Nemesis

Posted by 7thHouse

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Posted by 7thHouse

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Posted by Sailor_Mars

Posted by NemDeux

Posted by Sailor_Mars
photoshop yourself in a luxury room with a type of gorgeous men you like ( Viking, Model, Liam Hemsworth, K pop, ... ) and preferably some girls to spice it up and go wild on details like money, booze, drugs, food, exotic animals...whatever. Make it a good one...hell even hire someone professional to do it...and send it to him with a message: "Got stuck here as a series of unfortunate events. Thank You for remembering me in these difficult times. Hope You and your wife are doing well. Congratulations on the wedding❣️"

whaaat? why? way too much effort for not really giving a treetrunk .....

better than keying the car. I was trying to be funny but in reality that would hurt him the most 🙈

it´s still super petty. and also a criminal damage .....not worth it at the end of the day.
ladies, please .....you´re better than this.

One ex did this to me. Back then I was upset I ended up single for 2 years. Just crying all the time and felt hurt everytime I hear his name even if it wasn't him but rather someone with a similar name. I just worked on myself. Workout, better job, moved overseas, made money. Fast forward to 8 years later, I looked at his photo with his wife and he looked haggardAF. He was still in the same job meaning I ended up making more money than him and I realised I'm much more attractive than his wife and I have a more good looking husband with abs. It's a win for me. I didn't see it back then but I sure am seeing it now.

and if i remember correctly, you are also expecting atm? cute af! that is the icing on the cake of victory.
and i am glad you were able to move on the way you did.
i have my own POV regarding exes....i´ll elaborate briefly: they should never be the measure/yardstick of comparison regarding where one is today imo.

Yeah. Expecting 3rd baby now hahaha! I think ultimately, finding your own happiness is enough "gift" to yourself already. Although for me it wasn't really a comparison of where I am today but I cannot imagine I would be this happy if I ended up with him. I do think heartbreaks are blessings. Definitely a redirection to things that are meant for you. Losing someone doesn't mean you actually lost. It just means that's not for you.

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number 3 WOW! lol.
yes,100% to the rest.
also, hindsight is such a kind thing :33

Posted by 7thHouse

Posted by NemDeux

Posted by Sailor_Mars

Posted by NemDeux

Posted by Sailor_Mars
photoshop yourself in a luxury room with a type of gorgeous men you like ( Viking, Model, Liam Hemsworth, K pop, ... ) and preferably some girls to spice it up and go wild on details like money, booze, drugs, food, exotic animals...whatever. Make it a good one...hell even hire someone professional to do it...and send it to him with a message: "Got stuck here as a series of unfortunate events. Thank You for remembering me in these difficult times. Hope You and your wife are doing well. Congratulations on the wedding❣️"

whaaat? why? way too much effort for not really giving a treetrunk .....

better than keying the car. I was trying to be funny but in reality that would hurt him the most 🙈

it´s still super petty. and also a criminal damage .....not worth it at the end of the day.
ladies, please .....you´re better than this.

One ex did this to me. Back then I was upset I ended up single for 2 years. Just crying all the time and felt hurt everytime I hear his name even if it wasn't him but rather someone with a similar name. I just worked on myself. Workout, better job, moved overseas, made money. Fast forward to 8 years later, I looked at his photo with his wife and he looked haggardAF. He was still in the same job meaning I ended up making more money than him and I realised I'm much more attractive than his wife and I have a more good looking husband with abs. It's a win for me. I didn't see it back then but I sure am seeing it now.

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and if i remember correctly, you are also expecting atm? cute af! that is the icing on the cake of victory.
and i am glad you were able to move on the way you did.
i have my own POV regarding exes....i´ll elaborate briefly: they should never be the measure/yardstick of comparison regarding where one is today imo.

Posted by Sailor_Mars

Posted by NemDeux

Posted by Sailor_Mars
photoshop yourself in a luxury room with a type of gorgeous men you like ( Viking, Model, Liam Hemsworth, K pop, ... ) and preferably some girls to spice it up and go wild on details like money, booze, drugs, food, exotic animals...whatever. Make it a good one...hell even hire someone professional to do it...and send it to him with a message: "Got stuck here as a series of unfortunate events. Thank You for remembering me in these difficult times. Hope You and your wife are doing well. Congratulations on the wedding❣️"

whaaat? why? way too much effort for not really giving a treetrunk .....

better than keying the car. I was trying to be funny but in reality that would hurt him the most 🙈

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it´s still super petty. and also a criminal damage .....not worth it at the end of the day.
ladies, please .....you´re better than this.

