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Pathos
joined April 11, 2018
  • Most of the guys I have fell for are Leo's.... Never in a relationship with one though.. 😛
  • You need to go see a psychologist. I have been there and I have friends that have it worse like you.
    You can find one for free at social care departments. Make some research on this.
    Also you need to find out why exactly you feel like that and to know that at some point you will have to get out and face the fear step by step to gain a normal life again. Wish you the best and don't give up. Unfortunately you are the only person that can take care of yourself sometimes. You need to take care of you as even your own mother doesn't care about this.
  • That's an interesting topic for me cause I recently discovered my personal style that feels natural to me on flirting.
    I experimented for some time with my friends ways of flirting and attracting men cause they seemed to work. It brought me some men but not the ones for me lol. I am 20 and not very experienced also still testing the waters.

    So the style that works and feels natural to me too as for now is more sweet and less outwardly sexy. I am more sensual than sexual.
    Not a cookiemonster for sure 😂
    Not the girl with the crazy make up and eyeliner or high heels. I am probably the girly, artistic, romantic girl... Well...!!! 💃
    I have Mars in Cap end of 12th conjuct the Ascendant. That actually plays out like I may dress in a more sexual way but not have the intention to do something, just to attract peoples attention or cause I feel like dressing this way.
    But at the end of the day my Mars is not a 1st house Mars. It's a 12th house Mars, three degrees from the Ascendant but still in the 12th. It likes to express itself behind the scenes when alone or in private . I am passive aggressive. I rarely have an argument or outburst of anger but when I do it gets bad and passes the lines. I am romantic, sensitive and probably have some other sides too as everyone, but I still like to express them in private.
    My venus is in Capricorn in 1st house conjuct Mars, Ascendant and Neptune. I can really tap into every role (Neptune) and charm is a piece of cake for me and my initial reaction. People have always called me sweet and smiley lol.
    Bottomline is being who you are and actually happy with it is the only thing that can bring you what you want and need. 💖💃p.s Sagittarius sun squad lol hahahaha
  • I am not sure. I feel I have been depressed and currently getting out of it.
    From my experience it needs time, reframe your thinking and perspective and will to get better. Visiting a psychologist is worth it but don't rely fully on him to solve all of your issues cause at the end of the day you are the person that can make your life better and the way you want it.
  • I have a Capricorn rising but my 1st house is full. I have Mars from 12th conjuct the Ascendant. Also Venus in 1st conjuct the Ascendant. Then I also have Neptune, and intercepted Jupiter and Uranus in my 1st house. Too many energies blend in my personality and its true I have always worried and had difficulty with knowing who I am and how others perceive me.
    My 7th house cusp is Cancer.
    When I observed my behavior a little I found out I am a lot Cancer like in my close relationships.
  • Posted by lisabethur8
    Posted by Pathos
    My MC is Scorpio conjuct Chiron. I think I see and feel that.


    alot of MC Scorpio have a very very sexual look...

    for example,

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    Oh I am not sure..... Maybe. I have Neptune in my Ascendant too.
  • My MC is Scorpio conjuct Chiron. I think I see and feel that.
  • Moon in Cap 7° conjuct Mercury in Cap 1° in 12th house. Overthinking
  • Posted by DMV
    My venus in capricorn sextile moon in scorpio was chilvary and complete intimacy.

    I like this description. I think it's suits me too. Sag sun with everything else in Capricorn. And venus conjunct Neptune lol.
  • Posted by dreamer18
    I think maybe I should work on my personal problems first. Because, yes, I am really weird and and I do not know how to talk with males.
    But I also have self esteem issues, I am anxious etc

