Nemesis
NemDeux
joined March 23, 2017
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Posted by macmiller
Why are you even telling us about this?
You are right. I am going to delete it.
Enough misery already. -
Posted by Victorious
Posted by NemDeux
Posted by HCollider2
Self harm is very common Bpd and it’s major diagnostic feature. I know a few lawyers who have this ongoing in their failed relationships.
That constant blaming bullbutter (identification projection)
Then the remorse part sashays in past the chronic lies and obvious self sabotage.
Sometimes within minutes that pendulum swings.
One text is
I’m sorry
Then not even 4 minutes will lapse and it’s that chronic IDentification projection bs.
Thing is nothing you say or do will satiate his desires to control and conquer you. That’s their supply and now that you’ve waved Satan goodbye and doing your own inside work he’s furious and will do AnyTHING to get a reaction.
He will even feign emotions he doesn’t have like love.
“Look how much I love you” *cuts himself smears blood*
I mean there’s just no fkn sense in these people they are too busy being hyper reactive.
No contact.
Just received a wattsapp.
N. I love you. Please come back.
Im done here. treetrunker.
I would share the pics... Could be triggering and in bad taste.
Nah, switch the phone off and go to sleep. By tomorrow you'll be feeling much better.click to expand
I have a goddamn Meeting at 8.30 Am.
I dont know how to fall asleep now.
But I have to calm my mind. -
Posted by Antiochus
Posted by NemDeux
Posted by Antiochus
Let happen what wants to happen.
Mir sind die Hände buchstäblich gebunden.
Ich weiß, aber genau das wird es immer sein. Es gibt da nichts zu erwzingen oder zu tun.
Er muss die Entscheidung für sich selbst treffen. Alles was du und andere tun können ist diese Entscheidung immer wieder hinauszuzögern.click to expand
Das ist doch ein krankes machtspiel.
Danke dir
Schrieb mir vorhin "n. Ich liebe dich. Komm bitte zurück".
Meine Aufgabe ist erfüllt. So ein Arschloch. -
Posted by HCollider2
Self harm is very common Bpd and it’s major diagnostic feature. I know a few lawyers who have this ongoing in their failed relationships.
That constant blaming bullbutter (identification projection)
Then the remorse part sashays in past the chronic lies and obvious self sabotage.
Sometimes within minutes that pendulum swings.
One text is
I’m sorry
Then not even 4 minutes will lapse and it’s that chronic IDentification projection bs.
Thing is nothing you say or do will satiate his desires to control and conquer you. That’s their supply and now that you’ve waved Satan goodbye and doing your own inside work he’s furious and will do AnyTHING to get a reaction.
He will even feign emotions he doesn’t have like love.
“Look how much I love you” *cuts himself smears blood*
I mean there’s just no fkn sense in these people they are too busy being hyper reactive.
No contact.
Just received a wattsapp.
N. I love you. Please come back.
Im done here. treetrunker.
I would share the pics... Could be triggering and in bad taste. -
Posted by MissKrabs
Not responding would be just fine.
But, if you live in the same country you could tell him fine lets talk when you get back. In the mean time report him to the police, show pics, mssgs. They will put him under observation, and either help him or explain him to leave you alone for good.
Homebase is Vienna. He is on holiday in asia. We dont have contact usually. Last time in june 2018 when he started his BS I called the police.... -
Posted by LadyNeptune
Shouda took my class on 'suicide 101'.
Pls Just shut the treetrunk up. For once. -
Posted by Mr_Pinchy
Posted by NemDeux
Posted by Mr_Pinchy
Posted by NemDeux
Posted by Mr_Pinchy
Don't get suicide blackmailed?
But it's obv a difficult proposition, if he does happen to do something to himself, i'm almost certain you would think that you could have done something to prevent it and why didn't you.....that all it possibly took was some attention over the phone
On the other hand, attention hoes and.leeches everywhere..
It's really a no win situation, pick the lesser worse option, whatever you think you can live with.
I contacted his best friend.
I don't feel obliged, it looks like he contacted me AFTER this all happened. Smh.
Getting struck by a revelation that your life amounted to nothing tangible while all alone in the middle of just like metown, Thailand. Probably left over pantyhose on the floor from the last visit and cheap booze in there somewhere too.
Hard lyfe tbh. treetrunking hard.
Yeah knowing him... and his Kamikaze Life style .... Who the treetrunk really knows what went down.
Rock bottom happened. And now he is trying to grasp at something in his life to give him the will and the power to move upward. I'm assuming that something is a rekindling of a relationship with you to serve as a center point of his rehabilitation.
I wouldn't do it if i was you. I'd offer verbal guidance, but that's it. Maybe some sweet nothings like "you'll find someone who will give your life purpose" "if you treetrunked up so bad you can't find it on your own anymore"......but i wouldn't say that last part out loud.click to expand
This rekindling crap is not an option. I have told him uncountable times. He knows where He stands with me. Not in a thousand years. Im not a damsel.
Im Just feeling sick.
It's nearly 1 AM. -
Posted by Notmyrealname
Oh hun that really sucks... it’s difficult because I don’t know the particulars of your situation. Obviously it would be better for his friend who is presumably closer to him to deal with it and get him some help. But obviously if things get really bad and he’s sending bloody pictures i might be tempted to humour him until help arrives for certain. This is not fair and I’m sorry he’s put this on you. If he’s a genuine danger to himself he needs to be sectioned. That might mean keeping contact until you have enough information to get this done. At which point, once you know he is safe, you can cut ties thoroughly and take away his avenues of contacting you.