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Posted by Chicadee
I'm with 40cal... and I'm not a vengeful person, but it suits.

In all seriousness, I wouldn't give him the justifcation of a response. Anything more than "ok" is too much.

You can be hurt, trust your guts.. but also look at it this way. You still have power over him. He's still, some part in some way, invested. Otherwise, why would he care? Why would he need to demonstrate or do anything to try and "one up" if he felt he was some kind of equal or worthwhile? You didn't feel any need to get validation from him for any of your successes, did you? Nope. He needs you to hurt for him.. think about that. Who has the power there?

See it for what it is. Good for you for dropping him when you did. Now it's his wife's problem. 💅🏻

Naah, I think the guy has already risen above dating and competition and playing games and Power plays... It looks like the guy is happily married and settled down and out of genuine maturity he got back to his ex or exes and is tightening the loose ends which is a great sign of maturity.
The girl seems hurt because she wasn't sure if she made the right decision or not at the time and is still not sure. Sign of immaturity.
Seems like the guy was very much interested in settling down in his life where as the girl was not. So overall it's all a nice thing which played out in both parties favor.
Now the one who shows the butt hurt for no valid reason will come out as a sore loser.
The girl should instead congratulate the guy with a big smile on her face, and appreciate his decision and wish him luck for his future endeavours, also keep the door open. Don't forget to show care adding pandemic angle to it.

#OwnYourDecisions

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digging your hashtag! yep.

Posted by freespirits
I just got a text from an ex bf: I just thought about you, hope you are doing well during this pandemic. I got married at the end of last year.

WTF,that totally ruined my peaceful guaranteed life. I already heard of the marriage and had suspected he had cheated on me, given we broke up in August and he got married in 3 months. But I sucked it up and got over it, we broke up after all, confronting him is pointless. Now he just texted me out of blue about this, I'm totally triggered, and being in lockdown alone makes it worse.

If it's just a well wish to me, I might have replied thank you. But why would he tell me about his relationship, and when he got married. That makes the message a bomb even he might have good intention. Am I just holding grudge or he is really an a-hole? Why I'm feeling so crappy?

Background: I felt not being treated well towards the end of our relationship, so I broke up with him. To avoid any drama, I downplayed my bitterness and said more good things to him. We agreed to be friends but I never got a sincere apology about all his bad behaviors, so I never contacted him afterward.

tap into your phone settings .....you know the shpiel......
ofc we don´t know the whole history, but you mentioned further down the line you remained "amicable" although you did not really mean or feel it ....and he took your word for it and just wanted to be clear that he is married and off limits in that regard. ofc as i mentioned, we don´t know the dynamics ....

Posted by Sailor_Mars
photoshop yourself in a luxury room with a type of gorgeous men you like ( Viking, Model, Liam Hemsworth, K pop, ... ) and preferably some girls to spice it up and go wild on details like money, booze, drugs, food, exotic animals...whatever. Make it a good one...hell even hire someone professional to do it...and send it to him with a message: "Got stuck here as a series of unfortunate events. Thank You for remembering me in these difficult times. Hope You and your wife are doing well. Congratulations on the wedding❣️"

whaaat? why? way too much effort for not really giving a treetrunk .....

Posted by Ramin
My memory of history is fuzzy but didn’t something similar lead to WW2.

Treaty of versailles .....

Anthony Hopkins is such a smooth cat

Then the question arises, which country receives which percentages of "reparations"? Is it going to flow into the state household or into individual peoples pockets?

There is simply no way it can work.

In the least it would have to be a class suit and it would be the first of it's kind ..the question is, who is going to initiate it? Which entity? The WHO? The EU?

Catastrophes of these dimensions have a legal name "force mayeure".

There are too many diplomatic ties and economic matters at stake. Besides that, how would you calculate an assessment basis? What would the accusatorial title be?
I don't think it would be realistic.
In the least, there could be embargos or sanctions until china gets their butter together regarding food industry hygiene.

Posted by Undine
Nope. They are doing their job, which was always essential, not just during pandemic times. Hopefully they use appropriate protection, and are properly trained....working without good protection or training does not make one a hero, but their employer, a villain!

Are those who "work from home", but choose to risk exposure while volunteering, seen as heroes? In my limited personal experience...not at all. I offered (among 750 others with qPCR experience) to help with testing for the virus, and still waiting to be called. The risk to catch it under these circumstances (under class III protection) is smaller than by going unprotected to a supermarket. Did my family appreciate my gesture? Errr...not. They did everything to put me off doing it, and called me an idiot for persisting

that is such a pisces thing ......lmao.