@ Candeh: I spoke about that with a collegue today, she's a cancer with virgo bf, and I'm a Pisces with virgo bf, so we have a lot in common. She said the exact same thing. If a virgo sense that they're going to be hurt, they walk away before it happens or will hurt you first.
@Beergo: you virgo's aren't that difficult after all
it was a slap in the face when he opened up to me between the sheets...I was totally flabbergasted LOL kinda like...HUH?!! Where did I dig you up? or beneath what stone did you live?!
I know what he's capable off, and yes I want it everytime, but I'm not pressuring him, it will be only better if he's the one initiating LOL...with my virgo, nudity won't make him hot. Make him feel comfortable, have a great conversation, be sweet, and be yourself will get him hotter than hot!
my experience with my virgo as lover is positive too, now I'm standing a bit different in our relationship. I understand more where he's coming from, and I can adjust to it. He is so passionate! it really has that WOW effect LOL
I've learned from my virguy that I was deadly selfish. I was thinking about me, what I wanted, what I missed, what my needs were, and never stood still what my virguy wanted. Yes he likes sex, but gets in the mood when we're actually already started. My body is on fire when I'm only thinking about it. Pressure him to get between the sheets won't get me anywhere. He gets distant if I'm all over him almost screaming I want him I now know that if I'm not pressuring him, he'll come to me, and even if he doesn't come to me for some fire between the sheets, I still know he wants me. Virgoans don't have sex on high prioirty (ok with my virgo that is) He can satisfy me on other levels. It's true that you can see love from virgoans in their actions (not only sex related)
When we have sex it's heaven on earth. I know we all have needs, but it's give and take. If everything is perfect for a virgo, you can get him to do everything...if there's the slightest thing off, it just won't happen.
Yes, sex can be love too, but love is more than physical contact. I think you should loosen up a bit about the sex thing. I understand your needs driving you nuts, but you'll be tense around him, he'll pick it up, and can be distant, cause he just hate tense atmospheres...