being the hard ass and treating him the way he treats me and he didn’t like that said I was hot and cold and he didn’t like when I did that.
(shrugs) I'd still lay off.
The way you're talking, you come off like you feel you're owed something or trying to get it to a certain place.
You're guilt tripping the dude too. "well you should have told me back then"
Just pointing this out because it's obviously not the way to get what you want, as long as you keep doing that I'm sure you'll be frustrated or attract the passive side out of anyone.
My 2 cents.click to expand
Posted by tiziani
I would lay off, he's already told you no.