    Hey I am almost 21 and a virgin yet. I was in your place sometime ago and got me sometime and boys to feel comfortable with the whole situation. Men don't have issues with you being shy, they may like that especially if you are sweet too. Don't stress yourself. Get out there be friendly and flirt and in a little time men with begin to show around and get interested. Take care of your appearance in a normal sense and do what it takes to feel good and beautiful with yourself. And yes don't push yourself. You will feel worst then. When a guy is genuinely interested in you, you will see that because you will feel good, comfortable and nice by the way he treats you. Wish you the best. And forget about the shyness. You are not shy. You just don't have the experience yet. Repeating yourself that you are shy all the time only makes you believe and act more like that and makes things worst in the end.
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  • I would like to know your experiences with hemisphere emphasis on the natal chart.
    Personally I have most of my personal planets on the southern eastern part of the chart and an equal number of outer planets on the northern eastern part. I spend a lot of time by myself, I am very self protective and also I have difficulty with intimacy. Tell me about you.
  • Posted by lisabethur8
    Posted by Pathos
    Posted by lisabethur8
    Posted by Pathos
    Posted by MyStarsShine
    Posted by Pathos
    Posted by MyStarsShine
    Ist house placements = it's allllll about me, me, me

    I've a full 7th house = it's all about we, we,we (other people)

    I can't stand self absorption...it's what well raised children grow out of

    🙄

    Exactly... But keep in mind a 7th house emphasis could mean you give yourself away to others and sacrifice too much.
    7th house dominant people do not grow out of self absorption... They begin right away by being focused on others.


    Yes indeed, we do!

    That is changing now....thanks for the affirmation 😊

    "Proudly single for almost five years"

    It's a bloody miracle..my 7th is still in a profound state of shock 😀



    Hahaha a bloody miracle to be single for 5 years OMG....... My 1st house stellium still waits for a relationship the last 2 years.


    lol @ the 7th house and 1st house stelliumLaughing


    i'm a 1st house stellium lol its hard for me to stay single.. I love being with someone so much.

    Well maybe there's another explanation why I am single lol.... I have 3 planets in 12th too.


    what are the 3 planets in 12th?


    i can't imagine having more than one... talk about submersion.
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    Moon, mercury, Mars (end of 12th conjunction the Asc) in Capricorn
  • Posted by BillieJean
    Posted by Pathos
    Posted by lisabethur8
    Posted by Pathos
    Posted by MyStarsShine
    Posted by Pathos
    Posted by MyStarsShine
    Ist house placements = it's allllll about me, me, me

    I've a full 7th house = it's all about we, we,we (other people)

    I can't stand self absorption...it's what well raised children grow out of

    🙄

    Exactly... But keep in mind a 7th house emphasis could mean you give yourself away to others and sacrifice too much.
    7th house dominant people do not grow out of self absorption... They begin right away by being focused on others.


    Yes indeed, we do!

    That is changing now....thanks for the affirmation 😊

    "Proudly single for almost five years"

    It's a bloody miracle..my 7th is still in a profound state of shock 😀



    Hahaha a bloody miracle to be single for 5 years OMG....... My 1st house stellium still waits for a relationship the last 2 years.


    lol @ the 7th house and 1st house stelliumLaughing


    i'm a 1st house stellium lol its hard for me to stay single.. I love being with someone so much.

    Well maybe there's another explanation why I am single lol.... I have 3 planets in 12th too.


    It's interesting because I was reading up on my Saturn in the 1st house, according the the site if you have a planet in the 7th house that is in opposition to your Saturn in the 1st house, then you will most likely be the type to enter a relationship later in life or be with a person much older than you. I happen to have my Libra mars in the 7th in opposition to my Aries Saturn in the 1st. For me that made sense lol because I have yet to enter a relationship and Im 21. A lot of people my age were dating even in middle school, but not me. Maybe you have Saturn in the 1st house?
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    Oh I see. I am 21 too and haven't had a serious relationship still. I have a Cap rising and Saturn in Aries in 3rd. I think for me there's some psychological blockage though.
  • Posted by BillieJean
    Posted by Pathos
    Posted by lisabethur8
    Posted by Pathos
    Posted by MyStarsShine
    Posted by Pathos
    Posted by MyStarsShine
    Ist house placements = it's allllll about me, me, me

    I've a full 7th house = it's all about we, we,we (other people)

    I can't stand self absorption...it's what well raised children grow out of

    🙄

    Exactly... But keep in mind a 7th house emphasis could mean you give yourself away to others and sacrifice too much.
    7th house dominant people do not grow out of self absorption... They begin right away by being focused on others.


    Yes indeed, we do!

