Never get emotionally attached, till they prove themselves..

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Can't see anything posted from a day ago and so...🤔


Same. It kept saying there were new posts, but I couldn't see them. *shrugs*
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I think it's a new account posting. I heard they take a couple of days to show up.

Posted by LadyNeptune
I think that the person your with can contribute immensely to the level of insecurity/security you feel.


100%

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Posted by brianafay
People - there's a difference between feeling someone isnt deserving of your empathy and actually wishing for and rejoicing in their pain

Same people speaking of karma
yup. just LOL @ people legit wishing agony on someone with cancer just because they disagreed with their internet posts....
Legit this.

How absurd, insensitive and unevolved are they for telling someone with a cancer that they got a "karma" or go die with agony. That shows a tons more about them...
I don't know why DJ is speaking for morality. isn't he one of those go-kill-yourself people? or is he afraid we would wish him painful death?

Anyway, I think PA wrote this line for us to feel free to write whatever we want. So no need for self-censorship, I'd say.
Posted by P-Angel
...It's not a secret that I don't like people very much, nor this world. ...


Yo @DonJohn , did you often telling to people here to "go kill yourself"?

And I'm not gonna justify that quote for P-angel since I can see and understand why she said that.




lmao


even if i did it was in the spirit of the frogman







please kill yourselves
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I remember quite a few negative things being said about you since I joined, but since I've seen some of your posts for myself, you seem pretty cool and like a decent person. Of course I've seen your fans post about you too with all positive comments, I have decided I agree with those ones. I like your outlook, especially on this for P.

Posted by Goateeguru
Dude, you should totally talk sh it to that cancer like you talk sh it to those you've considered weaklings here. I'm surprised no ones done a parody of that.

You should check out the book "self hypnosis for health and self change."

There's a chapter on cancer cells and mental imagery.

There's a lot of research to back up the effectiveness of imagery on cancer. Some patients experienced complete reversal and perfect health which is why certain treatment centers incorporate it into their program.

I think your whole "I'm not afraid of death," "come at me death," stance is cool n all but wouldn't be more inspiring to beat this?!

The mind is capable of doing incredible things! I challenge you to let that be your testimony.


Great advice, and you made me think of a book I read that might help too.

@P-Angel.. The book is called "Love, Medicine, And Miracles" by Bernie Siegel


Posted by P-Angel

I do have malignant cancer.

It started in my right adrenal gland, spread to my liver where a tumor was formed, and the spread to my lungs.

I start chemo on the 28th.

At the moment the focus is on my liver, the tumor is massive ... whereas the cancer nodules on my lungs are minimal in comparison. My oncologist says that the chemo should zap all of those cancer cells, and put the cancer in remission in my lungs.

However, my liver is in serious condition. The tumor has taken over 65% of my liver, and I'm damn lucky that I not riddled with infections, since the liver filters out all toxins in the body. The goal is to shrink the tumor and then keep it maintained.

He said there is no cure, which we all know, and the only thing he can do is to prolong my life by keeping the cancer in remission, and the tumor reduced.

The prognosis depends on how my body responds to the chemo treatments. If my liver shrinks and the other cancer cells go into remission, then I have a good 5 years. If my liver doesn't respond to treatments and they can't get it reduced ... then I won't make it through the summer, probably only a month or so. Because once my liver becomes severely compromised further, then I will be unable to fight off any illness, even a common cold or the flu could do me in.


So, just letting everyone know that if I suddenly stop posting, then you'll know why. I won't close the account down. I'll just vanish one day. When it gets to the point where I cannot even post any longer, then I'll update everyone so they know the end is near.


Happy trails, everyone ...... I'll see you all on the other side. In the meantime, if a ghost is haunting the treetrunk out of you and you know you've been a bleep and deserve it ..... yep, that would be me still kicking your ass.


I don't like this post, it sucks. I will pray for you P-Angel. I'd rather have your cookiemonstery rudeness, then have anything like that happen to you.

