Thanks for the feedback from everyone. I have realized she wasn't who I thought she was and I'm just going on with life without her. I believe everything happens for a reason and it was time to rid my life of toxic waste.
I asked her out a few times and she said she wanted to just be friends but meanwhile she had her other friends keep tabs on me to make sure other women stayed away. I ended up in other relationships that just didn't last. I couldn't stop thinking about the Taurus woman.
I have a female Taurus friend that I've worked with for about 7 years. We have been very flirtatious throughout the years. She knows that I like her as more than a friend and I felt like she liked me the same based on her actions. Even when we're in a group setting she gaze into my eyes and talks to me like I'm the only one in the room. She have her friends keeping an eye on me and make sure no other girls get too close to me. We have a great connection! Every time I would make a move though she would shy away and then a few days later go back to being in my face. I know that she has been in and out of a relationship with her child's father. She would never talk about him to me or around me. Anything that I heard about him was told by her other friends talking out loud. Months ago I noticed a new ring on her finger and I asked her was she engaged or something else (married) and she said no and the ring was nothing. I believed her because she does wear rings every day and this was just a new one that caught my eye. Recently I heard her other friends talking and they were talking about how she's married now. They didn't realize I was near enough to hear them and I got the feeling that the Taurus woman didn't want me to know. Whenever I see her she covers up her ring or have it out of sight. I'm upset that she didn't tell me herself and I had to find out by accident from her friends talking carelessly. So I started to try to keep my distance and I can see she's upset by it but I don't want to come between a married couple or be that person on the side.
I talked to my other Taurus female friend about the situation to see if she can think of any reason that the Taurus would lie about being married. Her answer was for me to just "move on". I just thought to myself "Wow! Not only did my other Taurus friend didn't answer my question but she was also not shocked by the situation which make me think she already knew the Taurus was married and didn't even bother to tell me".
I hate when someone I care about lie to me so I go and talk to the married Taurus and told her congrats on being married and I asked her why didn't she tell me. Her response was "It's my business and people don't share things like that!". Her tone sounded like she was mad at me for talking to her about it. We were both silent for about 10 seconds then she started talking again in her usual sweet tone she normally speaks to me in. I just walked away because I was done with the conversation at that point.
I feel like if she didn't want anyone to know she was married then why would she wear her ring for people to ask her about it which made me feel like she just didn't want me to know. I guess we weren't as close and friends like I thought we were. She always want to know my business and get upset if I don't tell her what's going on in my life but now she doesn't want to share her information. Man I'm taking a break from Taurus right now. I usually get along great with that sign but both of the Taurus I know hit a nerve for real.
When I like someone I watch them to see how they are when they think no one is watching. If everything is good then I get to know them. I'm extremely nervous around those I like and you can feel how intense my feelings are for you. When I say or express my emotions then I retreat for a few days to allow my emotions to calm down. It really drives me crazy because I feel like I'm multiple people in one body with my Sun in Cap, Moon in Leo, and Venus in Scorpio.
I've been having a horrible month. Earlier I looked at the date hoping the month was almost over because it's been so bad but the month has just begun. I'm doing bad at work and everyday I just feel like quitting my job and starting over somewhere else. I read somewhere that our love life is suppose to get better starting today but I'm just hoping for something good to happen in my life because I'm just screwing up everything. I hope that doesn't mean I have to wait until Taurus season start for my life to get better since they are a fellow earth sign and Aries season is over. I'm glad I'm not the only one because it feels like I've been jinxed or something.
I did read that somewhere about the soul mates thing and despite that I just feel that way about her. So I guess I'm just this special friend that she treats this way and nobody else. If that is the case then I wonder how would she react to someone she is actually interested in. That would be even more confusing...ijs
Man I swear there needs to be a thread just for Caps and Taurus for everyone to be referred to because Caps are always on here with questions due to so much confusion. We're suppose to be soul mates but it seems so hard for us to mate up. I know a Taurus woman that I feel is my soul mate. I've never dealt with a Taurus before but the feelings I have for her I've also never felt before. We have a lot of chemistry and seem to be drawn to each other. She gives me the stare, acts coy, twirling of the hair, has her friends up in my business and keeping an eye on me, doesn't like anyone to get near me, and other signs. When she talks about somewhere she's been or plans she's making she makes sure to let me know she's not seeing anybody and is still single. In the past I showed how I felt about her and she stated she wanted to be friends so I fell back. Now she's seriously giving me signs she wants me to make a move and looks all sad when I don't but it's her fault that I wont. She said she wanted to be friends so I feel that if she changed her mind then she needs to be the one to speak up. At the same time though I feel that the next time I see her I just might kiss her. I just don't want to step up again and get turned down again. I've never experience a sign so hard to figure out ever!
I think so. From what I hear all the earth signs had emotional problems during the retrograde. I was going crazy emotionally and I'm a Cap. I think you should contact her. Anytime my Taurus friends comes at me strong emotionally it scares me for some reason and I seriously care about her. I've never felt the way I feel about her ever and it just seems so unreal.
How long were you dating? If he cared about you then he still does. I was in a situation like that before and the Scorpio I was with didn't understand why I never had time for her like she wanted. I worked a lot because I had to and was just getting back on my feet. In my mind I had to do everything I could to get my finances right so I could make money for us both. I cared a lot about her and could see her in my future. I can't help but feel like the provider when I truly care about someone and I take work seriously.
The retrograde seriously had me acting crazy recently emotionally but now that it's over I think you should contact him. I'm currently crazy over a Taurus woman and the communication is not the best. Neither one of us is great at expressing ourselves. She knows I care about her without me saying and I know how she feels. I just wish she would truly talk to me. Contact him and tell him how you feel.
I've been seriously emotional for the last few days. Very unusual for me and I've checked with other Caps that say the same. I can't wait for this retrograde to be over so I can get back to being the "normal" Cap that I am.
I'm a Capricorn. I know she liked me. She even had her friends keep an eye on me and ask me questions all day long like I was on some sort of interview. She constantly stares at me and is rude to other girls that try to talk me. I feel like she wants me all to herself but tells me she only wants to be friends.
I thought a Taurus woman liked me. She showed all the signs and even enjoyed gifts that I gave her. The last gift I gave her was flowers and then she stated that she only wanted to be friends and she apologized for leading me on. Then she acted like she was uncomfortable around me so I just gave us space. Now whenever she sees me with someone else she still gets jealous and looks all sad in the face like she did when I thought she liked me. I still like her but she said she only wanted to be friends so why is she sad and jealous when other girls approach me?
I just want to thank Theatrum for that post because I have been dealing with a Taurus woman with the same placements and she has been confusing from day 1. That post describes her perfectly. For a second she had me thinking I was crazy or something. I'm a Cap sun and Leo moon. After dealing with her I know it's best for us to just be friends. I now have no more questions about this girl on the Taurus board after asking a million
I thought I found the one I wanted to be with, a Taurus woman, but it seemed like all she did was play with my heart. When she made me feel good it was like no feeling I've ever felt. When she made me feel bad it was an unspeakable hurt. I can't just settle for anyone and looking for that ONE. Being with someone is exhausting enough that I wouldn't want to feel that way with someone I can't see myself with in the future. In the mean time I erased all future thoughts of the Taurus woman and hoping just maybe I will find that person while I'm completing my goals. When I do think about dating I do say to myself that I'm not in the place that I want to be to get distracted by dating.