If you're a Libra man reading this, please let me know how to get you back and through you after a long and rough time in a relationship? I don't mean it in an aggressive way. I mean it in a nice and healthy way of making a Libra man feel comfortable, nice and happy again. I'm a Leo woman, we're together for 3,5 years. It's been great and it's been really, really hard as well. The arguing and all the drama has damaged a lot and mostly it feels like I'm the only one who's trying and makes effort for us to get better and make feel each other better. I'm respecting his private space when he asks for it but mentally I'm really struggling. I try to be a better partner, better friend for him, for myself and for us, but it does feel like he's ignoring that. I see that he's digging up in his work and avoids any type of conversations that I'm initiating (that includes talking about our feelings, emotions and sorting problems). It almost feels like there's this wall that I can't break through. Conversations about any other topics are no problem. When we're together, he's rarely expressing physical touch or emotional bond. He's not being rude or disrespectful, rather distant and cautios. He's been admitting that, as well.
When we're seperate, we're communicating the whole day via texting and typically it's just small talk during the day. He's usually the one who's texting first, wants to communicate. Somehow it feels like he's lost his feelings or interest in me and wants us to be friends. I've asked him if he still loves me, the answer has always been yes.
To make things better, I text nice messages, leave small, cute notes. Few days ago I left our hometown for work and left small note on his side of the bed that said that I love and appreciate him. He took a photo of it and replied with kiss emoji.
I try to express my feelings in a way that would cheer me up and make me smile, feel better.
I'm trying my best by being supportive, calm, respecting his needs but it's really hard when you're trying your best and hardest, but those small, everyday things that are supposed to make you feel nice are being avoided and not appreciated. Is there a possibility that he needs more space and a lot of time for healing? Do I have to be more patient? Is there a way to fix this or should I stop trying and move on?
@2Moon he recently broke up with his long term relationship girlfriend. we both agreed on having open and truthful communication with no lies and secrets, because he hates them and so do I. Our communication is great. Its free, its open minded, etc. We are really good friends now. He just gets me confused, because I can feel the vibe he is into me as much as I am into him, especially in real life. He has never denied it also.
I am a Leo woman and about 2-3 months ago I started communication with Libra guy. We started our communication as friends and we still are very good ones. When I started to catch some feelings towards him, I was hiding it, because he said that does not want anything more than friendship (commitment and responsibility). We have not gone to any decent dates, but we have met several times just to hang out which led us to kissing and flirting with each other. Now the situation is completely confusing, because I have opened up to him about my feelings and he is starting to push me away, but not cutting any communication out. He is still friendly and nice, but when it comes to flirting and making bigger step, he completely pushes me away by ignoring nice texts or saying that he is afraid I want something from him that does not exist. I have asked him about his feelings and he admitted that feels an attachment and likes me, but does not want anything else even tho we talk every single day (messages, phone calls, video chats), kiss and hug when meet, flirt, etc. (we meet rarely, because he lives in a different city) Has someone been in a similar situation? Should I just drop out and forget about him? I have read that Libra and Leo makes the best match, and I feel it when we are together in person, but why is he pushing away, avoiding his feelings, possibly lying or being scared of something?
We, Leo girls are playful, that's why it is sometimes difficult to understand us. From my point of view, I'd say she loves you.. If a Leo says something like that, then it's true. We like when men chase us, so I suggest to do so, but don't be too pushy. We never get bored of gifts and compliments if they aren't too cheesy. If u are worried, I suggest to talk to her - we like honesty and respect truthful people. And trust me - she is thankful for your gifts even if she forgets to say it out loud. You are completely safe in this situation!
Hello, I wanted to know if Aqua men tend to lie despite their honor of truthful people and honesty in general? I've read that they like honest people who can talk things through, but what about themselves? Is it possible that they say sweet lies because of wanting to get out of situations they don't feel comfortable with (even tho they are politely asked to be honest) or they are truthful?
If Aqua man says that he wants to end building friendship/relationship right now, sort his things out and after that give me a call, will that happen? Or is it sweet lies and he just wanted to get rid of other person?