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  • I am a Leo with a Libra moon (on the cusp of virgo) AND in the 6th house

    I'd say I am an over thinker, self critical, worrisome
    But I am very giving, loving, and loyal.

    I can be emotionally detached for awhile but if you are patient with me I will open up (for the right person)
  • Whats for lunch? Even though I just got to work
  • Leo venus in the 4th
  • I have always, if anything, held back on anger. I do not act on anger in the moment... I sit back reflect and if anything reflect for too long and by then I am calm.
    I also view things from all angles and from others view point. I try to understand things from both sides and it normally helps me diffuse the anger.
    I do not get angry easily (libra mars)
    I'd say I am pretty disciplined with anger management/control.
    But sometimes Id say it would probably be healthier to let it out.

    I do know others that have anger issues.
    My brother has an Aries moon and Cancer mars he will get heated over the simple things! And go off! But if it is a sensitive subject he will just ignore or play games about it... not to mention hold onto it for way to long and holds grudges (cancer mars?)
    He is very sensitive and most of the time takes hurt out in terms of anger.
    My mother will pop off really quickly but be over it just as quick (aries mars)
  • Posted by oneday
    Intense in the beginning. Then it was a game of I want you - I dont want you.. push/pull that made me crazy lol
    And the indirect nature, reading between the lines, guessing game wore me out


    But they are extremely caring and affectionate, they make you FEEL loved and wanted (when they want you)
  • Intense in the beginning. Then it was a game of I want you - I dont want you.. push/pull that made me crazy lol
    And the indirect nature, reading between the lines, guessing game wore me out
  • I have all air and fire but I have all water and earth houses. I feel it balances me out I feel influences from both
  • Posted by nikkistar
    Posted by oneday
    Posted by nikkistar
    Posted by oneday
    The reason I am asking is because I have one friend that is making it a huge deal telling me I should cut him off because they think he is bsing me already this soon
    But another says the same as me, not a big deal unless it reoccurs.


    Question, is the one telling you to make a huge deal about it, had any long term relationships? What I mean by that, is, have they maintained anything more then 3 years at a time?


    She is in a 2 year relationship right now (first one)
    And I do admit she is dramatic as treetrunk


    I would probably stay away from any advice that she gives you in terms of relationships. Given that she is just now in her first somewhat long term relationship , she doesn't have the best advice to be dishing out to you.

    Never, let other people into your relationship.
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    I mean I did not let her influence me as I didnt cut him off or make a big deal of it but, I also was curious of others opinions.
    Some people judge too hard too fast
  • Posted by tctaa
    Posted by oneday
    Posted by nikkistar
    Posted by oneday
    The reason I am asking is because I have one friend that is making it a huge deal telling me I should cut him off because they think he is bsing me already this soon
    But another says the same as me, not a big deal unless it reoccurs.


    Question, is the one telling you to make a huge deal about it, had any long term relationships? What I mean by that, is, have they maintained anything more then 3 years at a time?


    She is in a 2 year relationship right now (first one)
    And I do admit she is dramatic as treetrunk


    lol go with the less dramatic approach until you get the entire picture lol
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    Haha yea I agree
  • Posted by nikkistar
    I mean, from the looks of it, you have been dating a week. He asked you out, and you already made plans for the night with friends. So, it wouldn't have been a date really, so he probably didn't really see the importance behind saying anything about it once he did wake up to the texts.

    He didn't really blow you off, or ditch you. You already made plans with friends, and asked him if he wanted to join. He never said yes to going, you said you "left the door open" for him to join you guys if he wanted.

    This is all minor stuff.


    Okay thanks for your input, I didnt think it was that big of a deal because we didnt even have plans in the first place.
  • Posted by nikkistar
    Posted by oneday
    The reason I am asking is because I have one friend that is making it a huge deal telling me I should cut him off because they think he is bsing me already this soon
    But another says the same as me, not a big deal unless it reoccurs.


    Question, is the one telling you to make a huge deal about it, had any long term relationships? What I mean by that, is, have they maintained anything more then 3 years at a time?
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    She is in a 2 year relationship right now (first one)
    And I do admit she is dramatic as treetrunk
  • Posted by C69
    why make such a big deal out of it? if I was him, I’d actually be scared now lol

    maybe he’s not that good at texting. some people are terrible with answering on time, yet they still show interest and that is what matters


    I mean I never made it a big deal I just simply asked what happened.
  • Posted by nanobot
    Posted by oneday
    Posted by nanobot
    Well I personally would forgive such a thing at the beginning of the dating stage, I don't think this is grounds to dismiss him entirely. Tbh I wouldn't even try to talk to him about it upsetting you because it's too soon and it wasn't even that big of a deal.

    If it's an issue of you not believing him or communication incompatibility, the truth will reveal itself in time.


    Yeah I really did not want to mention it because I did not want to show me being upset over something that its not a big deal but I guess I was curious to what he would say I guess?

