Posted by Gemitati

Posted by Neno2

Posted by Gemitati

Posted by Neno2

Posted by Gemitati
Written 4/31/2019

For all of those who’ve been here forever...do you remember when you’ve had ‘relashionships’ with someone that had changed over years from love to hate or opposite?

I’ll start.
@Arrielle
I remember few years ago when you left your husband in Australia and came here cookiemonstery as hell...and I was dealing with Scorpio...you were trying hard to rip my ass apart...and I’ve even blocked you at some point.

Years went by and today we seem having no problems communicating and even laughing at same people. Strange af...right? How had THAT happened? 🤷‍♀️😂

Anyone else? 😂

Yes,i remember when i first time came to dxp and all the dxp women liked me and now still all the dxp women like me, time passes fast

We feel sorry for your divisional ass...
So now I said it!!!🤦‍♀️

I was joking😑nobody gets my humor😢

I don’t think it’s funny to manifest your supposedly beauty ALL the time! Its retarded...

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Its funny cuz its true

Posted by CancerAquaSagg

Posted by Neno2

Posted by leooox
it doesnt work mostly when people get married to fix their problems- if relationship isnt working beforehand then it probably will not be after marrying

Its not the act of marriage itself,its the things people do when married,i noticed a huge problem is when a couple lives together,completely destroys any mistery or love in the relationship

Thats what I think too. I wanna keep the mystery why we gotta live together and then my man has to see me when I'm moody/look terrible etc lol I wanna show my good side only aha that's so unrealistic tho.

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Also its better so couples actually miss each other

Posted by CancerAquaSagg

Posted by Neno2

Posted by leooox
it doesnt work mostly when people get married to fix their problems- if relationship isnt working beforehand then it probably will not be after marrying

Its not the act of marriage itself,its the things people do when married,i noticed a huge problem is when a couple lives together,completely destroys any mistery or love in the relationship

Thats what I think too. I wanna keep the mystery why we gotta live together and then my man has to see me when I'm moody/look terrible etc lol I wanna show my good side only aha that's so unrealistic tho.

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Also its better so couples actually miss each other

Posted by MyStarsShine

Posted by Neno2

Posted by _Dazed

Posted by Black-Mamba

Posted by Neno2

Posted by Black-Mamba

Posted by Neno2

Posted by Black-Mamba
You can find anything on the internet to confirm your bias and way of thinking.

No need for that

I treat every conclusion i came up with as absolute truth

You're an idiot whose life experiences are minimal

And your insults never work😃

U so bipolar,make up your mind

Bipolar cause I'm not into your absolutes

You're too young to be this bitter and you haven't even lived yet

The only reason he's against marriage is because it would be absolutely ludicrous to ask a woman to marry him, through social media DMs.

Haha

I just dont like traditional things,i like to improve and marriage is such a outdated concept

Do you see yourself living alone for a long time Neno?

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i live alone for 2 years now😃it has good and bad sites

Posted by _Dazed

Posted by Black-Mamba

Posted by Neno2

Posted by Black-Mamba

Posted by Neno2

Posted by Black-Mamba
You can find anything on the internet to confirm your bias and way of thinking.

No need for that

I treat every conclusion i came up with as absolute truth

You're an idiot whose life experiences are minimal

And your insults never work😃

U so bipolar,make up your mind

Bipolar cause I'm not into your absolutes

You're too young to be this bitter and you haven't even lived yet

The only reason he's against marriage is because it would be absolutely ludicrous to ask a woman to marry him, through social media DMs.

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Haha

I just dont like traditional things,i like to improve and marriage is such a outdated concept

Posted by _Dazed

Posted by Neno2

Posted by nikkistar

Posted by Neno2

Posted by nikkistar
Marriages are what the two in it, make of it.

I know couples that don't believe in marriage, that have been together for 10+ years. Don't live together either, like your statement. Are happy.

I know married couples that live together in separate rooms in the same house. Because they know they need individual space. Been together for 15. And are very happy.

I know married couples that barely talk and are two ships in the night pass in the night. Been together for 30 years. Are miserable but too comfortable to get out.

I know 3 couples that have been together for damn near 40 years with your typical marriage, and act like they are still in their honeymoon.

I know people that get married fast and divorce even faster.

I know couples that didn't live together until after marriage because of religious beliefs, and have been happily married for more than a decade.

Making generalized statements about marriage is asinine. It is like talking about all Scorpios sting and stare. Just dumb sounding, because each person's individual relationship is different from the next.

Its not about marriage,its about what people doin marriages,they get too comfortable and ruin their love and happiness


U must agree that couples should avoid some things to stay longer in love and happy

One of the things is living together cuz it really destroys the mistery and attraction in a relationship

Mystery? Why the treetrunk would a couple need mystery to be happy? Lol

To not get bored😃


Boredom is the number 1 enemy of relationships

Please provide stats to support this.

