Posted by baePosted by Notmyrealname
Oh is she gemini moon? I always thought those two were classic water moon in cancer moon in scorp level codependency!
Also wasnt it a drunken makeout not actual sleeping with?
Still reeeally bad thou! She messed up so bad, i would never ever do that to my bff, it's been really funny seeing all those memes on twitter of people applying to be kylie's new bff now jordyn got cancelled 😅 lol!
Nope she definitely slept with him. left his house at 7am and already admitted to Khloe that she's been sleeping with Tristan for a month. She has since moved out of Kylie's house and back into her parent's house.click to expand
Posted by NoaddicPosted by NotmyrealnamePosted by NoaddicPosted by Sola
I'd like to hear from the OP again
I'm here again, with another account because I forgot the password.
My God, thank you all so much for the insightful replies from both ends of the coin.
Good (as in handy) to know for you that I've been in therapy since literally when I was one year old.
Some helped, the ones which positively enforced me were the strongest for me, on the contrary to the ones that hammered on the fact that there was something wrong with me.
The last 3 years I've been hospitalized in asylums for about 4 times. The last one was an antroposophical place that focused on awakening the strong part of the client, instead of just making you numb with medication. Very good place, not that it has to do with the topic, sorry. Haha.
I take both of the points of views here seriously and consider them too, skeptical of some ofcourse.
But what makes me have doubts about whether the scientific and supernatural is what's going on, is the fact that (science folks I recommend you to skip this part, wink wink) I went to the highest ranked psychic in my country - and she said that I've indeed been posessed one year (I completely find solace in this because when I look at pictures of myself I don't recognize myself, I had evil in my eyes, my whole face was different, I was agressive against the very people I love with all of my heart etc.)
And that I am incarnated to help bring peace to the world. If this is true, I can fully understand what would be going on - evil forces working together with the evil in the world, that try to prevent me from being a "threat".
I completely agree though with the people here that say that the short-term remedy is anti psychotic medication. I take them now, even though I'm against them, and because my parents were almost forced to give them to me as a very young child and they always refused (thank God). I believe medication is not the remedy/cure. It should only be a temporary solution in my opinion.
There should be a way to overcome this all, in small steps.
I don't really know what else to say. Just thank you people.
I must admit that the way I'll fight this by speaking to the psychic again and asking for advice, and at the same time remain in treatment with the regular institutions to remain grounded.
I'd have to say that my mentality in this is still that if I just use meds and nothing else, I won't come to the core of the problem - so I can solve/win from it.
You know what, you seem like a really cool girl, honestly. I’m just impressed that while you obviously have a certain set of beliefs, you are still able to take on board other viewpoints. I think that’s a skill a lot of people find incredibly difficult and it shows humility and a willingness to learn. You are absolutely correct that medication is unfortunately not the be all and end all of treatment. If only it were that easy! It is a helpful temporary tool to chill the voices/impulses a little while, while you work at your health in other ways.
Now I can’t claim to believe that you have been possessed. I don’t and I’m grateful you haven’t taken offence at that because I certainly don’t mean any by it. But I do know that yoga, meditation and careful attention to what you are putting in your body can do incredible things. I personally believe it to be a trick of brain plasticity, but however you frame it mindfulness and healing mantras have been shown to be effective in ways that absolutely reaffirm the age old wisdom of prayer like positive affirmation activities.
I truly believe that educating yourself on your condition will help you with some of the powerlessness you mentioned feeling sometimes. And those Oliver Sacks books are a genuine brill read I promise. But the main thing is to focus on positivity. If there is bad you must not give it attention. You are a good person. You sound like a kind person. You sound like a discerning and intelligent person. Don’t let the bastards grind you down 😉😂 you can do it! 👍
Thank you for your advice and kindness. I will check those books out. And I'm a guy by the wayclick to expand
Posted by Ram416Posted by Notmyrealname
Hmm... as far as the trans issue, and people not just ‘picking a gender’ it is more complicated than that. Not the least because gender is a social construct, but also because sex itself is becoming more complicated.
In general, more information = more complicated.
And we’ve never had more information available to us than now!
We’ve known about intersex cases forever but this has largely revolved around hermaphrodites, or people with easily identifiable ambiguous sexual organs... what is becoming more and more clear as science progresses is the possibility of hormonal and genetic factors that don’t follow the development of the rest of the body. As an example in androgen insensitivity syndrome, a person with male chromosomes could appear entirely female because their body is unable to recognise/use testosterone... (I’m remembering a case where two sisters tried to argue in Islamic court that they should be recognised as men because of their XY chromosomes so that their inheritance could be passed to them as per law, don’t know what the outcome was but interesting anyways!)
Even up until this year scientists are discovering new genetic or other factors that influence development of sex, and I think as a general rule, because there is still so much to be understood, a smart thing to do would be to hold off on judgmental attitudes on trans people or other people with gender dysphoric symptoms because it does seem at least possible if not likely, that a biological component could be involved.
That isn’t to say that we shouldn’t all be less judgmental anyways even if there isn’t of course! We’ve really twisted the ideas of ‘male’ and ‘female’ behaviour up into unrecognisable charictures as far as nature or biology is concerned. Best outcome I reckon would be to ease back on the hysterical over-polarising of the genders so that people can be comfortable acting whatever way they like in whatever body they have.
I was wondering when someone would mention intersex people. They're still very much treated as invisible, like lesbians used to be treated in the first half of 20th century.
Thank you.click to expand
Posted by Black-MambaPosted by Notmyrealname
Hmm, I don’t know much about the American legal system, but surely there would be a law against wasting police time? It must be illegal to essentially defraud the taxpayer? Because it would be separate from merely ‘unproven’ allegations... it would be ‘disproven’ and therefore liable for prosecution, right?
White women do it all the time
Calling popo on little black kids selling lemonadeclick to expand