    Thanks for the input


    I mean it's your potential relationship, so if it was a hard limit for you and you don't mind him knowing how much you care right off the bat, then you can tell him that it upset you and you would appreciate him to not do something like that again. But just trying to see it from the male perspective and the newness of the whole thing, you might see that he would think that is too strong too soon lol. But it could honestly be just a 1 time thing until he proves you otherwise. I don't see a reason to not let it go for now
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    Yeah exactly what I was thinking thats why I didnt wanna mention it in the first place but all I did was simply ask. And he answered, he made a bigger deal about it than I did. When he replied I just switched subjects acted like it was nothing lol
    Unless something like this continues to be repeated I dont see an issue.
    The reason I am asking is because I have one friend that is making it a huge deal telling me I should cut him off because they think he is bsing me already this soon
    But another says the same as me, not a big deal unless it reoccurs.

  • Posted by nanobot
    Well I personally would forgive such a thing at the beginning of the dating stage, I don't think this is grounds to dismiss him entirely. Tbh I wouldn't even try to talk to him about it upsetting you because it's too soon and it wasn't even that big of a deal.

    If it's an issue of you not believing him or communication incompatibility, the truth will reveal itself in time.


    Yeah I really did not want to mention it because I did not want to show me being upset over something that its not a big deal but I guess I was curious to what he would say I guess?

    Thanks for the input
  • This guy I had went on a date with last Saturday, and hung out with that sunday as well .....then has been asking me to workout with him at the gym everyday.(i met him at the gym)
    So since our first date we have seen each other every day (we only workout together nothing afterwards)
    He asked me this Saturday that just passed if I would like to do something later that night, I had plans with friends to go out so I told him he is welcome to join if he would like.
    I sent another text saying that I know it is kind of a drive and I understand if not, the door is open.

    He never got back to me and this was like 6-7pm so I waited a couple hours for a response to see if he was joining me.
    The next morning he texts me just "Hey" and asked what I was doing I said I was at the gym and he said damn I was about to head up there in 45min. He shows up later and never mentioned last night. Nothing. I sort of gave him the blow off because I felt like he blew me off all he had to say was no thank you or just something simple its simple to send a text or a quick phone call. I know we did not have plans technically but just getting back to me would of been respectful? Especially when he asked if I would ilke to do something first.
    He noticed my cold shoulder and kept texting me while I was in the gym (he was working out with a friend)
    He was asking if he gets a hug before I leave, He asked what I am doing later.
    Then was saying how he missed his workout partner (me) and he was in general trying harder.
    So when I was leaving he was waiting for me by the door so I went up to him we talked and he never mentioned anything about last night.
    He text me later that night and I asked him "what happened last night when you asked if I wanted to do something then just disappeared?"
    He said that he fell asleep and couldnt get himself to go out. He apologized and said he forgot to mention it earlier when we talked. He asked if he could make it up to me.

    Now I am an understanding person and I give people the benefit of the doubt.
    But I feel if he did fall asleep he would of woke up and text me hey sorry I fell asleep on you or something?

    But at the same time I do not know him too well and we are just starting out dating/getting to know one another so in reality it is not any of my business I just would like to be respected.

    I say if it happens again then I am not going to associate with him anymore I dont want to be blown off and ditched.
    But in reality he seems very sweet and interested in general..

    Is this means to cut someone off? I feel it is too soon to judge it like that.

  • Posted by LethalFantasia
    Posted by oneday
    Posted by LethalFantasia
    And how does it play out for you? Do you relate to it?

    I'm an Aries Venus in the 6th House.

    I am supposed to be a cheater and someone who gets over people easily but it's so not true.

    I mean, sometimes I meet people and I'm smitten by them, and then I get to know their personality and habits and become disgusted by them. So I guess that's the Aries Venus? But when I truly connect with someone it's so hard for me to move on.

    What is the rest of your chart?

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    I'm supposed to have a "superficial chart" (I guess) but when it comes to relationships and friendships it's nothing like me at all. I have a very, very hard time moving on.

    Maybe it's a family/generational thing or something. Most people in my family are like that too.
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    Well you also have an 8th house sun which really deepens the Gemini sun
  • Mars retrograde
    And Mercury is now in shadow period before it goes Retrograde soon
  • Posted by LethalFantasia
    And how does it play out for you? Do you relate to it?

    I'm an Aries Venus in the 6th House.

    I am supposed to be a cheater and someone who gets over people easily but it's so not true.

    I mean, sometimes I meet people and I'm smitten by them, and then I get to know their personality and habits and become disgusted by them. So I guess that's the Aries Venus? But when I truly connect with someone it's so hard for me to move on.

    What is the rest of your chart?
  • I have Leo Venus in the 4th.
    I am very guarded and cautious. I am sensitive in relationships. I SPOIL my SO more than I should. I love making the other happy. It is very very hard to let go. It is hard to fall in love but when I do its all or nothing.
    I am selfless in relationships.