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People get bored easily,no need for stats

I observe couples every day and all are unhappy cuz they are bored

Posted by _Dazed

Posted by Neno2

Posted by LadyNeptune

Posted by Neno2

Posted by shellshocker
The dedication, commitment and loyalty of marriage is beautiful to me and not relative to proximity.

I enjoy the missing, longing and anticipation of love. Some people can pull it off living together but not I

Why not eliminating bad things that destroy relationships,like living together,spending too much time together..

One of the happiest married couples I know is around each other pretty much 24/7. They live together (obvs) and run a business together, and even hobby together, all about that off-road life.

So what doesn’t work for some works for others. Cause I know I’d want to scratch out my eyes being around someone like that constantly.

I agree but what are the percentages?

5% ,10% ,15% ? Marriages work

50% give or take

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Be single and 50% unhappy or be in relationship abd 50% unhappy😅

Posted by Gemitati

Posted by Neno2

Posted by Gemitati
Written 4/31/2019

For all of those who’ve been here forever...do you remember when you’ve had ‘relashionships’ with someone that had changed over years from love to hate or opposite?

I’ll start.
@Arrielle
I remember few years ago when you left your husband in Australia and came here cookiemonstery as hell...and I was dealing with Scorpio...you were trying hard to rip my ass apart...and I’ve even blocked you at some point.

Years went by and today we seem having no problems communicating and even laughing at same people. Strange af...right? How had THAT happened? 🤷‍♀️😂

Anyone else? 😂

Yes,i remember when i first time came to dxp and all the dxp women liked me and now still all the dxp women like me, time passes fast

We feel sorry for your divisional ass...
So now I said it!!!🤦‍♀️

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I was joking😑nobody gets my humor😢

Posted by Gemitati
Written 4/31/2019

For all of those who’ve been here forever...do you remember when you’ve had ‘relashionships’ with someone that had changed over years from love to hate or opposite?

I’ll start.
@Arrielle
I remember few years ago when you left your husband in Australia and came here cookiemonstery as hell...and I was dealing with Scorpio...you were trying hard to rip my ass apart...and I’ve even blocked you at some point.

Years went by and today we seem having no problems communicating and even laughing at same people. Strange af...right? How had THAT happened? 🤷‍♀️😂

Anyone else? 😂

Yes,i remember when i first time came to dxp and all the dxp women liked me and now still all the dxp women like me, time passes fast

Posted by Sagicorn
Not really, what you see is mainly people who got married for various other reasons, not love.

Yes

Love doesn't exist

Posted by shakedown

Posted by Neno2

Posted by shakedown

Posted by Neno2

Posted by MyStarsShine
" Marriage is a wonderful institution, but who wants to live in an institution "?

Grouch Marx
🤓

"Marriage is like a series of opposing reflections, inverse images getting ever smaller like nesting dolls, each one of your trying to squeeze yourself smaller to fit inside the hopes of the other, until one of you cracks or stops existing"

Jacob M. Appel

🤓

Yup.

U are agreeable,wife material

😂😂😂😂

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U are right,we shouldn't marry to keep the mystery and attraction alive😃

Posted by enfant_terrible

Posted by Neno2
I dont see a single married couple thats actually happy,in my opinion people should never get married or live together so they stay longer happy and in love

Discuss

I don't see a single single person that's not sad and pathetic. I think we're just not meant to be happy, where's there to push us if we were?

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Yes,nobody is really happy

Single or in relationship,either side sucks 50%

Posted by shakedown

Posted by Neno2

Posted by MyStarsShine
" Marriage is a wonderful institution, but who wants to live in an institution "?

Grouch Marx
🤓

"Marriage is like a series of opposing reflections, inverse images getting ever smaller like nesting dolls, each one of your trying to squeeze yourself smaller to fit inside the hopes of the other, until one of you cracks or stops existing"

Jacob M. Appel

🤓

Yup.

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U are agreeable,wife material

Posted by nikkistar

Posted by Neno2

Posted by nikkistar
Marriages are what the two in it, make of it.

I know couples that don't believe in marriage, that have been together for 10+ years. Don't live together either, like your statement. Are happy.

I know married couples that live together in separate rooms in the same house. Because they know they need individual space. Been together for 15. And are very happy.

I know married couples that barely talk and are two ships in the night pass in the night. Been together for 30 years. Are miserable but too comfortable to get out.

I know 3 couples that have been together for damn near 40 years with your typical marriage, and act like they are still in their honeymoon.

I know people that get married fast and divorce even faster.

I know couples that didn't live together until after marriage because of religious beliefs, and have been happily married for more than a decade.

Making generalized statements about marriage is asinine. It is like talking about all Scorpios sting and stare. Just dumb sounding, because each person's individual relationship is different from the next.

Its not about marriage,its about what people doin marriages,they get too comfortable and ruin their love and happiness


U must agree that couples should avoid some things to stay longer in love and happy

One of the things is living together cuz it really destroys the mistery and attraction in a relationship

Mystery? Why the treetrunk would a couple need mystery to be happy? Lol

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To not get bored😃


Boredom is the number 1 enemy of relationships

Posted by LadyNeptune

Posted by Neno2

Posted by LadyNeptune

Posted by Neno2

Posted by shellshocker
The dedication, commitment and loyalty of marriage is beautiful to me and not relative to proximity.