Happy Valentine's Day Sofia,
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I try to think about how I would feel if the shoe were on the other foot. I'm sure that other people who have paid for single events have found a partner by the time the event actually rolls around so it would not be the first time event planners would have had to deal with such a situation. I would not have gone to either the singles dance or the auction. I would have cancelled it and not given it a second thought and/or mentioned anything about it. And I suspect he "may" just "may" have made things official in the hopes that you would not have gone. But you did. And that speaks volumes to me. Sorry, I just do not agree with your way of thinking. This is all IMO. You are free to do what you want to do. Actually, you just be entirely free now.


I appreciate ur opinion... but that's absolutely unfair. I was single at the time of the commitment and even before committing myself to it, he and I spoke about it. If this is the manipulation I'll have to deal with them maybe we need to end the relationship. I will not be forced to feel bad about something that is so petty because u can't open ur mouth and say something. If it's a problem, say it.


It's not about whether you were single or not at the time, because you're not now. It's about doing what's right. If you want to keep your Cap that is. It's pretty simple really, cut and dry.

I don't think you need to keep being told the same thing over and over again, you're a big girl. Time to act like it.


That has a lot to do with it... and if u will let someone control u because they are feeling someway about something so petty then u my lady are a weak female. Doing what's right is keeping my word and trying to make him as comfortable as I can with it. Which is what I've done.

I will never be weak enough to allow someone to manipulate me with their feelings.


No. I'm a good woman who when I'm a relationship, will stand by her man and respect him by being loyal.

Come up with whatever excuse you want, it's still the same. Us Caps obviously think differently. Maybe go for a sign you can control and who will put up with their lady going to the bar for a "charity date". Lmao gtfoh


no ur a weak woman being controlled by a relationship. Ur scared to stand ur ground because ur afraid he might leave u.

I've shown him much respect and loyalty, this charity date doesn't take away from that. I'm not the one trying to control someone. I didn't volunteer to make him angry, I volunteered because I was asked to. And I offered him to sit at the bar to watch over me, lol. I'm not the type of lady who goes out to bars. I don't even drink sweetie. So get u some confidence, get out the Stone Age and realize that u too can breathe the same air as man. Lol.



Haha. Ok, you're a waste of time. You've made that more than apparent.

Good luck with your Cap, lol.

P.S. Don't come on our board asking for opinions, if you don't want them..

Peace


Opinions aren't forced on others, judgment is. Learn the difference. Don't try tonattack me and how I feel because it's not the same as u sweetie. Good day.
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Attack you? You're joking right? You called me a weak woman twice, and by the way... You should probably know who you're talking to before YOU pass judgement. Weak, is definitely not a word that people who actually know me, would even consider, "sweetie"

We have tried to tell you our opinion, and trying to open your eyes to the reality of probably what's coming your way.

Enjoy the date though, I doubt you will have to worry about this for much longer anyway. We aren't suckers..

Bye

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I try to think about how I would feel if the shoe were on the other foot. I'm sure that other people who have paid for single events have found a partner by the time the event actually rolls around so it would not be the first time event planners would have had to deal with such a situation. I would not have gone to either the singles dance or the auction. I would have cancelled it and not given it a second thought and/or mentioned anything about it. And I suspect he "may" just "may" have made things official in the hopes that you would not have gone. But you did. And that speaks volumes to me. Sorry, I just do not agree with your way of thinking. This is all IMO. You are free to do what you want to do. Actually, you just be entirely free now.


I appreciate ur opinion... but that's absolutely unfair. I was single at the time of the commitment and even before committing myself to it, he and I spoke about it. If this is the manipulation I'll have to deal with them maybe we need to end the relationship. I will not be forced to feel bad about something that is so petty because u can't open ur mouth and say something. If it's a problem, say it.


It's not about whether you were single or not at the time, because you're not now. It's about doing what's right. If you want to keep your Cap that is. It's pretty simple really, cut and dry.

I don't think you need to keep being told the same thing over and over again, you're a big girl. Time to act like it.


That has a lot to do with it... and if u will let someone control u because they are feeling someway about something so petty then u my lady are a weak female. Doing what's right is keeping my word and trying to make him as comfortable as I can with it. Which is what I've done.

I will never be weak enough to allow someone to manipulate me with their feelings.


No. I'm a good woman who when I'm a relationship, will stand by her man and respect him by being loyal.