    That is changing now....thanks for the affirmation 😊

    "Proudly single for almost five years"

    It's a bloody miracle..my 7th is still in a profound state of shock 😀



    Hahaha a bloody miracle to be single for 5 years OMG....... My 1st house stellium still waits for a relationship the last 2 years.


    lol @ the 7th house and 1st house stelliumLaughing


    i'm a 1st house stellium lol its hard for me to stay single.. I love being with someone so much.

    Well maybe there's another explanation why I am single lol.... I have 3 planets in 12th too.


    It's interesting because I was reading up on my Saturn in the 1st house, according the the site if you have a planet in the 7th house that is in opposition to your Saturn in the 1st house, then you will most likely be the type to enter a relationship later in life or be with a person much older than you. I happen to have my Libra mars in the 7th in opposition to my Aries Saturn in the 1st. For me that made sense lol because I have yet to enter a relationship and Im 21. A lot of people my age were dating even in middle school, but not me. Maybe you have Saturn in the 1st house?
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    Oh I see. I am 21 too and haven't had a serious relationship still. I have a Cap rising and Saturn in Aries in 3rd. I think for me there's some psychological blockage though.
  • Posted by lisabethur8
    Posted by Pathos
    Posted by MyStarsShine
    Posted by Pathos
    Posted by MyStarsShine
    Ist house placements = it's allllll about me, me, me

    I've a full 7th house = it's all about we, we,we (other people)

    I can't stand self absorption...it's what well raised children grow out of

    🙄

    Exactly... But keep in mind a 7th house emphasis could mean you give yourself away to others and sacrifice too much.
    7th house dominant people do not grow out of self absorption... They begin right away by being focused on others.


    Yes indeed, we do!

    That is changing now....thanks for the affirmation 😊

    "Proudly single for almost five years"

    It's a bloody miracle..my 7th is still in a profound state of shock 😀



    Hahaha a bloody miracle to be single for 5 years OMG....... My 1st house stellium still waits for a relationship the last 2 years.


    lol @ the 7th house and 1st house stelliumLaughing


    i'm a 1st house stellium lol its hard for me to stay single.. I love being with someone so much.
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    Well maybe there's another explanation why I am single lol.... I have 3 planets in 12th too.
  • Posted by dreamer18
    Posted by Pathos
    Posted by dreamer18
    Every placement has both positive and nega
    Posted by Pathos
    What do you mean?

    I have Sun, Mercury, Uranus and Neptune in 10th house

    That actually means you have 4 planets in the 10th house, called a stellium, that indicates focused energy in this life area.

    Thanks for telling me. I hope its a good placement.
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    Every placement has both positive and negative qualities. But they are nice placements, could indicate professional success.
  • Posted by MyStarsShine
    Posted by Pathos
    Posted by MyStarsShine
    Ist house placements = it's allllll about me, me, me

    I've a full 7th house = it's all about we, we,we (other people)

    I can't stand self absorption...it's what well raised children grow out of

    🙄

    Exactly... But keep in mind a 7th house emphasis could mean you give yourself away to others and sacrifice too much.
    7th house dominant people do not grow out of self absorption... They begin right away by being focused on others.


    Yes indeed, we do!

    That is changing now....thanks for the affirmation 😊

    "Proudly single for almost five years"

    It's a bloody miracle..my 7th is still in a profound state of shock 😀

    click to expand


    Hahaha a bloody miracle to be single for 5 years OMG....... My 1st house stellium still waits for a relationship the last 2 years.
  • Posted by dreamer18
    Posted by Pathos
    What do you mean?

    I have Sun, Mercury, Uranus and Neptune in 10th house
    click to expand

    That actually means you have 4 planets in the 10th house, called a stellium, that indicates focused energy in this life area.
  • Posted by MyStarsShine
    Ist house placements = it's allllll about me, me, me

    I've a full 7th house = it's all about we, we,we (other people)

    I can't stand self absorption...it's what well raised children grow out of

    🙄

    Exactly... But keep in mind a 7th house emphasis could mean you give yourself away to others and sacrifice too much.
    7th house dominant people do not grow out of self absorption... They begin right away by being focused on others.