How would you approach a female that you've known for a good 10 years from them being a family friend, but then you grow feelings for them but their ex is your friend( thru her) but you really want the girl but don't want things to be awkward with your friend? Showing her signs you like her and then other days acting as tho you showed no emotion prior, then switch back up. Cuddling feeling all up on her?????? lol confusion
I understand that 100% because I feel the same way. That's ignorance. You can't get mad at an outcome if both parties are not willing to come to a compromise. Anyone is entitled to state their opinion in a relationship and the other isn't entitled to agree with it BUT relationships are based around trust communication and compromise W/o that you end up with situations like these
my thing is, how and when did you tell him you were prego and having the child? I kno me personally as a libra you can't throw something like that at me and exspect me to be okay. It would throw me off balance. I need time to think things through. Which is also why you use protection. You shouldn't have thought that having a child together would help ya'll situation. That's naive. I'm not excusing his actions but my best friend is Libra male and he would freak out and have a defensive wall up if a girl tried that with him. Also a libra isn't going to put themselves or want to be put in a situation where they haven't had time to think the entire thing through and the possible future outcome. How is it gonna affect them and their everyday life. And if he has a Virgo moon then it's even more difficult. You need to look at things from his perspective as well instead of being wrapped up in your own. And also EVERY ACTION CAUSES A REACTION. It's a 2 way street so he isn't the one to blame completely in this matter
Honestly I've ran into Cancers a lot. My first relationship I had was with a cancer. I was 17/18 at the time. I loved him like was in love with him and still am like the best feeling I've ever had with anybody and still is. He passed away tho after my 18th bday. Cancer men make really good close friends for me too to be honest. But males. Cancer females tend to get under my skin sometimes because they're very mouthy and have no filter w/what they say lol. Aquarius make really good friends too. My best friends of 9 years are a Gemini Male and a Scorpio female. I'm iffy about Taurus and Sagittarius get under my skin tho. Some of them I love and others I can't stand. sometimes some are very full of themselves. I like virgos they're cool interesting people to me
Me being a libra I love to be around people, but for too much of being around people doesn't work out. I need a couple of days to myself. If you don't have an immediate importance to me I will not respond to your texts and calls until I'm out of my mood. I find this balances me Bc it's like a warning sign that I need to get away from everyone before I become too overwhelmed with everybody and snap. After a few 2-3 days I'm good. Mentally I'm always thinking trying to be the best of myself always putting myself down where I don't see I'm at my full potential. To a point that i don't feel happy with myself. At the same time tho my libra is what's making me see all sides to my situation and makes me realize that it's not all that bad. But then it's like a battle between the two in my head. Libra always ends up winning the mental battle but virgo still lingers in the subconscious. Emotionally my libra takes a huge roll in it. Look at everything from an emotional stand point from every side before I react. Unless it's heart break or something devasting I fall to pieces and shut down for days. The only way I get out of that black hole is turning off my emotional switch. Once that's off I don't feel ( I know it's bad) but that's how I continue on and then when I'm ready to face it I turn the switch back on get over whatever is hurting me and then continue on with everyday life. But I've realized I've only been deeply emotionally hurt twice and till this day those situations still trouble me subconsciously
I was curious about how it influences you? I find that and feel I'm half libra and Virgo Bc my virgo inner self always breaks the surface in my everyday life. The way I think, act etc. It balances well with my Libra
I'm not trying to say every virgo born on the 12 or after is like that. It's just what I've noticed with the virgos I know. I like all virgos as a whole lol like I said my bestfriend was a Virgo like that. It was just 2 qualities I noticed she used on her loved ones or her boyfriend and same with my ex's dad's girlfriend. They were cool tho
I'm sorry I'm new to this website and I find it kinda fascinating Bc I've always been into astrology and these forums really confirm what I've read it's crazy lmao. But virgos actually are all around my life now that I think on it. I've realized but for a while now that I've noticed, I have a wishy washy feeling about virgo females. Virgo females before the 11-12 of September I like them a lot. They have a habit of lying but little white lies. Like why?(no big deal) But Virgo females born after the 12 make up huge lies and are emotionally manipulative and emotionally dramatic in a manipulative way. Like they're cool and all. One used to be my bestfriend but that's one of the things I realized about her too. My ex's dad's girlfriend was like that too. I'm the only one that realized it for awhile before the others realized smh. She did a lot of damage financially at the time before they realized.
He's not completely interested my best friend is a libra male and he does this all the time with girls. You guys may hook up but there's no feelings involved on his part. It's just something fun and thrilling to do in the moment. Most likely has other girls he sees from time to time as well and is doing the same thing to them. Also you're mental plays a big part with libra. Me and him can converse for hours. Stimulating conversations for the brain can go a long way with libra's I believe. Hooking up or sex doesn't cause me to get feelings it's the convo and intellect.