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neves joined January 22, 2016Posted by Phangus
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I forgot to mention... He texted me 2 days ago to meet up and I DID NOT RECEIVE THE TEXT.. and I finally called him today because he was supposed to come over my house 3 days ago and I was like why the heck am I Not receiving anything from him? It's so weird because when we were just friends everything was NORMAL AND GREAT.. Now that we have the title, he's just so weird.. I told him he can move on and see other people and be single if that is what he truly wants but has no Valid Reason to break up a Almost PERFECT Relationship, and he AGREED and CHANGED HIS MIND WITHIN SECONDS AND SAID I do want to be with you, and that he is hard to get emotionally and that he doesn't just give his heart away like that but that he WANTS to stay in our relationship and see how it turns out!? Does he want a relationship? is he nervous / scared? Does he even want me? What's the deal!? It must be his Moon in Scorpio.. but he has a lot of Water in his chart.. I thought I'd be safe, with this Gem, since he's all watered down but nooooooo... What's the deal!? He is still taking me out tomorrow for lunch and spending the whole day with me but is on call at work and yes we are still in a relationship, after convincing him that we are perfect and he said he thinks that I am good for him but whats up with these mixed up feelings!? So annoying...........
Pro tip: don’t put out there as a suggestion to break up if it’s not actually what you want. If your gonna cry about him giving mixed up feelings check your own mixed signals your sending first.
This is one of those societal dating behaviors women have picked up to be the cool-girl, too, and why we have so many people with boundary issues and Netflix/chill culture.
“If that’s what you want, I’m okay with that too” because it’s no longer fashionable for a woman to state her needs and desires. Women living in a man’s world!
lol, that's just such a "feminist" point of view (tunnel vision like). Men do the same. Actually, it's even worst... cause most women only act like that - during the dating phase (like a mask they put on - "to catch their pray") - at least till they get in a relationship with those men (or until they put a ring on it), while latter on they start to show their true colors. The men who act like that on the other hand... that's something you see "after" they get in a relationship (or married), you know... those men that walk by their women side as if they're their personal dogs - those men that are treated like their personal errand boy (they even sent them to buy tampons ffs). And I'm pretty sure this image hits close to home for a lot of yous - since those men might be your fathers, for some of you are your brother or it's something you see at your friends. Some even fit the stereotypical image "Yes Dear! Yes Dear! Right away love...." 🤢🤮
You lost me when you had a problem buying tampons. What happens if your woman is stranded at home with no tampons? You gonna make her go out with toilet paper stuffed in her panties?
lol, i wasn't talking about emergencies - but the usual... As if buying tampons is one of her man's duties (more often than not).
/gives you menacing side-eye from the toilet...
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Posted by nanorobot
Posted by LadyNeptune
Posted by Geminiiviixen
I forgot to mention... He texted me 2 days ago to meet up and I DID NOT RECEIVE THE TEXT.. and I finally called him today because he was supposed to come over my house 3 days ago and I was like why the heck am I Not receiving anything from him? It's so weird because when we were just friends everything was NORMAL AND GREAT.. Now that we have the title, he's just so weird.. I told him he can move on and see other people and be single if that is what he truly wants but has no Valid Reason to break up a Almost PERFECT Relationship, and he AGREED and CHANGED HIS MIND WITHIN SECONDS AND SAID I do want to be with you, and that he is hard to get emotionally and that he doesn't just give his heart away like that but that he WANTS to stay in our relationship and see how it turns out!? Does he want a relationship? is he nervous / scared? Does he even want me? What's the deal!? It must be his Moon in Scorpio.. but he has a lot of Water in his chart.. I thought I'd be safe, with this Gem, since he's all watered down but nooooooo... What's the deal!? He is still taking me out tomorrow for lunch and spending the whole day with me but is on call at work and yes we are still in a relationship, after convincing him that we are perfect and he said he thinks that I am good for him but whats up with these mixed up feelings!? So annoying...........
Pro tip: don’t put out there as a suggestion to break up if it’s not actually what you want. If your gonna cry about him giving mixed up feelings check your own mixed signals your sending first.
This is one of those societal dating behaviors women have picked up to be the cool-girl, too, and why we have so many people with boundary issues and Netflix/chill culture.