I enjoy the missing, longing and anticipation of love. Some people can pull it off living together but not I

Why not eliminating bad things that destroy relationships,like living together,spending too much time together..

One of the happiest married couples I know is around each other pretty much 24/7. They live together (obvs) and run a business together, and even hobby together, all about that off-road life.

So what doesn’t work for some works for others. Cause I know I’d want to scratch out my eyes being around someone like that constantly.

I agree but what are the percentages?

5% ,10% ,15% ? Marriages work

People are more than a number.

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Everything can be put in statistics😃

Posted by LadyNeptune

Posted by Neno2

Posted by shellshocker
The dedication, commitment and loyalty of marriage is beautiful to me and not relative to proximity.

I enjoy the missing, longing and anticipation of love. Some people can pull it off living together but not I

Why not eliminating bad things that destroy relationships,like living together,spending too much time together..

One of the happiest married couples I know is around each other pretty much 24/7. They live together (obvs) and run a business together, and even hobby together, all about that off-road life.

So what doesn’t work for some works for others. Cause I know I’d want to scratch out my eyes being around someone like that constantly.

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I agree but what are the percentages?

5% ,10% ,15% ? Marriages work

Posted by nikkistar
Marriages are what the two in it, make of it.

I know couples that don't believe in marriage, that have been together for 10+ years. Don't live together either, like your statement. Are happy.

I know married couples that live together in separate rooms in the same house. Because they know they need individual space. Been together for 15. And are very happy.

I know married couples that barely talk and are two ships in the night pass in the night. Been together for 30 years. Are miserable but too comfortable to get out.

I know 3 couples that have been together for damn near 40 years with your typical marriage, and act like they are still in their honeymoon.

I know people that get married fast and divorce even faster.

I know couples that didn't live together until after marriage because of religious beliefs, and have been happily married for more than a decade.

Making generalized statements about marriage is asinine. It is like talking about all Scorpios sting and stare. Just dumb sounding, because each person's individual relationship is different from the next.

Its not about marriage,its about what people doin marriages,they get too comfortable and ruin their love and happiness


U must agree that couples should avoid some things to stay longer in love and happy

One of the things is living together cuz it really destroys the mistery and attraction in a relationship

Posted by LethalFantasia

Posted by Neno2

Posted by LethalFantasia

Posted by PuzzlePieces
Interesting thread and so many people thinking about keeping romantic love alive or not being able to share life with another person. Marriage is about wanting to share and about giving & being a partner with another person. Being a parent is about raising someone to be a functioning adult and needing you, until then.

Not a single person married happy? Or about kids? Being happy all the time is not reality. Marriages and being a parent .. there are good days and bad days. Doesn’t mean you’re not happy. Just like a single person. It’s just life. Just cuz you hear complaints doesn’t mean they are so unhappy.

Personally I’d rather share life with someone. I have had marriages where my husband supported me & things I wanted to do. And I supported him. Were things perfect? no. You don’t spend 20 years with a person unless there is something good at the core of it. Do I regret it? Absolutely not. Having kids has been a pleasure... but absolutely horrible at times. It’s just life people. If you’re only concerned about yourself and what you’re getting out of it, you’re missing out on amazing love that goes beyond romantic love. About giving and sacrifice and raising children and a bond with another person where yes you still care even when you are divorced.

Where im so freaking upset with my children & them at me, and then they give you a hug saying thanks for having my back, you’re the best mom, I love you.

It’s all worth it. Just all worth it. It’s what you don’t get all.. it’s the surviving life together even if you don’t make it in the end with your spouse.

Just spent the evening with my 18 yr old daughter like the old days. Ahhhh my baby. She’s so grown up. Can’t imagine life not having her and my son ( or marrying their dad. So many amazing memories.) it’s all worth it. I don’t regret a thing.

x

look at her😑all happy and mushy and...

my little #neno


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Stop with that happiness😑it sucks

Posted by BoomShakalakaBoom

Posted by Neno2

Posted by BoomShakalakaBoom
Really looking forward to marrying my Libra, in a few months we are gonna be 3 years together!

IMO marriage is one way to separate the men from the boys.

Marriage is not the problem, marriage is just what people use to blame their own personal shortcomings that prevent them from functioning in a committed relationship. There is just more commitment-phobes these days, more people not wanting to grow up (millenials?)

U are in for a rude awakening😅

Technically speaking I've been married for almost 3 years since that is how long I have also been living together with Libra.

Have you been married yourself? Have you even had a long-term/committed relationship where you both lived together?

If the answer to both is no then how can I take your "advice" seriously lol

You should be the one asking me for advice, THAT would make more sense.

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Yes,i am married to myself for 29

Beat that