Come up with whatever excuse you want, it's still the same. Us Caps obviously think differently. Maybe go for a sign you can control and who will put up with their lady going to the bar for a "charity date". Lmao gtfoh


no ur a weak woman being controlled by a relationship. Ur scared to stand ur ground because ur afraid he might leave u.

I've shown him much respect and loyalty, this charity date doesn't take away from that. I'm not the one trying to control someone. I didn't volunteer to make him angry, I volunteered because I was asked to. And I offered him to sit at the bar to watch over me, lol. I'm not the type of lady who goes out to bars. I don't even drink sweetie. So get u some confidence, get out the Stone Age and realize that u too can breathe the same air as man. Lol.

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Haha. Ok, you're a waste of time. You've made that more than apparent.

Good luck with your Cap, lol.

P.S. Don't come on our board asking for opinions, if you don't want them..

Peace

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I try to think about how I would feel if the shoe were on the other foot. I'm sure that other people who have paid for single events have found a partner by the time the event actually rolls around so it would not be the first time event planners would have had to deal with such a situation. I would not have gone to either the singles dance or the auction. I would have cancelled it and not given it a second thought and/or mentioned anything about it. And I suspect he "may" just "may" have made things official in the hopes that you would not have gone. But you did. And that speaks volumes to me. Sorry, I just do not agree with your way of thinking. This is all IMO. You are free to do what you want to do. Actually, you just be entirely free now.


I appreciate ur opinion... but that's absolutely unfair. I was single at the time of the commitment and even before committing myself to it, he and I spoke about it. If this is the manipulation I'll have to deal with them maybe we need to end the relationship. I will not be forced to feel bad about something that is so petty because u can't open ur mouth and say something. If it's a problem, say it.


It's not about whether you were single or not at the time, because you're not now. It's about doing what's right. If you want to keep your Cap that is. It's pretty simple really, cut and dry.

I don't think you need to keep being told the same thing over and over again, you're a big girl. Time to act like it.


That has a lot to do with it... and if u will let someone control u because they are feeling someway about something so petty then u my lady are a weak female. Doing what's right is keeping my word and trying to make him as comfortable as I can with it. Which is what I've done.

I will never be weak enough to allow someone to manipulate me with their feelings.
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No. I'm a good woman who when I'm a relationship, will stand by her man and respect him by being loyal.

Come up with whatever excuse you want, it's still the same. Us Caps obviously think differently. Maybe go for a sign you can control and who will put up with their lady going to the bar for a "charity date". Lmao gtfoh

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Posted by tcta

I try to think about how I would feel if the shoe were on the other foot. I'm sure that other people who have paid for single events have found a partner by the time the event actually rolls around so it would not be the first time event planners would have had to deal with such a situation. I would not have gone to either the singles dance or the auction. I would have cancelled it and not given it a second thought and/or mentioned anything about it. And I suspect he "may" just "may" have made things official in the hopes that you would not have gone. But you did. And that speaks volumes to me. Sorry, I just do not agree with your way of thinking. This is all IMO. You are free to do what you want to do. Actually, you just be entirely free now.


I appreciate ur opinion... but that's absolutely unfair. I was single at the time of the commitment and even before committing myself to it, he and I spoke about it. If this is the manipulation I'll have to deal with them maybe we need to end the relationship. I will not be forced to feel bad about something that is so petty because u can't open ur mouth and say something. If it's a problem, say it.
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It's not about whether you were single or not at the time, because you're not now. It's about doing what's right. If you want to keep your Cap that is. It's pretty simple really, cut and dry.

I don't think you need to keep being told the same thing over and over again, you're a big girl. Time to act like it.

Posted by ParisianCappy
@NostalgicCappy is mine



Aww, ParisianCappy 🤗

You're mine too.
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I just had tears coming out of my eyes.

Posted by Fun4Life
I went out with the little Cappy lady on Saturday night. Suit coat, dress shirt, jeans, maybe 1 of 3-4 people in the entire place wearing a coat. ( I go big, or don't go) Fine dining restaurant, had a glass of Beringer Cabernet before dinner, then had Steak Au Poivre, she had 12 Oz Prime Rib, both med rare. Exquisite.....