“If that’s what you want, I’m okay with that too” because it’s no longer fashionable for a woman to state her needs and desires. Women living in a man’s world!
lol, that's just such a "feminist" point of view (tunnel vision like). Men do the same. Actually, it's even worst... cause most women only act like that - during the dating phase (like a mask they put on - "to catch their pray") - at least till they get in a relationship with those men (or until they put a ring on it), while latter on they start to show their true colors. The men who act like that on the other hand... that's something you see "after" they get in a relationship (or married), you know... those men that walk by their women side as if they're their personal dogs - those men that are treated like their personal errand boy (they even sent them to buy tampons ffs). And I'm pretty sure this image hits close to home for a lot of yous - since those men might be your fathers, for some of you are your brother or it's something you see at your friends. Some even fit the stereotypical image "Yes Dear! Yes Dear! Right away love...." 🤢🤮
You lost me when you had a problem buying tampons. What happens if your woman is stranded at home with no tampons? You gonna make her go out with toilet paper stuffed in her panties?click to expand
lol, i wasn't talking about emergencies - but the usual... As if buying tampons is one of her man's duties (more often than not).- I don't know you people personally, so based on this details alone...
Sun: Gemini (Me: Gemini)
Moon: Scorpio (Me: Aquarius)
Mercury: Gemini (Me: Gemini)
Venus: Cancer (Me: Gemini)
Mars: Cancer (Me: Gemini)
Jupiter: Gemini (Gemini)
...well, you're both emotional stubborn but in a different way (fixed moons - are hard to move... so to speak). As for both of you being Gemini, well... you seem really heavy on air energy - while he's a mix of air and water (mostly water - when it comes to personal energy) - so once again - you act and react quite different to say the least. For you, as a heavy air sign - "words (verbal communication)" has a bigger value/meaning. When you say something - you meant it and i presume you expect the same from him (to be highly communicative - to express his wants and concern verbally). And that's just it... with all that water in his chart - he won't be as verbal as you'd like... he's bound to be less communicative - "verbally" - and that might confuse the hell out of you. It's probably why you made this topic in the first place... he's already confusing you with some of his ways of being (maybe he's not even half as verbal as you). Funny enough, those placements make him a better listener - or even far better... You might understand what he's saying - you might understand the meaning of his words but you lack the stillness of water (like a lake) - which makes one a good listener (just "being there"). You're like the wind - blowing in all directions... at least until you get emotional - cause then the wind blows in one place, like fan... which makes you better at dealing with your emotion on your own - you might actuality needs some distance at such time. Again, different way of expressing ones nature. Posted by nanorobot
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Posted by Geminiiviixen
I forgot to mention... He texted me 2 days ago to meet up and I DID NOT RECEIVE THE TEXT.. and I finally called him today because he was supposed to come over my house 3 days ago and I was like why the heck am I Not receiving anything from him? It's so weird because when we were just friends everything was NORMAL AND GREAT.. Now that we have the title, he's just so weird.. I told him he can move on and see other people and be single if that is what he truly wants but has no Valid Reason to break up a Almost PERFECT Relationship, and he AGREED and CHANGED HIS MIND WITHIN SECONDS AND SAID I do want to be with you, and that he is hard to get emotionally and that he doesn't just give his heart away like that but that he WANTS to stay in our relationship and see how it turns out!? Does he want a relationship? is he nervous / scared? Does he even want me? What's the deal!? It must be his Moon in Scorpio.. but he has a lot of Water in his chart.. I thought I'd be safe, with this Gem, since he's all watered down but nooooooo... What's the deal!? He is still taking me out tomorrow for lunch and spending the whole day with me but is on call at work and yes we are still in a relationship, after convincing him that we are perfect and he said he thinks that I am good for him but whats up with these mixed up feelings!? So annoying...........
Pro tip: don’t put out there as a suggestion to break up if it’s not actually what you want. If your gonna cry about him giving mixed up feelings check your own mixed signals your sending first.
This is one of those societal dating behaviors women have picked up to be the cool-girl, too, and why we have so many people with boundary issues and Netflix/chill culture.