This is not about you and it’s not your fault. If you respond once with certainty to the cry for help, the right way, then you can be done with it and rest easy knowing you did what you needed to do. There are people who have dedicated their lives to dealing with these issues, allow them to do their job. Keeping communication open beyond that might only enable his fixation further, which is only a distraction from the real issues he should be focused on.
Hope you have friends and family that can help you as well, horrible thing to go through! Best of luck!
Ty! Channels are open... Last online activity 8 minutes ago... So Yeah I think his friend has gotten hold of him. -
Posted by Victorious
Not your fault.
You contacted his friend. Your role is done.
It's his decision to do this.
I feel nothing but nausea. And Super tense.
His friend said he will contact him.
Ty 💖 -
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Posted by generation_xy
He's sinking, don't let him do it to you through emotional/mental manipulation.
All you can do is advice him to seek professional help and wish him well.
It's up to him what he decides for himself but expects a reaction from you. If he isn't thinking straight, not only can he harm himself but also anyone around him.
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Posted by Mr_Pinchy
Posted by NemDeux
Posted by Mr_Pinchy
Don't get suicide blackmailed?
But it's obv a difficult proposition, if he does happen to do something to himself, i'm almost certain you would think that you could have done something to prevent it and why didn't you.....that all it possibly took was some attention over the phone
On the other hand, attention hoes and.leeches everywhere..
It's really a no win situation, pick the lesser worse option, whatever you think you can live with.
I contacted his best friend.
I don't feel obliged, it looks like he contacted me AFTER this all happened. Smh.
Getting struck by a revelation that your life amounted to nothing tangible while all alone in the middle of just like metown, Thailand. Probably left over pantyhose on the floor from the last visit and cheap booze in there somewhere too.
Hard lyfe tbh. treetrunking hard.click to expand
Yeah knowing him... and his Kamikaze Life style .... Who the treetrunk really knows what went down. Smh.
I hate this gnawing feeling. -
Posted by PurplePassion38
Sorry you have to go through this. I hope he gets some professional counseling. Does he have family you can reach out to?
No living relatives.
Ty 💖 -
Posted by Mr_Pinchy
Don't get suicide blackmailed?
But it's obv a difficult proposition, if he does happen to do something to himself, i'm almost certain you would think that you could have done something to prevent it and why didn't you.....that all it possibly took was some attention over the phone
On the other hand, attention hoes and.leeches everywhere..
It's really a no win situation, pick the lesser worse option, whatever you think you can live with.
I contacted his best friend.
I don't feel obliged, it looks like he contacted me AFTER this all happened. Smh. -
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He has really become the lonely bastard he was always destined to be.
This time he wanted to set his testament right (he is a lawyer btw) and wanted to clear some issues with me prior.
During the convo he starts his usual tirade...of blaming and shaming and love bombing. after rejecting his offer of friendship or any cordial future contact and me asking him to seek proper help. he sent me pics of a blood spattered hotel room and the basin full of blood stains... the place looked like a war zone.
Then he sent a pic of his right hand patched up with professional bandaging.
I was so pissed off... I said well you never wore your wedding band anyhow, so no loss eh.
Then pictures of hotel staff cleaning up the mess.
I don't know what to think.
I remembered what my old Boss told me. Never hold a traveller back from his journey.
And thats what I told him.
Have a good trip.
He is some where in asia, pressumably Thailand.
I never told him - dont do it.
Wtf. 2019.
Advice?
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Posted by tctaap
Posted by NemDeux
Posted by tctaap
Posted by NemDeux
taurus would be my descendent ....hmmm
I see that in you. Mine would be Scorpio LOL !
are we mirror images ....? nice!
i´ve never seen you be mean though lol *insertheart*
is your rising Scorpio ? - I've never seen you be mean either awwwwwwwwwclick to expand
yes. scorp rising
glad you´ve only seen my good behaviour then (cheers) -
Posted by tctaap
Posted by NemDeux
taurus would be my descendent ....hmmm
I see that in you. Mine would be Scorpio LOL !click to expand
are we mirror images ....? nice!
i´ve never seen you be mean though lol *insertheart*
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Generous
The Taurus will readily lend a helping hand to the family, friends and the needy even if it means that they would have to endure hardship or loss.
Dependable
You can count on the Taurus, they will not leave you disappointed. Their dependability makes them excellent employees and friends.
Down to earth
These reliable and sensible souls are quite down to earth, polite and pleasant personalities. Success rarely goes to their heads.
Patient
Patience is a virtue and the Taurus posses it aplenty. They believe in doing the job right rather than being the first one to do the job.
Independent
Financially and emotionally, the Taurus prefer to be independent and strong so that they don’t have to look for support when life throws lemons at them.
Persistent
Once they set their eyes on something, the Taurus will persistently put in all the efforts to get it. Failures and setbacks rarely dampen their spirits.
Negative traits
Stubborn
Although easy going and respectful, the Taurus can be unbelievably stubborn and inflexible in their approach. So much so that when the logical arguments don’t suit them, they will just refuse to listen!
Self-indulgent
The Taurus are so goal-oriented that they often form a notion that the world revolves around them. Their self-indulgent streak makes them rude, and ignorant of others’ emotions.
Lazy
While they are patient, they are also lazy, especially when ordered to do something. The Taurus will not move a muscle till they are motivated to get up and work.
Materialistic
In their bid to secure their future and maintain a certain image in the society, the Taurus tend to become materialistic.
Possessive
Possessiveness, which often translates into jealousy and resentment, is one major negative trait in the Taurus-born. Many a times their possessiveness even costs them genuine relationships.
Frugal
While it is good to value money, the Taurus-born sometimes takes it too far and become frugal in the name of savings and building a better future.
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taurus would be my descendent ....hmmm