Posted by TheBeautifulStrugglePosted by oxlostxo
As in terms of not getting along with the slightest.
Libra here ... I don't know why they say we are supposed to get along ... I can't stand them
Ex boss Libra, ex team leader Libra, ex colleague Libra, current manager Libra ... they all full of butter .. talk and no action ... inefficient and unorganised ... so arrogant .. they drive this Aries crazy!
I don't know where you read that says we were supposed to get along ethier.click to expand
Posted by tiki33
XO I see what you mean but you aren't really cognitive of how your dealing with this man because your love for him runs deep, you have formed a very intense bond with him which is blinding you to his behavior and preventing you from taking care of yourself when you need to instead you wait and you focus on him and his behavior growing more and more clingy and dependent, you are just giving away all of your power over this man and thus he's controlling you and he's controlling your happiness/feelings and on top of that you REWARDED him with a drink afterwards, he took you home and instead of you worrying about yourself you actually STOPPED yourself from feeling angry and instead worried about how things were going to be with him if he went away knowing you were angry, no wonder he's so thoughtless, it's all about him.
You can't even see how you are setting your own self up to feel sad and disappointed and taken for granted, had you did what you initially thought to do which is leave, catch a cab and go home he'd probably gain not only some insight on how thoughtless he's treating you but gain some respect for you as well but as it stands he pretty much know you're going to reward him with more love, more attention, sulk, pout like a child, stand in a corner like your fine, pretend your okay with his thoughtless behavior so there really is no incentive for him to change and I don't see how he can treat you better when you aren't even behaving like an adult woman and honoring your own feelings first, if you throw yourself aside in the presence of a man he'll never think about you first.