“If that’s what you want, I’m okay with that too” because it’s no longer fashionable for a woman to state her needs and desires. Women living in a man’s world!click to expand
lol, that's just such a "feminist" point of view (tunnel vision like). Men do the same. Actually, it's even worst... cause most women only act like that - during the dating phase (like a mask they put on - "to catch their pray") - at least till they get in a relationship with those men (or until they put a ring on it), while latter on they start to show their true colors. The men who act like that on the other hand... that's something you see "after" they get in a relationship (or married), you know... those men that walk by their women side as if they're their personal dogs - those men that are treated like their personal errand boy (they even sent them to buy tampons ffs). And I'm pretty sure this image hits close to home for a lot of yous - since those men might be your fathers, for some of you are your brother or it's something you see at your friends. Some even fit the stereotypical image "Yes Dear! Yes Dear! Right away love...." 🤢🤮- Virgo with 2.1%
...🤷♂️ - I got...
Tasmanian Devil
Taz is generally portrayed as a ferocious, albeit dim-witted, carnivore with a notoriously short temper and little patience. Though he can be very devious, he is also sweet at times. His enormous appetite seems to know no bounds, as he will eat anything in his path. He is best known for his speech consisting mostly of grunts, growls, and rasps (in his earlier appearances, he does speak English with primitive grammar) as well as his ability to spin like a vortex and bite through nearly anything.Taz does have one weakness: he can be calmed by almost any music. While in this calm state, he can be easily dealt with. The only music known not to pacify Taz is the bagpipes, which he finds insufferable.
Hmm... 🤔 I guess that sounds about right. 😏 Posted by Phangus
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This topic reminds me of a poem by Kenneth Koch...
That bit at the end is very clever if it means what I think it means.
It's pretty straight forward if you ask me: it's about a writer who found love and started having a social life in his 30s - but sacrificed his work (writing) for that. As he mentioned in the beginning... "there's not enough time - to do all 3 things right (to be a good a lover, to have a social life with friends - and do a good job as well). Come to think of it... that might be possible if you're a bartender. (:
Perhaps it's because it was my first time encountering it. I was thinking it was a general musing about life, and then the last line made me quite sure he was talking about himself, and this poem was his confession.click to expand
That's quite likely as well. Most writers do that (use their personal life as inspiration). Charles Bukowski - is another writer who did that quite often...- I wouldn't mind some leftovers - if they didn't reach the expiration date... 😏
... 🥳 Posted by Phangus
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This topic reminds me of a poem by Kenneth Koch...
That bit at the end is very clever if it means what I think it means.click to expand
It's pretty straight forward if you ask me: it's about a writer who found love and started having a social life in his 30s - but sacrificed his work (writing) for that. As he mentioned in the beginning... "there's not enough time - to do all 3 things right (to be a good a lover, to have a social life with friends - and do a good job as well). Come to think of it... that might be possible if you're a bartender. (:- This topic reminds me of a poem by Kenneth Koch...
Posted by Undine
Relationships. Good and lasting ones.
Your career is not going to fulfil you, if it's lonely at the top, your employees are undermining you, your achievements are easily forgotten, your network lets you down.
Your money and possessions are not going to fulfil you, if you don't have anyone to admire you for them.
Your hobbies are not going to fulfil you, if they are not shared with someone.
Your addictions are not going to fulfil you, just temporary fill the hole in your heart, while wasting your life.
That's such a one-dimensional view on life. 🙄
It's not like everyone aspires to own a company or to become a CEO. And yet, even the ones that do may find a sense of fulfillment in that type of job - if that's their thing (management). Anyway, there's all kinds of professions in this world (doctor, photographer, designer, musician, teacher, scientist, firefighter, actor, YouTuber and so on and so forth) - that have very little to do with being at a top - but more importantly - they did/do bring a sense of fulfillment to those who made a career out of that. In some cases - far more than their relationship. What can i say... some people are lucky at both (both career and relationship), some just at one of the two - while others at none. C'est la vie. You talk as if all the people are the same (obsessed with romantic relationships - as if that's the only thing that can bring anyone a sense of fulfillment).- Poor guy...🥴
- Some people do the same with cheese - even worst - they buy it like that. What can i say... biggest idiots on the face of this planet.