So after dinner we are at the bar...nice bar, - lots of glass work, nice tables...classy. Listening to a jazz band - 4 piece, live music...not really my style , but it keeps me awake, so it's all good. There's this girl at another table with 3 guys, she's OK, but nothing I'd hit up. They were playing Michael Jackson, Don't Stop Till ya Get Enough, and this girl comes right up to me, in front of Cappy Lady, and is practically begging me to dance...dying to dance. I politely decline, then she starts a conversation about the Red Tree, Pinot Noir I'm drinking. Incorrectly guessed it was Meomi, to which I told her Meomi is overrated. Women are so bat butter crazy this time of year, with Valentines day and all.


That was considerate of you to decline, I'm sure your Cappy appreciated that.

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Where is your juno? That's what sign I think you should go for.


Curious, why you say this Capri-Sun?


There has been a few threads here about the juno placements & spouse/ marriage.

https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/astrology-houses/juno-and-marriage-6918143/

https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/astrology/juno-and-soulmates--7535829/
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Ah, I see.

Ok, thank you for that. I will check these out.

Posted by Capri-sun
Where is your juno? That's what sign I think you should go for.


Curious, why you say this Capri-Sun?

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LOL sorry DashingDigit, you just walked into the site while there's civil war going on, everyone is kinda preoccupied.

See, the other day someone posted a pic of their tiny dingaling and it spread like wildfire, and then our resident no-class troll attracted more attention to it which set some people off, and now they're demanding for blood to be spilled.

And I'm a gay male Pisces madly in love with a beautiful straight Virgo demigod who now knows I'm in love with him, nice to meetcha!!!


It would be better if you posted your actual chart picture, people will be able to give you more accurate info that way. Just copy the pic's url and paste it into the text box here. You don't need to use any extra code like [url]dagasfggasgsgs[/url] because the site will automatically parse it. Just paste the raw url.

And welcome to the asylum! I hope you survive long enough to enjoy it.


Hi,

Curious, what movie is that gif from?



TV show, Gotham, early season 2.


Thank you, HeavyEntertainmentShow.


Heeeheeeeheeeeee I take it you like gingers. Mee too, especially that one. Sexy beast.


The OP hasn't come back yet, has she? It's ok, we can keep her thread alive until she decides to get over her initial hesitation. But she only waited for like 15-20 minutes before she decided it was too long to wait without a single reply. Tsk tsk tsk patience is a virtue.
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You are very perceptive

Yes, and I had a feeling as soon as I saw your profile pic that it was Cameron Monaghan. He's a cutie for sure.

That's so true, especially on DXP. She's actually kind of lucky that it didn't take at least a couple of days for a response at all. She will learn I guess, that is if she sticks around long enough.

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LOL sorry DashingDigit, you just walked into the site while there's civil war going on, everyone is kinda preoccupied.

See, the other day someone posted a pic of their tiny dingaling and it spread like wildfire, and then our resident no-class troll attracted more attention to it which set some people off, and now they're demanding for blood to be spilled.

And I'm a gay male Pisces madly in love with a beautiful straight Virgo demigod who now knows I'm in love with him, nice to meetcha!!!


It would be better if you posted your actual chart picture, people will be able to give you more accurate info that way. Just copy the pic's url and paste it into the text box here. You don't need to use any extra code like [url]dagasfggasgsgs[/url] because the site will automatically parse it. Just paste the raw url.

And welcome to the asylum! I hope you survive long enough to enjoy it.


Hi,

Curious, what movie is that gif from?



TV show, Gotham, early season 2.
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Thank you, HeavyEntertainmentShow.
Posted by HeavyEntertainmentShow
LOL sorry DashingDigit, you just walked into the site while there's civil war going on, everyone is kinda preoccupied.

See, the other day someone posted a pic of their tiny dingaling and it spread like wildfire, and then our resident no-class troll attracted more attention to it which set some people off, and now they're demanding for blood to be spilled.

And I'm a gay male Pisces madly in love with a beautiful straight Virgo demigod who now knows I'm in love with him, nice to meetcha!!!


It would be better if you posted your actual chart picture, people will be able to give you more accurate info that way. Just copy the pic's url and paste it into the text box here. You don't need to use any extra code like [url]dagasfggasgsgs[/url] because the site will automatically parse it. Just paste the raw url.

And welcome to the asylum! I hope you survive long enough to enjoy it.


Hi,

Curious, what movie is that gif from?