Thanks for ur insight impulsv..previously he used to initiate a lot but we were saving sex for marraige but once crossed the boundary and i freaked for being pregnant inspie of using protection after that he is reluctant to initiate.i dont know may be its my mistake or may be he felt guilt about it.we belong to a conservative society..sigh
Hi, i am a lurker here :-P.but today i finally decided to login and ask for u guys insght.i have already posted a few queries before. I am with a cancer guy from last 4 .5 years out of which 3 years in long distance and still counting .we are engaged but he is never romantic neither initiates sex when we meet.though remains loving.while i am a person who likes being lovey dovey and passion (blame my scorpio venus)..i have talked to him about him but he just says 4.5 years so need of being lovey dovey or adrenaline rush.i dont have an option to leave him as i really love him and we are planning to get married in nov.2014. PLEASE HELP. P.S.i am sagittarius 27 years and he is cancer 28 years.
me & my cancer man is planning marriage in next 1.5 years & our families agreed on it.but yesterday i told him i am not feeling anything no love nothing and now he is angry & hurt.Meanwhile his phone is not working and he is not coming online.For details we are in long distance relationship from last 3 years and meet each other every 8 months. .our relationship is now of 4.5 years. Can you guys please suggest me how to make him understand that I don't like LDR & so want to hear romantic stuffs from him to feel him.
Me & my Cancer bf are in relationship from last 4 years..out of which from last 2 years we are in long distance & we meet after 8 months..he never asks for my pic. we just talk on phone...though he claims to marry me & even i had talked to his mom & he wanted to talk to my parents to ask for my hand...but sometimes he is just weird like he will stop calling out of blue..I really don't understand him even after 4 years...please help me understand him..
my cancer man and i are in a relationship from last 4 years or so .first 2 years together and then in long distance.I have noted one very thing that he never says sorry or apologizes,even he never realizes that he was wrong even if he was...like one instance he had a crush in school and out of blue he massaged her on FB saying he avoided her as he thought she was too good for him and said her to smile forever as he cherishes her smile and bbye.....though in his massage he told about us and me that he loves me..and when i confronted him he simply told me he was just closing her chapter but.... after 10 years and being in relationship with me from last 4 years.....and icing on cake he felt `he was not wrong and he wasn't betraying me` and off course `no sorry`..just explanations...and he recently wrote on our mutual friend FB DP.. babes! can i have your no.... i asked him about this and again he told me he was just joking after-all she is _ and again no sorry....Why he could never come up with SORRY...I am really pissed off...please help me to understand him..he is Sun Cancer(1st July),moon Sagittarius, venus taurus and mars cancer..I am sun sagittarius (25 Nov.),moon taurus,venus scorpio and mars libra... PS:we are in committed relationship and had decided to marry each-other..he has told his mother about me (as per he has told me from ages)....
Are scorpio female are cookiemonsteres from book`WHY MEN LOVE cookiemonsterES`....always in control and cant be disrespected...if you feel so then plz share your behavior towards your man...like calling pattern,sex cooking spoiling everything!!
HI!you know what you are doing you are only giving him chance to boost his insecurity and ego on ur stake.deep down he is weak and for now he is so confident becoz a girl is dying for him crazy for him...WHAT AN EGO BOOST for a weak and insecure person...why dont u stop contacting him..give him taste of his own medicine...go add 10 guys in ur fb and start updating happy status so that he could see u r doing fine without him..you got a life which wud flow wwith or without him...do it i am sure within 5 days his eyes would be poppin g out to know why u have changed...being there and done that..though still not out from the mud completely but now i know the rules of game that is simple...TELL HIM LOUD U NOW DONT NEED HIM IN UR LIFE....when he wud come strong talk to him in a nonchalant way and go with life never contact him...he will feel you easy...i have done that though i was in relation with him from 1.5 long years but due to regular contacting lost my charm in his eyes..and now i am fed up and going to dump him soon..so i am saying you due to experience never be easy..let him chase you forever..give him only when he contacts you or make efforts...
i am sagi-scorp 11/25 and he is a first decan cancer.we know each other from 5 years and were frnds for 1 year and are couple frm 3 years including 10 months of LDR.he is utterly busy in his college and is very passive too by nature.he never calls me if i stop calling him he calls me after 3 days.and then again everything starts.he never shows me his desperation for me.while he says he is committed to me.i have done break up with him 1 day next day he called me cracked joke and again we are in relationship.whenever i complain him for his passivity or lack of calls he says he is like this he even dont talk to his mother for 15 days.he says its only his parents and me complaining for his lack of communication and adds that `in nutshell FAMILY is having problem`.he tells me to accept him as that as he is a complete package and he lacks in communication...........what should i do..plz tell me.........he is never direct with me everything i suggest and he shows off that he is doing this to please me.....i know he is dying for thing but why always a pretence why nothing direct...plzzz suggest.
hey!!suggest me how to keep busy cancer man happy i LDR..what can I do..we are from 6 months in LDR and it would take another 2 years to get married to each other..i call him up everyday and take care of him but we never talk romantic stuffs as he is busy and never starts on it...so tell me how to start and how to act..