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Before astrology some people would say stuff like... i don't mix with blondes - cause they're all dumb, i don't like redheads either cause they lack substance. Or the typical after every heartbreak/breakup: all men are jerks / all women are cookiemonsteres.
I'm a simple man - but I'm not simple minded. Wouldn't say that i never judged a book by its cover - but i try not to... since it's both limiting and stupid - and that's something that life keeps proving and reminding me once in awhile.
Personality traits are not the same as physical traits and appearance.click to expand
You're missing the point: people tend to give in into all kinds of stereotypes/prejudice - be it because they're impressionable or it fits their past or current disappointing/painful experience with a given person (an ex, an unrequited love, a friend or a family member they don't get along with anymore - or maybe the bad experiences surpass the good ones). Thus, they treat with prejudice - every person that shares a common trait with that given person.
Anyway, even then - it wasn't about physical traits (it's not like they had an issue with the hair color) - but the personality they used to assimilate with that given physical trait (quite similar to the way people who are into astrology - tend to judge others as a whole - based on a given placement). As for "men" and "women" - this label covers both personality and physical traits. Then again, astrology only adds to that - it's not like it changes the way men and women are perceived (the gender remains a solid archetype - if anything - astrology tries to emphasize its strengths and weakness).
In a way... it's better when women hate men and men hate women - after a breakup/heartbreak. Cause it's just a matter of time till they surpass their tantrum and change their mind. Usually, while meeting another man/woman - they deemed to be special. Same can't be said about astrology - since they're 12 sun signs and x times more variables - if we're to take into account the whole chart. That being said, unless they happen to meet someone - with the same astrological placement - they might never change their mind.- Before astrology some people would say stuff like... i don't mix with blondes - cause they're all dumb, i don't like redheads either cause they lack substance. Or the typical after every heartbreak/breakup: all men are jerks / all women are cookiemonsteres.
I'm a simple man - but I'm not simple minded. Wouldn't say that i never judged a book by its cover - but i try not to... since it's both limiting and stupid - and that's something that life keeps proving and reminding me once in awhile. Posted by LadyNeptune
How do I gaze into his eyes when he’s pummeling me from behind. Please advise.
Yoga poses...
...😏- More than anything... Taurus women seek a practical and stable nature in their long term investments/endeavors. And that's something they tend to judge with their basic senses (what you see - is what you get). That's also - why she chased you in the beginning (she liked what she saw - appearance wise), after all... it's the only thing we usually see in the early stages (how someone is from the outside - it's what she was chasing). Latter on - after she spent some time with you and she got to know you a little better (on a more personal basis), from the way you described that experience... i take it she didn't like what she found on the inside (something about you made her uneasy). If you ask me... could be the way you express yourself. I mean, even from way you express yourself in writing - you come of as being flaky, disordered and somehow confusing. After she got a good taste of that - she probably felt like running for the hills. I have only Mercury (our mental patterns - the way we think and express our thoughts) in Taurus and - that's kinda hard to witness... Might help if she has Mercury in Aries, if she has a lot of fire (no fixed signs like Leo tho) and air in her chart (water works too - if it's in Pisces).🤷♂️
- Well, we're all passengers - in the walk of life, and... as the path changes - so do the travel companions. Some of us - are even bound to walk solo for quite some time... And that's just it... you can chose the path - but not people (you never know who's gonna be there or if you'll find a travel companion for that given path you've chosen). The thing is... everything in this world revolves around chemistry - and thus... your chosen path might be filled with people - but not all of them have what it takes (if any) - to be like brothers and sisters... the so called - family you get to chose (maybe they were already chosen/fated for you - or something like that...). You may share a train cabin with 5 other people - yet you can barely exchange a few words for the whole trip (a long one even) - while other times and in other train cabins - you may find some people that seem to bare a familial vibe... as if you've known them for a life time (or even more than one). Eventually, we all reach an age - when most of our past travel companions are nothing more than memories...
Same goes for us - and that tiny space we may hold (more or less) - in the mind and heart of someone we used to call friend (and vice versa). For couple more decades... at least (memento mori).
